Top Ten Good Mothers in Quick Transmigration Chapter 2155: : Love me, please don’t belittle me (4)

Latest URL: At this moment, memories flooded Yin Yin's mind, and she also learned information about this world.

In this world, the original owner has three children, the eldest daughter Xia Ji, the youngest daughter Xia Zhi, and the youngest son Xia Tian.

The two daughters were born to the original owner and her first husband. Now the eldest daughter, Xia Ji, is 23 years old. She just graduated from university not long ago. She is studying clinical medicine with excellent grades and even received a scholarship.

The youngest daughter is seventeen years old. She has just finished her second year of high school and is about to enter her third year of high school.

The first husband died unexpectedly shortly after the birth of his youngest daughter Xia Zhi.

At that time, the eldest daughter was only six years old.

Considering that the two children are still young, the original owner did not remarry immediately, but has been pulling the two daughters to grow up, life is relatively difficult.

The youngest son was born to her second husband. Only when Xia Tian was just one year old, that man proposed to divorce the original owner.

The reason given by the man is that it is inconsistent with the original owner's three views.

Of course the original owner disagreed, but the man made up his mind that he didn't even want his son, and insisted on a divorce.

The original owner didn't understand what her husband meant when he said that the three views were inconsistent. From her point of view, their life was obviously going well.

In the end, the two divorced, and their son Xia Tian was given to the original owner. He is now four years old and studying in kindergarten.

Speaking of the original owner, it is really difficult to describe in words.

Yin Yin just wanted to say that the character and behavior of the original owner is the normal state of many parents in Huaguo.

True and sad.

The original owner is a person with a strong desire to control, especially when dealing with the three children. She believes in one sentence: You were born by me, and I can do whatever I want. What's wrong with the thing, you were born by me, I am your mother, you have to listen, you have to do what I tell you to do, otherwise you have no conscience, and you should be punished.

A kind of suffocating control, controlling the child in the name of love, interfering with the child's choice, depriving her of her rights.

The original owner is still a person who likes to feel sorry for himself and kidnap children.

The words she often talks about are: I have worked so hard to bring you up, but you treat me like this, I have paid so much for you, do you still have a conscience; I have broken my heart for you, Can't eat well, sleep well, what do you want from me, do you want me to die to make you satisfied? Look, I have to work hard to make money outside every day, and I have to clean the floor, cook, and wash clothes when I come back. What have you done? I can’t do anything, I’m just saying a few words to you, you still refute, I’m not for you, you are still not obedient...

These words of self-pity and self-pity hide a deeper accusation and denial of the original owner towards the children, making the other party feel sorry for themselves and feel guilty. It also belittles children, making them feel that they are inferior to others, useless, and even unworthy of living in this world~IndoMTL.com~ Letting children see the "love" they give for their children is actually a kind of moral kidnapping.

Let the child unknowingly generate negative energy, guilt, and guilt, so that the child has to listen to her words. If he is disobedient, he has committed a serious crime and is a sinful person who should repent for the rest of his life.

Let the child feel that he exists and everything about him is wrong.

Let the child become more pessimistic, and over time, the whole person will become depressed.

And this kind of parents, there are many, many in China, so many that it is basically the norm.

That's why Yin Yin said it was true and sad.

The reason why the original owner's second husband divorced the original owner was also the original owner.

He is a university teacher. He knows that the original owner's education method and this three views are problematic. He tried to communicate with the original owner and asked her to change it, but the original owner didn't realize his mistake at all.