Beyond the Noisy World: The Long Lost Eight Sects: 007, strange acquaintances
lnmao.org, the fastest update outside: the latest chapters of the eight disappeared!
Ding Qi lived in an eight-person dormitory when he was undergraduate. He is the seventh. The second in the dormitory is Tian Rongping. He is a student in the suburbs of Jiangbei, Jinghu City. The family conditions are average and his relationship with Ding Qi is very good. .
The second child and Ding Qi said that after he received the admission letter from Jinghu University and before the report, he received a bonus or subsidy from the Jiangbei Tian Clan Association.
Most of the various clan associations have appeared in recent years. They were originally for raising funds to revise the scores. Later, there were more activities, and several leading figures took the initiative to organize and liaise. The Jiangbei Tian Clan Friendship Association was founded by Tian Xianglong in his early years, and he naturally became the chairman.
Tian Xianglong was born in a rural village in the suburbs of Jiangbei. Many people in that area have the surname Tian and belong to the same clan since ancient times. He made a lot of money from doing business, so he funded the revision of the tree and established the Jiangbei Tian Clan Association. His most influential charity act was to personally reward Tian Clan students in the name of the Tian Clan Association.
For example, in the year Tian Rongping took the college entrance examination, students who were registered in the Tian's genealogy received a grant of 2,000 yuan as long as they got one book recognized by the state. Two thousand yuan may not be too much for some people, but it is not too small for Tian Rongping. It is a windfall. Tian Rongping went to college and wanted to buy a decent smartphone, but he didn't feel embarrassed to ask his parents for it. As a result, he was using the money.
I am afraid it is difficult to figure out what kind of relatives the second child and Tian Xianglong are. It is almost a distant house, but in short, it belongs to the same clan of the Tian clan in Jiangbei. Tian Rongping also happily told Ding Qi many things about Tian Xianglong, including some unverified rumours.
It is certain that Tian Xianglong started in the construction of the Jiangbei New District in Jinghu City. He first contracted the government's village relocation and land leveling project, and accumulated the first pot of gold, and then began to do real estate projects. Now the company has begun to transform, and its main business focuses on building materials and decoration, building decoration, and information design.
Twenty years ago, Tian Xianglong led his team to push down many villages in Jiangbei, and also demolished many ancestral halls that were very historical but were not classified as cultural relics protection units. Of course, it happened. Many fierce confrontation incidents have different reasons, and they were all settled by him in the end.
There is also a gossip. It is said that after Tian Xianglong got rich, he once went to the temple to burn incense, and it was the first incense on the first day of the Lunar New Year. He was stopped by an old monk after he went out. The old monk said that he has riches and good fortune, but there are shortcomings in the picture to fear that the rich and the rich will last, especially it is difficult to guarantee the wealth of future generations.
The old monk also said many things about Tian Xianglong, and they were very accurate. If Tian Xianglong had to believe it, he asked how to resolve it? The old monk asked him to do more good deeds in order to accumulate merits, so that he can preserve the wealth of future generations. how should I do it? After Tian Xianglong returned from the temple, he founded the Jiangbei Tian Family Clan Association. Starting with funding for the compilation of the tree, he also assisted Tian's students.
This has also won Tian Xianglong a lot of social praise. He himself became a member of the CPPCC in Jiangbei District and Jinghu City. This is also an affirmation of social status and social influence. What kind of person is Tian Xianglong? I'm afraid we can't just use one thing to make a conclusion. Human nature is inherently complicated, isn't it?
From the professional point of view of judicial appraisal, Tian Xianglong’s identity and background have nothing to do with Tian Qi’s criminal ability when committing the crime, so only one name was mentioned in the material, and no other introduction was made. . Unless Tian Qi has a family history of mental illness, Ding Qi does not need to know more about Tian Xianglong.
But Ding Qi had heard of Tian Xianglong and knew many things about him, so he would inevitably think of many other questions. Don’t forget, Ding Qi still teaches social psychology in college! Psychiatric identification does not need to consider other factors, only the mental state of the person concerned, while social psychology requires the study of the broad impact of the same event on various social groups.
