Beyond the Noisy World: The Long Lost Eight Sects: 192, who can I talk to?

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The problem that Yan Xile registered for help is "inner conflict". In fact, almost all psychological problems are manifested in inner conflict, such as anxiety, tension, regret, self-blame, loss, depression... etc. Wait. This Dean Yan may not be able to describe exactly what kind of psychological distress he has, so he registered such a general statement.

A bizarre medical incident occurred in the Affiliated Hospital of Jinghu University last week. The change time was mainly aimed at Dean Yan, but what made Yan Xile depressed was that he was not present at all.

Many universities have built faculty and staff living quarters on their campuses. There are two main types: one is the expert building where school leaders and well-known experts live, and the other is the single apartment where young workers live. Liu Feng lives in the expert building, while Ding Qi once lived in a single dormitory.

The expert building on the campus of Jinghu University has long been occupied by previous school leaders and big-name experts who became famous earlier. Yan Xile is relatively young, and there was no house when it was his turn. So he lives in a community near the school. The road is not far away. It takes two bus stops to Dongdaemun. If the weather is good, he can walk to work.

This morning, Yan Xile walked out of the house as usual. As a well-known surgical expert, he has both teaching tasks and medical work. This day, he should go to the affiliated hospital for work. It takes about 20 years to get to the hospital. minute. On the street outside the community, a van was parked in front of a small supermarket, and someone was unloading goods.

The unloading worker is the driver of the truck. He opened the door of the truck and moved out pieces of cardboard boxes such as mineral water, canned beer, and instant noodles. The owner of the small supermarket stood below and followed. After the cargo was unloaded, the driver didn't pay attention when he got out of the car and suddenly fell down.

When Yan Xile came closer, she realized that something was wrong. The supermarket owner wanted to help the truck driver up, but the truck driver had a painful expression while clutching his chest and ribs, and his face turned purple as if he could not breathe. Out of professional sensitivity, Yan Xile immediately stopped the supermarket owner's move to support the driver, gave the injured a simple check, and reminded the boss to call 120 for an ambulance.

The fall was very unlucky and injured his ribs and caused a pneumothorax, and the condition was very serious and life-threatening. It seemed that he would die of breathing difficulties before the ambulance arrived. Dean Yan made a decisive action, collected the materials on the spot in the small supermarket, and after simple disinfection, he performed an emergency surgical treatment of puncture and exhaust.

The ambulance arrived about 20 minutes later, and there was a bit of traffic jam during the rush hour. The owner of the restaurant called 120. The dispatch of the medical rescue center was based on the principle of nearby treatment and convenient transportation. The ambulance sent did not send the injured to the Jinghu University Affiliated Hospital, but to the Jiangguan District People’s Hospital in another direction. .

When the paramedics arrived, they were also taken aback. I didn't expect that someone could perform a puncture operation in time under such simple conditions and save the injured. They didn't know Yan Xile, and Dean Yan declared himself and left with the ambulance.

Yan Xile did not distrust the doctors of the district hospital. He did the emergency surgery. He knew the situation best. The injured had to be sent to the hospital for formal treatment. He had to explain some precautions. Yan Xile also worried that if there was an accident on the road or after the patient was sent to the hospital, not only would the patient be in danger, but he would not be able to make it clear.

After arriving at the Jiangguan District People’s Hospital, after confirming that the wounded was not in danger, Yan Xile sat in the dean’s room and chatted for a while before leaving. When he arrived at the Jinghu University Affiliated Hospital, he had been late for nearly three hours. .

A surgical expert who saved a life on the way to work is just a simple minor operation for Dean Yan, but it is also proud enough. This behavior is commendable, and such a person is also worthy of respect.

But on this morning, there was an incident at Jinghu University Affiliated Hospital. A trauma patient was admitted to the emergency department, but died after the rescue failed. The patient’s family was very sad, but no other accidents happened at that time.

