Top Ten Good Mothers in Quick Transmigration Chapter 434: : A strong mother for you (5)

The two entered the entertainment circle at the same time.

In just two years, Song Wei has grown from an unknown actor to a popular niche today, with tens of millions of fans cheering for him.

As for Xu Qingge, she is still that mediocre extra, and a few months ago, she wasn't even an extra, and the three-year period has come, and she has to go back to her hometown.

After breaking up, she and Song Wei never saw each other again, and she only learned about him from the entertainment news.

Two years later, she still can't forget Song Wei, that was her first love, the only person she ever loved.

She knows that she and Song Wei are no longer possible, just like she can't go back to the entertainment industry to do her favorite performances, but can only go back to her hometown, listen to her mother, and find a man with good conditions Get married and have children, respect your in-laws and take care of your children at home.

It's just that Xu Qingge's scalp tingles when he thinks about that kind of life.

After each blind date, her mother or her aunt would symbolically ask "What do you think of that man?".

Xu Qingge said almost every time that she didn't like him.

She is telling the truth, her heart is very small, so small that she can only pretend to be Song Wei.

Every time she said that, her mother and her aunt would scoff.

"What do you say if you like it or not? Look at so many couples, who are married because they like to get married, almost, just make do with it and live a lifetime."

"Your dad and I were in a free relationship back then, but he didn't cheat. Xiao Ge, what's the use of liking, the man has a house and a car, and money is useful, so that he doesn't have to suffer."

"Xiaoge, if you like something you can't eat, we are doing it for your own good."

Sometimes, Xu Qingge is also confused, can marriage really be settled like this? For the rest of her life, she spent decades with a person she had only met a few times and did not understand at all, and she had to bear children for that person.

Xu Qingge couldn't understand it, nor could he accept it.

In Xu Qingge's heart, marriage should be sacred, how can a marriage without feelings be happy.

She thought that if she got married like that, she would definitely not be happy.

She often thinks, why do people get married?

Is it something you have to do when you reach that age?

For others, maybe it is, but for Xu Qingge, she doesn't think so.

Marriage is not just about having children, but about having someone who can share happiness, share pain and sorrow, and accompany each other and support each other for the rest of their lives.

Marriage means happiness and happiness can be 1+1 greater than 2.

But if you are less happy after marriage than before marriage, why do you want to get married?

The only person in Xu Qingge who had the idea of ​​getting married was Song Wei.

But Song Wei has already been driven away by her, and their worlds will no longer intersect.

She hates blind dates.

She didn't understand why her mother could immediately arrange a blind date for her not long after she broke up with Song Wei.

Does she think that after breaking up with Song Wei, she can immediately forget about it and turn around and marry someone else?

Does she think that her daughter has no heart and can let go immediately?

Or she didn't think about her feelings from her perspective at all.

Blind dates again and again, and "for your own good" made Xu Qingge feel oppressed and miserable. Standing by the windows of high-rise buildings several times, she felt that she was about to collapse.

Why, why can't you think about her from her perspective, she is really in pain sometimes, she is so painful that she doesn't want Xu Qingge to exist in this world.