Wishing You Eternal Happiness Chapter 1036: ：Exemption

I have known for a long time that this girl is something extraordinary. She is a golden phoenix who cannot be trapped in a deep house.

When she was little, she would give advice from time to time.

In recent years, Aunt Xu started to live in a foster home, so she focused on the training of the maids in the courtyard, and no longer interfered much with Yu Youyao's decisions.

Yu Youyao was coming to Jinzhou, and she originally wanted to come with him, but Yu Youyao didn't want her to come with him and suffer the consequences. Yu Yuan couldn't have anyone taking care of him, so he stayed in Xiangping.

The etiquette for removing the clothes was very complicated, and having Aunt Xu help with it really made Yu Youyao breathe a sigh of relief.

Wait until August 13th, and then take this day.

Yu Youyao set up an incense table at home, worshiped her grandmother, and burned the Buddhist scriptures she had copied. After the ceremony was completed, Aunt Xu sang auspicious words and took off her clothes for Yu Youyao.

Yu Youyao was wearing a white singlet and kneeling on the futon.

Aunt Xu used bamboo branches to sprinkle pomelo peel water on Yu Youyao, and then helped Yu Youyao change into a light green jacket and skirt: "After taking off the clothes, I will wear plain clothes for the whole month, and then change into regular clothes."

You can't change into regular clothes until September.

After the rituals of getting rid of clothes were completed, the servants of the family started to sweep the courtyard with pomelo peel water, put away all the items related to the mourning period, and replaced them with new ones.

The white lantern hanging under the eaves of the gate was taken down.

This shows that the owner of this family has fulfilled his filial piety period, and people who come to visit do not need to have many taboos anymore.

This busy work is done in the evening, and the whole Jinyuanchun is completely new.

Yu Youyao watched quietly, feeling sour in her heart.

Aunt Xu patted her on the shoulder: "Young women have haircuts at the age of fifteen. Now that your filial piety period has expired and you have turned sixteen, shouldn't you also do the gift of hairpins?"

Yu Youyao also knows that this kind of thing cannot be delayed: "What does Aunt Yi mean?"

Aunt Xu said: "In my opinion, the grander the hairpin ceremony is, the better. You are the princess, and the etiquette for the hairpin ceremony is in accordance with the standards of the Tian family. It is best to go back to Beijing. , please ask the clan and the Yu clan to come forward, but it is a troubled time now. Your reputation in Liaodong has greatly boosted the morale of the people and stabilized the situation in the north. This is something the imperial court is happy to see, and the imperial court does not want you to come. Return to Beijing."

There is a war ahead, and the people in the north should be in panic all day long, but Yu Youyao and the Xie Mansion work together to encourage land reclamation, promote green manure, teach retting, increase crop yields, and promote animal husbandry.

Everything in the north is developing for the better. The people's lives are getting better and better. The shadow of the war has not affected them.

And all of this was made by Yu Youyao.

To put it bluntly, Yu Youyao is the anchoring needle in the hearts of the people in the North. With her in the North, it is a pure land full of hope.

No one wants her to leave.

Yu Youyao was a little at a loss. Ji Ji was an unmarried woman. It was the most important day in her life. She knew what this day meant to a woman, but when it came to this day, she didn't know what to do.

Aunt Xu said: "I'm afraid I'll wrong you."

Yu Youyao shook his head: "I don't care about this. It's a troubled time now, both inside and outside the government. It's not good to be extravagant. Just follow the etiquette."

Aunt Xu also means the same thing: "In that case, your haircut ceremony will be scheduled for October. I will discuss it with your grandmother later and choose an auspicious day. You can hand a note to the capital to see what the court wants. Let’s discuss what to do with the haircut ceremony.”

The Princess Chang's hairpin ceremony is a big deal, and the court will definitely reward her.

Yu Youyao nodded: "Just follow Auntie's wishes."

Aunt Xu suddenly laughed: "As soon as the hairpin ceremony is done, your marriage to King Wu Mu should also be agreed upon."

Yu Youyao's face turned red, she lowered her head shyly, and whispered: "The war is not over yet, why do we have a home? I, I have no plans to consider this for the time being..."

She really had no intention of considering this.

However, when I think of Yin Huaixi, a shy affection inevitably emerges in my heart.

Aunt Xu shook her head: "If you don't think about it, how do you know that King Wu Mu didn't think about it? You and King Wu Mu are both young. The three books, six etiquettes and one response are very complicated. It takes a year and a half to work on them. I think King Wu Mu has been waiting for this day."

The Great Zhou Dynasty is in chaos. King Wu Mu’s ambition will not stop at Youzhou. It will take time to eliminate foreign disasters and quell the internal strife. We really have to wait until the war is calmed down. I don’t know how long it will take. King Wu Mu He is not young yet, and he is in his prime of life, so he may not be able to endure it.

Yu Youyao's breathing was also a little messy. She didn't know why, but the scene of fighting with him on the same bed in the army appeared in her mind. His ears were filled with his beautiful screams, which seemed to be in pain, but also It seemed like joy, but it made her feel at a loss, as if she didn't know anything, and as if she didn't know anything at all.

"But the war in the north..." Yu Youyao's voice was as thin as a gnat.

Aunt Xu smiled and said: "This is not unusual. Most of the military generals are out marching and fighting, which will inevitably delay the marriage. You can't just focus on fighting and ignore human ethics and filial piety. The emperor also believes that remarrying will have restraints. Military generals, how many generals were there in ancient times who went to the battlefield wearing wedding robes?"

Yu Youyao was speechless. In history, there were many military generals guarding border towns. The emperor not only granted the marriage in person, but also sent troops to **** the bride to the border town to get married.

Didn’t the Queen have this idea before?

But I never expected that the Queen Mother would hold back.

"Things that should be considered should also be considered. Not to mention war, the Zhou Dynasty governed people with filial piety. However, there are three types of unfilial piety. The greatest is not having descendants. Therefore, continuing the incense and passing on the family line are the top priority."

"King Wu Mu holds a heavy army~IndoMTL.com~ and he is guarding one side. His marriage is also a state matter. It is important to stabilize the northern border and stabilize the country. If the Queen Mother had not given the marriage early, the court would have chosen him long ago. A good match."

Yu Youyao pursed her lips, so Yin Huaixi's marriage at this juncture would not only not affect the war, but also greatly calm the hearts of the people in the north.

Aunt Xu knew that she didn’t like to hear this, so she added: “When a man gets married and starts a career, he gets married first and starts a career later. It can be seen that in most people’s minds, a man can only reveal his true self after he gets married and takes on family responsibilities. He has the talent, virtue and responsibility to cultivate himself, manage his family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world. As a young general, King Wu Mu had a family, which was particularly important to him."

Having a family and establishing a career are closely related. Most people who cannot establish a family will not make much achievements in their careers.

Yu Zongzheng is an example. The most glorious time in his life was when he was a loving mother and a filial son. He married a virtuous wife named Xie, established himself in the court, and then got a "filial daughter" to run the family. His life almost reached its peak.

But all this is an illusion. As soon as Mrs. Yu died and Yu Youyao left home, only chicken feathers were left in the Yu Mansion, and Yu Zongzheng was also beaten back to his original form.

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