Two trainee nurses on duty in the emergency room talked privately. One nurse said: “Doctor Wen seems to be under a little mental pressure because he was not rescued, so he hid outside and smoked, watching I feel so depressed."

Another nurse said: "After all, I’m still young. It seems that this is the first time I have encountered this kind of thing. If I have more experience, it would be fine. If it is Dean Yan, I don’t think it will be... Hey, Dean Yan. Go? He is the mentor of Doctor Wen."

The previous nurse said again: "Yes, Dean Yan is in the class today, why hasn't he been here yet? Just like Dean Yan, maybe you can..."

Actually, Yan Xile called the office after arriving at the district hospital, saying that he would be delayed because of something, but the office told him that there was nothing in the hospital, so he didn't have to worry. But the two trainee nurses didn't know about this situation, and no one would specifically inform them.

It’s hard to say what the conversation between these two nurses really means. They shouldn’t be talking about Dr. Wen’s medical level. It’s just that Dr. Wen is still relatively young. He hasn’t encountered many such situations before. Looking at the emergency patients who have not been rescued, their tolerance is still relatively weak, so they feel psychologically depressed and depressed.

In fact, this reaction has nothing to do with age and experience, but more experienced people have experienced enough and know how to adjust themselves. But these words happened to be heard by the family of the deceased, and they had another understanding of this.

There was a well-known surgical expert who was supposed to be on duty in the hospital but did not come. When the injured was sent to the emergency room, only another inexperienced young doctor was responsible, which led to the death of ineffective rescue...this The logic seems to be valid, not to mention that the family members are in the pain of losing their loved ones and need to find a way to vent their emotions.

In the conversation between the two nurses, Dean Yan was clearly mentioned. You will know who Dean Yan is if you inquire a little bit, but he was supposed to be in the hospital that morning but he didn't come. Some things cannot be assumed, but they cannot prevent people from making various assumptions and then finding the one that best suits them.

If Dean Yan was present at the time, the wounded might not die. It was Dr. Wen’s inexperience and Dean Yan’s unauthorized resignation that led to the death of the injured, so Dean Yan, Dr. Wen and the hospital All should be held responsible for this... Once the emotions are amplified, it is difficult to control it again. Not only was Yan Xile complained by the family of the deceased, but also suffered various attacks.

Of course, it is impossible for the hospital to throw Dean Yan out. Dean Yan’s late arrival has nothing to do with the death of the injured, and it did not affect the normal work of the emergency room. Of course, there is more than one surgeon in the hospital. It will not be his turn if he is long there. After inspecting the medical records and emergency operation records, Dean Yan also firmly denied that Dr. Wen had made any mistakes in his handling.

This incident, in fact, can't even talk about a medical accident, and the complaint was of course unsuccessful. However, this result angered the family of the deceased, so they took the matter to the media, and the main content of the spread was: the surgical expert left without authorization, and the emergency patient died without rescuing.

Once public opinion was incited, Dean Yan felt tremendous pressure, and he felt very powerless.

Although he can claim that he was late because he was saving someone on the way to work, the statement itself is like an excuse for the offending party. In fact, his lateness has nothing to do with the death of the patient. If this point is emphasized, it would seem to acknowledge the responsibility of the hospital and Doctor Ding, including himself, just to restore his reputation. This left him speechless.

So Dean Yan asked Ding Qi if he had watched the Jinghu News recently, and he was referring to this incident.

Families of the deceased have constructed a logic of events that can be fully supported by public opinion; and the support of public opinion has once again intensified their out-of-control emotions. They ran to the hospital and jammed outside the dean's room in an attempt to directly attack Yan Xile. This dramatic event finally subsided in another, more dramatic way.

Dean Yan rescued a truck driver on the way to work. After knowing his identity, the truck driver came to the hospital to thank him for saving his life, but he saw such a scene. He was also very angry and emotionally impulsive. A phone call called a group of workers, carrying a wrench and large pliers, and beat the people who were blocking the dean's room to make trouble, and finally they called the police.

