Return To 1977 Chapter 519: Women are water
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It should be said that Hong Yanwu immediately made the decision to find "Tang Xin'er", which was a wise move.
Because he rushed to the small courtyard of "Qifenglou Alley" and pushed the door into the bedroom. He saw that "Tang Xin'er" had already spread out two suitcases on the bed and was packing them. The clothes are put inside. It was obvious that he had plans to travel far away.
This made him very happy that he arrived in time. Otherwise, if we come back tomorrow morning, we may not be able to see anyone again.
But there was one thing that he really didn't expect, that is, doing the ideological work for "Tang Xin'er" was actually more difficult than persuading his family members.
"Daughter-in-law, why did you come back by yourself?"
Hong Yanwu asked as if nothing happened at first. But what came back was only the air of silence.
For a while, he shamelessly pretended to be relaxed again.
"Daughter-in-law, I have to say that you are really careless. If you don't throw something away, you won't throw it away. As soon as you throw it away, you will take away the most precious thing like me. Fortunately, I have legs and know how to run back. Why? Like? Can’t you reward me?”
But this shameless joke still has no effect. At most, "Tang Xin'er" just raised her head, glanced at him through the mirror on the dressing table, and then continued to do whatever she was supposed to do.
Hong Yanwu had no choice but to cover "Tang Xin'er"'s suitcase and forcefully stop him.
"Tang Xin'er, can you please stop being like this? Just tell me if you have anything to do. Let's have a good talk..."
But "Tang Xin'er" stood there, refusing to look at him, looking away coldly. That means I still don’t want to say anything, just eat popsicles and pull popsicles - nothing has changed (the words).
This attitude really made Hong Yan feel unhappy. In just a few hours, "Tang Xin'er"'s attitude towards him had completely changed. Even if he knew what was going on, the contrast in reality was hard for him to accept.
He stood beside Tang Xin'er's bed and looked at the back of her head, feeling a little angry.
"You want to pack your things, don't you? Yes! Do you want to go find 'Aunt Bao'? That's okay! But you have to explain it to me first, what's wrong with you?
"Tang Xin'er" didn't speak yet, but her shoulders began to twitch obviously.
In "A Dream of Red Mansions", Jia Baoyu once said, "Women are the flesh and blood of water." Therefore, water became synonymous with women. Since women are made of water, it is not difficult to understand why women like to cry.
So even though the two handkerchiefs wet from crying just now are still thrown on the table, "Tang Xin'er" still has tears whenever she wants to cry.
This made Hong Yanwu feel soft in his heart, and the spark that had just been lit was extinguished again.
He slowed down his tone unprincipledly and even said pleadingly, "Can you tell me why you did this to me?"
But a man's gentleness is also a good medicine for a woman. Perhaps it was the sad tone this time that touched "Tang Xin'er", and she finally started to speak.
"Why? Do I still need to say this? I am a woman who cannot have children. Don't you already know that? I am not worthy of marrying you anymore. You should not come to me again..."
Despite being prepared, the choked voice of "Tang Xin'er" still made Hong Yanwu's blood rush to his head. He couldn't see "Tang Xin'er" looking so sad, it was so heartbreaking.
"Fart! This is your own nonsense! Let me tell you, I don't care at all! Don't underestimate yourself because of this, you are still the same in my heart as before, whether you understand it or not!"
But "Tang Xin'er" said, "Don't lie to yourself, you like children so much! Come on, Xiao Wu, your words really touched me! I know you have a conscience, but we don't It's a waste. But... your family won't let us be together. Just pretend you don't know me. There are so many girls in the world, so let's get together. , I don’t blame you..."
These words were obviously deliberately spoken by "Tang Xin'er" in such a mood, but although she said them forcefully, as soon as the words "I don't blame you" came out of her mouth, tears came out of her eyes involuntarily. , burst into tears completely.
There is no doubt that the most lethal tender weapon a woman has for a man is tears.
I feel pity for a woman's loveliness, which usually arouses the protective desire of strange men. Not to mention Hong Yanwu who truly loves "Tang Xin'er".
At this moment, somewhere in his heart began to explode. It hurts!
He stood here and truly experienced the ice and snow in "Tang Xin'er's" heart. He even regretted not being able to follow her to see Shou Jingfang and not being with her when she left the Hong family's old home.
