In The DC World With Marvel Chat Group Chapter 1076: Father and Son (5)

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Schiller, who was standing in front of the window, closed the curtains, and a hoarse voice came from behind him: "Doctor, what's the matter?"

"It's nothing, it seems that a meteor flew past just now." Schiller shook his head, turned back, and said to Robert lying on the bed: "Since Iron Man appeared, there have been more and more meteors over New York. I hope that the lovers of the academy will never know that the shooting star they dreamed of may just be a failed crash."

Robert on the bed seemed to be in a much better state of mind, and even smiled once because of this joke. Although his expression was still a little stiff, it was because he had taken sedative drugs.

"I'm sorry, Robert, because of your powerful ability, you must be accompanied by a sedative during the medication, otherwise, once you go crazy, everything here may be destroyed." Schiller held the notebook in his hand and sat down. Back to the side of the bed.

"Of course, doctor." Robert lowered his head, looked at his hands and said, "Since I have this ability, I have always been wreaking havoc. Sometimes, I can't tell the difference. Did I do it on purpose, or did I just get out of control..."

"Actually, when I don't have this ability, I always get into trouble." Robert looked a little sleepy, but seemed to have something to say, he said: "It's almost Christmas, right? I remember, The Christmas before I left home, the atmosphere in the room wasn't even as good as in the ward."

"What happened?" Schiller asked.

"I don't remember anymore." Robert shook his head and said, "But it's a small thing anyway, maybe I didn't fly to the nearest airport for him to pick me up, or maybe I brought something he didn't like. Girlfriend go back..."

"Who is he?"

"My father." Robert twisted the sheets with his hands, and Schiller looked into his eyes and said, "You never mentioned your family to me. What kind of person is your father?"

"Just like the father of the whole world." Robert gave a general answer, but then he added: "I hope I can do everything according to his wishes and live a happy life." What he thinks of success, regardless of whether I want to live such a life or not."

"From your attitude, you should be unwilling?" Schiller poured Robert a glass of water, but Robert shook his head slightly and said, "He is a successful person recognized by society. Such a life Nothing bad."

"The only bad thing is that since I was three years old, he hopes that I can live like him, every word, deed, and every action must conform to the childhood behavior of a successful prosecutor."

"It seems that he put a lot of pressure on you."

"Actually, I never knew what he wanted me to do." Under the effect of the sedative, Robert's thoughts were a little dazed, but this made him say what was in his heart: "Maybe, he doesn't even know , what does he want me to do..."

"He was successful, so he felt that as long as I followed the path he arranged, I would be successful too. However, the path he took was not arranged for him by others, and there was nothing in it. Law."

" So, sometimes, he asks me to do this, and after a while, he asks me to do that again. The tone of the command is exactly the same as the serious attitude, but what he wants me to do is completely different, or even opposite. "

"He said that I should not be playful and smile, but be serious and serious, but he also said that I should not be cold-faced to my classmates and teachers, and I should express myself lively."

"He said that I should have a sense of responsibility and justice, but he also said that I should be flexible and have both ways."

"If I can't do it, he said, that's what he did at the beginning, and he achieved success by relying on this ability. If I really learned his behavior seriously, I wouldn't look so stupid ..."

Robert closed his eyes, and said in a dry voice: "He would often get angry for no reason, and ask me if I thought he was not worthy of being my father, and if I liked my mother more, because my grandfather was more Rich, ask me if I look down on him..."

After Robert fell silent, Schiller sighed deeply. If he had to judge, Robert's father's personality was so typical that it could appear in textbooks, and the same was true of his failure in education.

"First thing, it's not your fault." Schiller looked at Robert, set the tone of the matter first, and then said: "Your father is not educating a child, but educating the failure of myself."

As soon as Robert was about to open his mouth, Schiller nodded and said, "Indeed, in terms of social class, he has achieved a relatively high status, but this does not mean that he is not a failure."

"Your father is acting very proud of what he has achieved so far, and emphasizing his success when he talks about it to anyone, but what he doesn't say is that he still has too much. unsatisfied desire."

" These desires may be too great to be satisfied, or it may destroy his perfect image, or it may be morally ashamed to speak, but in fact, he is not as satisfied as he has shown. status quo.”

"But he can use another form to express his desire, that is to 'educate' you."

"In you, build the self-esteem that he failed to build, and beautify your unspeakable greed into expectations for you."

Robert turned to look at Schiller, and Schiller crossed the fingers of his hands together, put them in front of him, and said: "And he doesn't do this to others, he only does it to you, and it's not because he loves you at all." , just because, you are a child, you can't resist, you can't even tell."