Actually, the hospital called the police first, but the police successfully dissuaded the family of the deceased, and suddenly this happened again. Both parties who fought in the hospital were eventually taken to the police station by the police.

But the police station is not easy to deal with. It can only mediate as much as possible and criticize and educate both parties. Although one party was beaten with a bruised face, but did not suffer any serious injuries, in the end... . The truck drivers got the upper hand and threatened each other after leaving the police station.

In this case, the family of the deceased seems to be able to use the power of public opinion again, such as the hype up the hospital not only evading responsibility, but also hiring social idlers to beat up the family of the deceased. But this time, they did not choose to do so. Perhaps they have calmed down, or there may be other reasons. In the eyes of bystanders, the situation has calmed down.

Families of the deceased are just ordinary people, and they themselves have no ability to manipulate public opinion. The reason why they have sparked an upsurge of public opinion before is that this unilateral topic that can arouse social attention is fermented and spread in the mass media.

But the second incident does not seem to have much hype value. A group of people blocked the door and besieged a doctor. The doctor rescued a truck driver. The group accused the doctor of saving people on the way to work. As a result, a group of truck drivers beat the group. It's all released.

There is nothing to stir about this matter, and there is no hot spot to guide public opinion, that is, it is not good to have a rhythm as the saying goes.

Although the situation has subsided on the surface, Yan Xile's heart is hard to rest. He is a scholar first, and like many scholars, he values ​​fame, prestige and social influence very much. It's not that Dean Yan has never been in the news, but in the past, the news was about what he achieved, what commendations he received, and what activities he participated in or attended without much public attention.

This is the first time that he has become the subject of public opinion, and in a very negative image, it is like the evaluation of life collapsed. After an intellectual has made achievements in academics, he often cares about whether he has a good social image, so such encounters are particularly shocking to Yan Xile, and he has no place to reason.

Yan Xile has been suffering from insomnia for almost a week, but in school and hospital, he still pretends to be nonchalant, not wanting others to see his mental burden. At least in his social circle, no one criticized him and expressed condolences. The school leaders also clearly told him that he had done nothing wrong in this incident and that his saving behavior should be commended.

Yan Xile himself tried his best to avoid mentioning saving people on the way to work, because that would make him think of more unpleasant and even unacceptable things.

After listening to Dean Yan’s remarks, Ding Qi also sighed secretly. Dean Yan’s psychological problems are indeed inner conflicts, and it may be the most serious one, between the philosophy of life and social reality. conflict. Although Dean Yan is a surgical expert, he also understands psychology, but he can't solve the pressure from "self".

Ding Qi smiled gently and said: "Dean Yan, you know what is right and wrong. If anyone wants to say something, I am afraid you will understand it. But the inner conflict cannot be resolved, so you Come to me."

Yan Xile smiled: "Yes, I know a little bit about psychology. Actually, I just came to talk to you today to resolve depression in my chest."

Ding Qi: "You really didn't save the wrong person, that truck driver is very righteous! I'm just a little curious, how can he call a group of truck drivers and help him with it?"

It seems to be a simple chat. Ding Qi's expression and tone are very relaxed, but his mind is highly focused, and his brain is running fast. The amount of information in this series of events is too large, and he is also looking for the most appropriate entry point for the meeting in the process of establishing his mind book, as if he talked about this topic casually.

Yan Xile laughed again: "Xiao Ding, you don’t know the situation well, I only found out later. This batch of truck drivers were originally from a state-owned enterprise fleet, but the company was acquired and they were laid off. The driver named Bu was originally the captain of the team and had some resources, so he pulled the team out for freight and joined a logistics company.

They usually use walkie-talkies to contact them on the road. Whenever they encounter something, they will scream, and the drivers who are available will rush over. There are so many more than 20 cars in total. Xiaobu is the head of this group. He usually drives the delivery by himself, which is very appealing..."

Ding Qi: "Oh, it turned out to be like this, this person is really good!"

President Yan nodded in agreement: "Yes, I think so too."