So he was panicked and at a loss, and he hurriedly tried to comfort her.
"Oh, what are you confused about? Why do you give up on yourself so easily! I like children, but the problem is that I have to have you first! If you are not here, and it is not our child, what is the point of the child? ?"
"Also, don't worry about my family members. They are very kind and reasonable. I believe it won't take long for them to understand. They will still be affectionate to you, no, they will be better to you. ..."
"Can you please stop crying? You are just a fool to listen to the wind! If someone says you can't give birth, then you can't give birth? Yes, my cousin has superb medical skills. But he is not a gynecologist. Besides, nothing is absolute. If Chinese medicine doesn’t work, what about Western medicine? If we don’t need money, I don’t believe that we can’t cure this disease in a few years! It’s not a disease anymore. You believe me..."
But the darker the description, the more anxious he became, and the harder "Tang Xin'er" cried. No matter how hard he racked his brains to think of all the words to say, it was of no use. Instead, it backfired and made things worse.
In fact, this is the shortcoming of Hong Yanwu's lack of emotional experience in his previous life. What he was thinking was that "Tang Xin'er" was the woman he wanted to protect throughout his life, and he would do everything he could to prevent her from shedding a single tear.
But this wish is beautiful but unrealistic. Because truly mature men should know that it is even more difficult to stop a woman from crying than to make her cry.
Woman is a perceptual animal with a particularly developed emotional nerve. She can be moved by a detail that touches the heartstrings for no reason. For example, if you have been sad for a stray cat for a long time, you can also cry out of thin air to a rose.
A woman's heart is not only fragile and sensitive, but also systematic. Once she starts crying, she will touch the nerves in her body from point to point, letting all the sad, wronged, and regretful past events come to her mind.
In fact, it is really difficult to say whether a woman cries because she is sad, or whether she cries because she is sad.
This is even more true when it comes to "Tang Xin'er".
A woman like her who has been greatly emotionally stimulated and has a considerable sense of psychological crisis. That in itself is reason enough to cry.
What's more, the feeling of sadness when crying will further cause her to have an emotional association and think of many sad memories in the past.
In this way, huge sadness will continue to surge into her heart, accumulating and amplifying her emotions, making her cry out of breath, crying out of control, and making her a mess.
To put it bluntly, at this time, anyone who tried to stop her tears would be in vain. Even if he likes to wear his red underpants, it will be the same even if the superman who can save the world comes. Anyone who pretends to be a good person is asking for trouble.
But it’s not that there are no benefits at all. In fact, crying is also an invisible tranquilizer. After she vented her joy, she naturally felt at ease.
Once her heart calms down, she will naturally have time to think, and in most cases, her inner self-blame will be made up for with actions.
So the rational approach is that Hong Yanwu should suspend it. If you want to say anything, wait until "Tang Xin'er" has finished crying first.
In fact, after her emotions are vented and her mind is balanced, she will be able to listen easily and listen to both good and bad words.
It's just a pity that Hong Yanwu in his previous life treated the crying woman very roughly.
Either you are full of joy and make people cry harder, adding to the fun with tears. Or just kick him away in disgust, throw away a handful of money and leave.
This all depends on his own mood, because to him, including his ex-wife Fang Ting, all women are nothing more than commodities with price tags, and there is no woman like "Tangxiner" "This is how I got his true love.
Although this is remarkable, Hong Yanwu is extremely inexperienced and has no idea how to deal with this kind of situation correctly. So Hong Yanwu, who was talking almost entirely to himself and was almost exhausted from spitting, became impatient. Mistakes are inevitable.
Tormented by "Tang Xin'er's" indifference, Hong Yanwu walked around the room like a predator that couldn't catch its prey. Finally, he couldn't help but get anxious and roared.
"This won't work, that won't work! I've told you this, and you still don't believe me? Do you really have to make me kneel down and beg you? What do you want? You say!"
This sentence made "Tang Xin'er" tremble all over.
To be honest, she had loved Hong Yanwu thousands of times in her heart, but the inferiority complex brought about by reality made her dare not accept the hand Hong Yanwu extended to her.