" He uses the perfect life he thinks he should have in his mind, and the abilities he thinks he needs to achieve this perfect life, to guide you now, which is neither correct nor selfish. "

"Going a little further, he thinks that he didn't get a perfect life because of bad luck. He feels that if he starts all over again, he will be able to make up for his regrets and be more successful."

"He thinks that you are his chance to start all over again. He firmly believes that he has already got the answer to the exam paper of life, and he must fill it in according to his answer. If you don't, he will I think you don't know what to do."

"But in fact, if he really had the ability to answer every question right, he would have lived the life he wanted."

"The answers he came up with were actually made up of his mediocre life. These experiences are not the correct answers. If you answer all the correct answers step by step, you will not get a high score."

"But he won't believe all of this." Schiller shook his head and said, "He will only become more and more dissatisfied with you, thinking that you are useless, that's why he got the correct answer and didn't answer the question correctly. .”

"Even if you were a completely emotionless robot, copying every step he said, but in the end, when you still didn't get the success he hoped for, he would just say, 'Why didn't you opinion?'."

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"He is holding a 60-point test paper, not only asking you to answer 60 points with no mistakes, it is best to help him correct it with a sudden whim and a burst of inspiration under the educational background of 60 points. To 90 points, if you can't do it, he will only think you are useless."

Robert stared blankly at Schiller, then wiped his lips in embarrassment, lowered his head and tightened the quilt and said, "This is simply magic..."

After finishing speaking, he suddenly raised his head, looked at Schiller with wide eyes and said, "Doctor, regarding my father, there are often fragments in my mind, and I can't put them together at all..."

"But what you said just now seems to be perfect. Kneading these pieces together, and even expressing them more refined and accurate, is this your superpower?"

"It's just psychology." Schiller looked down at the notebook in his hand and said, "And the second thing I want to tell you is that your family education is not a special case, it is even typical. There are too many people who are in the same situation as you to the case that can be written into the textbook."

Robert opened his mouth wide and said slowly after a long while: "Is it really because I'm unlucky?"

"Your luck is indeed not very good." Schiller pushed his glasses, looked at him and said, "Your father behaved more extreme, but many people's parents have such symptoms, just not like you It’s just that the father’s performance is so obvious.”

"...symptoms?" Robert repeated the word.

"That's right, this is actually a typical psychological problem. It can't be understood simply by saying 'hope your child will become a dragon' or 'hope your child will avoid detours'. It needs to be solved and treated."

"But now, I am lying in the hospital..."

"It's not that the number of untreated patients is large enough to prove that treatment is unnecessary." Shiller shook his head and said, "And the reason why this is not taken seriously is because the victims are children, they Almost no vocal ability."

"When your father is moody and pours out his desire to control you, can you go to the hospital and say to the psychiatrist, 'My father may be sick, please treat him'?"

"Even if the doctor believes it, everyone around him won't believe it, because he is an adult and you are a child."

"To put it simply, education has a threshold. It requires patience, perseverance, pedagogical knowledge, and a certain understanding of child psychology. It also requires a firm view, consistency, and unity of knowledge and action, but there is no such thing as bullying the small by the big. You just need to have no quality."

Robert clenched his fists and said excitedly, "That's exactly what I want to say!"

"When I was young, whenever I didn't do what my father said and was scolded by him, I didn't even have a place to explain. What he asked me to do was originally impossible. Or, he didn't even explain it clearly, and no one would listen to my explanation..."

"As time passed, I felt that it was really my fault. I thought, anyway, I can't be as successful as him, so I'll just be a rotten person, the kind of rotten person, see He looks angry and disappointed, but I feel happy ~IndoMTL.com~ because I succeeded in revenge against him.”

"But the people around me turned around and blamed me, saying that I have such a successful father, but I am so uneducated, saying that I don't know how to cherish, and how many people do not have a decent background..."

"Okay, don't get excited, Robert." Schiller began to comfort Robert, who was speaking faster and faster. He said, "Remember the two points I told you? First, it's not your fault. Second, you are not the only victim."

Hearing Schiller's last words, Robert gradually calmed down. After a while, he said slowly, "What about the others?"

Schiller looked at him quietly, waiting for him to clarify the direction of the question, but to Schiller's surprise, Robert asked: "Have you said these words to other people? Do they know these two points?"

"Unfortunately, not." Schiller shook his head and said, "So far, I have only encountered your case, but family education tragedies abound."

"So, why don't you let more people know?" Robert asked.

"I just analyzed the cause of your problem, and an excellent psychiatrist should give you a solution." Schiller said as he stood up, walked to his desk, and opened the drawer , took out a book, handed it to Robert, and said:

"This is a book I once wrote. The content is not important, but the title is important."

Following his words, Robert looked at the very concise design of the book, even a little too concise, because only a few words were written on the beige cover.

Robert read those words aloud:

"'Learn to speak well'?"