Immortal Becomes a Stay-at-home Dad After Return: 131, Lonely

‘Walking side-by-side with me is obviously hard work for a person with such a lonely temperament. ’——“ The Man in a Case ”

Human beings are social creatures.

Some scholars in Western countries even list ‘lonely character, not in contact with others’ as antisocial personalities.

Because this is a pathological manifestation in itself.

Loneliness is different from loneliness.

Lonely people are eager to interact with others, will not be bored with anyone, and will not even be alert to everyone.

Lonely people are a kind of personality defect. They usually think highly of themselves and look like they look down on people, but they are extremely weak and afraid of being stabbed, so they are unwilling to associate with people.

When you have to socialize with people, lonely people will also behave strangely, strangely and contrived, always giving a nervous feeling.

They are actually very pitiful and may not necessarily have anti-social psychology or violent tendencies, but they will definitely feel autistic, lost, inferiority, nervousness, unhappy ...

Unable to communicate with people normally, which also makes them more like loneliness and isolation.

Lonely personality formation, congenital factors are not many, mainly due to the negative influence of various subjective and objective environments acquired, resulting in a long-term depression in the state of repression.

For example, if Niannian continues this way, when she goes to elementary school in the future, she is likely to be excluded by her classmates because she has not learned to communicate with her peers, and be regarded as an alternative by classmates.

A little girl who only chats with cats all day, is don't tell me not weird enough?

The survey results show that about 5% to 8% of children in elementary and middle school students will behave very lonely.

And this is already an extremely exaggerated number.

One out of twenty people will appear as a lonely individual.

The class is a group, but the children with a lonely personality are always unable to integrate into this group, so that they are more vulnerable to sarcasm, ridicule, exclusion and blame from their classmates.

This situation will gradually decrease as the child grows older.

But this process is extremely long for those poor children who are lonely.

They will endure a variety of psychological pressures, but in the end they just become a stepping stone for others to grow up.

After many years, who will remember the freak who was mocked and teased in the class?

Who cares, is that freak going well now?

......

Chen Xi panicked.

After all, he really can't cure mental illness.

After careful consideration, he quickly consulted with Qin Ruoying: "Shall we send Niannian to kindergarten?"

hearing this, Qin Ruoying nodded immediately.

She happened to have this idea too.

Although Qin Ruoying wants to accompany Niannian more, in order to make Niannian's a healthy and happy growth environment, it is better to be cautious.

As long as the child is involved, any parent will become extraordinarily worrying. Even if only a little is possible, they should also promptly wipe out that possibility.

The couple agreed very well, so Chen Xi sat next to the arrived little guy.

"Niannian, Father to discuss something with you, OK?"

"Huh?"

The little guy is busy looking at Anime, and Chen Xi just walked in to block her view.

After humming, she lay directly on the bed and looked at Anime.

Seeing this, Chen Xi pretended to be serious and said, "Niannian, Father are talking to you!"

"Huh?"

The little guy ’s eyes were full of doubts. After glancing at Chen Xi, he grumbled: "Papa, you ’re blocking me!"

"Father talks to you, please pause for a while, otherwise Father will be angry with Oh."

"Oh. "

Chen Xi obviously has some weight in the mind of the little guy.

So, after hesitating, she took the remote control and pressed obediently to pause, and then sat up very cleverly.

"You say Papa!"

Seeing the little guy being so clever, Chen Xi nodded in satisfaction, then gently hugged her into her arms, and asked seriously: "Niannian, do you want to go to kindergarten?"

However, after hearing his question, the little guy didn't even think about it, and immediately shook his little head like a rattle.

"No! I do n’t want to go to kindergarten!"

This is obviously somewhat unexpected from Chen Xi's, so I quickly asked: "Why? Did n’t you like kindergarten before?"

hearing this, the little guy pouted and replied loudly, "I don't like kindergarten!"

Maybe to show his attitude, the little guy even repeatedly shouted: "I do n’t like kindergarten! I do n’t like it!"

She didn't play cards according to common sense, and immediately confused Chen Xi.

She used to want to go to Mingming (clearly), but now she suddenly does n’t want to go anymore. This change of Gua has become too fast ...

No way, Chen Xi has to persuade patiently: "Niannian, kindergarten is very fun, the teacher teaches you to draw, wears small safflower for you, and classmates accompany you to make games, why do n’t you want to go?"

When I heard Chen Xi say this, the little guy exploded in an instant.

I don't know why, she suddenly made a mess.

After seeing her push Chen Xi's's arm away, she lay on the bed and rolled up, and her mouth kept muttering: "I don't want to go! I don't want to go! I don't like kindergarten!"

Chen Xi froze.

When did Niannian become this way?

This is simply little devil!

don't tell me really has problems with his educational methods?

Remember that when he just came back, Niannian was good, being obedient and sensible.

How long did he take Niannian?

How about raising the child like this ...

Thinking of this, Chen Xi couldn't help but fall into deep reflection.

Seeing that the little guy is booming, Qin Ruoying also sat beside her on arrived.

After gently lifting the little guy up, she asked patiently: "Niannian, can you tell us why you do n’t want to go to kindergarten?"

After hearing this question, the little guy at ~IndoMTL.com~ froze for a moment.

But immediately, she burst into tears with ‘Wa’.

This time Qin Ruoying also panicked, quickly hugged her to her arms and comforted her softly.

"Do n’t cry for Niannian, you do n’t want to go, Father and Mother will not force you, but you have to tell us why you do n’t want to go?"

It was a miserable cry.

Chen Xi saw this and quickly went to the bathroom to get her a hot towel.

The husband and wife worked together to stop the little guy from crying.

After a while, the little guy was sobbing and his mouth was deflated. He said very wronged: "I do n’t want to go to kindergarten, I want to be with Papa and Mama ..."

hearing this, Qin Ruoying can't help but glance at Chen Xi, and instantly understand the reason.

This poor child ...

Before being brought up by Aunt Zhang alone, Father and Mother has never been by her side.

Therefore, when the little guy regains Father and Mother, she does n’t want to be separated from them for a moment.

And this is obviously the root cause of her recent muddledness.

Since the children have said so, this kindergarten is obviously unable to go.

Qin Ruoying thought about Niannian for a while, and suddenly said to Chen Xi: "Otherwise, shall we change the way?"

"What method?"

"Look at this cold weather, few parents will bring their children out to play ..."

"Niannian is not willing to go to kindergarten, so it is definitely not a way to go on ..."

"Otherwise ..."

"We open a bookstore, or a restaurant, a cafe, etc., so that Niannian can reach many strangers ..."

hearing this, Chen Xi suddenly shined.

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