She was afraid that this was an illusion, a beautiful dream, because even if it was a dream, one day she would wake up. She was afraid that one day, when Hong Yanwu wanted to leave her, she would no longer be able to stand being alone.
And fundamentally speaking, she actually has something completely opposite to her inferiority complex, which is her excessive self-esteem.
She has been taught by "Sister Agou" since she was a child that men are unreliable and women have to rely on themselves. So she wants to be the most beautiful, richest, and most skillful woman.
She has never wanted to be anyone's vassal, nor is she willing to be anyone's vassal.
And it was Hong Yanwu's overly excited words that made her suddenly have a bad feeling. She thought that Hong Yanwu was pitying her and that's why he yelled at her so rudely.
She simply couldn't imagine that if the relationship between the two people was no longer equal in the future, would the happiness she longed for be available again?
So she also said harsh words. "What do I want? I want you to go! I beg you, don't pester me anymore! I'm here! We're done! Don't you understand?"
This kind of heartless answer was something Hong Yanwu never expected. He was speechless for a long time.
It wasn't until he glanced at the roof again, took a breath, and then said seriously, "Are you serious? I'll ask you one last time. If you say yes, I will leave without delaying you. seconds."
But at this moment, for two people, their emotions are like arrows that have left the bowstring. They are destined, and no one can do it without feeling sad and hesitant.
In this way, after "Tang Xin'er" gritted his teeth and said "yes", Hong Yanwu left sadly.
The moment he left the small courtyard, he was very sad, thinking that he was not trusted, all his efforts were in vain, and his love was also in vain.
As for "Tang Xin'er", trying to be brave and making such a strong stance is completely contrary to his own heart. After a while, she started crying even harder. This time it was a dead end. Because she felt a complete despair and joy in feelings.
But the worse thing was yet to come. About an hour later, when she had cried enough and exhausted all her energy, as mentioned before, her emotions It started to recover and people started to become calmer.
She couldn't help but start to think back and reflect, and she also began to discover her own impulsiveness and bravery. He even remembered Hong Yanwu’s efforts and various benefits in the past.
But unfortunately, Hong Yanwu has disappeared with loss at this moment. And she couldn't go to his house to find him, it was completely irreversible.
Inevitably, another deep regret hit me. This time her heart hurt as if she was bleeding...
If we look at the situation at this time, this relationship should be considered ruined by the two people's immature ways of handling relationships. It has become a regret that everyone deplores.
But the good thing is that Hong Yanwu has an advantage that most men in this era do not have - thick skin.
Although this trait is not very decent, it may be a bit wretched. But it is undeniable that whether in shopping malls, love scenes, or even in various fields, at certain critical moments, this ability has the power to turn decay into magic and play a role in turning things around.
Isn’t that how the three elements of success come about?
This time is no exception. Just when "Tang Xin'er" was heartbroken. The courtyard door opened, and in came Hong Yanwu, whom she had already begun to miss.
He was holding something in his hand. He was still a little guilty when he walked into the courtyard, and wanted to see what was going on in the bedroom.
But this is all a blind worry, everything has already fallen into place.
"Tang Xin'er" quickly appeared in front of the door. He just called out "Xiao Wu——" heartbreakingly, and rushed into his arms like flying, hugging him tightly. Lived him.
Hong Yanwu was a little surprised at first, he couldn't understand what happened. But he soon felt relieved, threw away the things in his hands, and hugged "Tang Xin'er" tightly as well.
"Why are you back? I thought you would never come back..."
"How could it be! Just for a little quarrel? You underestimate me too much. Who doesn't know that you women love to talk what you mean? You say you want me to leave, but in fact you don't want me to leave..."
"You... are annoying! Shameless..."
"I'm shameless. What's wrong? No matter how hard you drive me away, I won't leave!"
"That's nice to say, but you've obviously already left..."
"I'm going to buy groceries. Today is Chinese Valentine's Day, and you haven't eaten anything yet... Oops, it's broken. I threw all the eggs on the floor. Let me go first and I'll clean them up..."
"No! I won't let you go, don't move..."
"Tang Xin'er" acted coquettishly like a child and nestled her head tightly in Hong Yanwu's arms.
Hong Yanwu also found that her tears had wet his chest again.
This time, he did not try to stop her crying, because at this time, he also felt like crying.