Ding Qi's words turned around: "Since Dean Yan understands the truth, I am afraid that I am not here to ask you questions. The matter itself is very clear. Do you have questions that you want to ask me?" /

Dean Yan: "Yes, yes, I really want to ask you, an expert, a few questions."

Ding Qi: "I dare not be an expert. I am also your student. If you have any questions, just ask."

Dean Yan: "Then tell me, should I punish myself, even if I am late?"

According to general conventions, in units like this, if there is a big impact, someone usually has to take responsibility. This is the saying goes. But this time, no one can say that Dean Yan has any responsibilities, and everyone said words of comfort. Dean Yan also resolutely protected Doctor Wen in the hospital, and did not make Dr. Wen take any responsibility, even the performance bonus for the month was not deducted.

But Dean Yan was late that day after all, and was absent for almost the entire morning. The family of the deceased complained that he had left his post without authorization. Although the complaint was unreasonable and was not accepted, Dean Yan was still worried. Although he saved people on the way to work, he was late if he was late. At least a bonus should be deducted, right?

But who can make this decision? In fact, the dean had the final say. If it happened to other doctors, Dean Yan must decide what to do, but this time it happened to himself.

If you don't deal with yourself at all, Dean Yan thinks it is not enough to lead by example, but if you really deal with it this way, Dean Yan feels too deliberate. For such a big event, it would be too easy to punish yourself for being late after the fact, and it seems that it was deliberately made to seek fame and reputation, but it will cause more discussion.

Ding Qi smiled: "If the client is not you, but another doctor in the hospital, would you punish him for being late?"

Dean Yan shook his head: "Of course not! There are various exceptions to your psychiatrist's professional regulations. There is a sudden accident on the way to work, neither subjective intention nor predictable in advance. It is completely unnecessary to be late. Punishment, not to mention that he should do that. Since I have the right not to punish me, then I will definitely not punish him for being late."

Ding Qi concluded at the right moment: "So your question is actually how to face yourself, face the self who has encountered all of this. You are both a client and an audience, and at the same time you are imagining more audiences. You seem to I care about what others think of me, but what is actually entangled is the contradiction between self-evaluation and external judgment. This is the source of inner conflict."

As the dean, Yan Xile doesn't punish him for being late this time. In fact, it is a trivial matter that no one else would care about. If it was his departure without authorization that caused the death of the injured, could it be solved by a late punishment? But Dean Yan always felt that he should do something, but he didn't know exactly how to do it. This feeling was very distressing.

An academic expert cherishes his reputation, hopes to have a good image, and wants to restore it as much as possible in some way. This mentality is understandable. But through such a small question, it can be seen that his self-cognition has been shaken, and he is clearly clear about how to do something, but he is not so sure.

In fact, most people can see or understand this kind of problem, but in many cases, they know it but there is no way to solve it, and comfort is not effective. Dean Yan found here, not for Ding Qi to evaluate who is right or wrong. And Ding Qi's responsibility is to restore his peace, so that when the elder walks out of the psychological clinic, he will no longer be troubled in his heart.

Dean Yan nodded when he heard the words: "Yes, as you said, I know the truth clearly, but I am very upset. To tell you, I often feel very weak these days, I told you clearly I should be strong to face it, but I still feel guilty... Tell me, what is my guilty conscience?"

Ding Qi: "Dean Yan, you seem to have misunderstood the word strong. Being strong is not about being strong, nor stubbornly thinking that you are right and don’t care about others’ eyes. It must first be clear. A clear, sober, reasonable, and healthy self-awareness is implemented in behavior to observe and persevere. This is a quality of will."

Dean Yan: "Xiao Ding, what do you think I should do? How can I get out of this state? If a surgeon is in a mess, he is not suitable for surgery. I even give lectures often now. Somewhat distracted."

Ding Qi thought for a while and said: "Dean Yan, let me tell you a story, a story of a child. You are not the same people, and the things you encounter are not the same, but the nature of the problem is okay. For reference, he is also troubled by inner conflict..."