Tian Xianglong is rich and powerful, and has huge social resources, so he has the conditions to exonerate his son Tian Qi through various means, which will also affect the relevant personnel. But on the other hand, because of this, if this case is spread and fermented through the media, it will put him at a disadvantage in public opinion.
If the court makes a verdict that is conducive to Tian Qi’s escape, the judge may be able to cite the conclusions of the psychiatric judicial appraisal, and then the appraiser will also be under tremendous pressure. This pressure does not come from professional judgment but from public opinion. Looking beyond the professional point of view, this appraisal is actually not easy to do.
The time of the incident on the material was the day before yesterday. Within 48 hours, this material had been placed in front of the Ding Qi case, one of the three appraisers. This shows that Tian Xianglong applied for a judicial appraisal for Tian Qi in the first place, and the relevant departments quickly arranged the appraisal work. The efficiency is not surprising, which also explains some problems.
Ding Qi turned on the computer subconsciously and searched the Internet for information about Tian Xianglong. At this moment, the sound of the mobile phone awakened Ding Qi who was thinking. He picked it up and saw that it was his girlfriend Jiajia who came to WeChat.
Jia Jia is a first-year master's degree student at Peking University. She lives with her boyfriend. Of course, there is no need to rent a house off campus. She lives in a three-person dormitory. They will contact each other at around eleven every night, say a few intimate private messages, or make a phone call in a low voice, and they can also make a video call when it is convenient.
Jiajia asked him why there was no news today, did he have something to do at night but didn't tell him in advance, or he was already asleep? Ding Qi looked up and saw that it was almost twelve o'clock, and quickly replied. He just read the information too seriously and forgot the time.
Jiajia: "I changed a new hairstyle today, do you want to see it?"
Ding Qi: "Yes, I really want to see it!... Is there no one in your dormitory now?"
Jiajia: "Both of them are going out to have trouble, I will be the only one left tonight. This is a rare opportunity, but you didn't contact me just now!"
Ding Qi hurriedly opened the video call. The next step was the interaction between lovers, such as crookedness, compliments, flirting, etc. After talking, Jiajia suddenly asked: "What happened to you today? I did so much. Lovely expression, but your reaction is not excited at all, is there something wrong?"
Ding Qi has tried his best to switch and adjust his mood. This time of the day is his happiest time, but after all, there is still a small difference in his performance on weekdays, and Jiajia has noticed it. She is really very sensitive. Girl. Ding Qi had to explain, mainly because the material that I just read affected his mood, but he didn't talk about the specific details of the case.
Jiajia pursed her mouth and said: "You professional, you are always exposed to so much negative information. Fortunately, I am shining on you so cutely... Dad is also for your good. You just have to do your work seriously. Just do not think too much!"
After the video call with Jiajia, Ding Qi's mood has completely adjusted. He adjusted his breathing while lying on the bed, slowly filtering out various emotions, entering a state where his mind was empty and his body relaxed, and he gradually fell asleep, ending this extremely fulfilling and somewhat trial-filled day, but full of happy expectations.
……
When I saw the name Hong Guirong, Ding Qi didn't have any special impressions or feelings. This is a help seeker today. The problem encountered is insomnia, which is very common in psychological counseling work. The specific causes need to be understood through ingestive talks.
Two people walked into the consultation room, but Ding Qi was immediately taken aback. The age of Hong Guirong’s appointment information is 37 years old, but she is well maintained, her skin and figure are very good, her figure is slightly plump and has a mature and **** charm. She looks coldly saying that she is 27 years old, and there are probably some people. Letter. But this is not the point, the point is that another person comes in with her.
In the process of psychological counseling, a third party is sometimes present, usually the family members of the seeker. This requires the consent of the counselor and the seeker, provided that the third party present cannot adversely interfere with the consultation process , And help to understand the situation of the seeker.
Ding Qi hadn't seen this person, but he recognized him at a glance. Just searched for his photo on the Internet the night before, and it was Tian Xianglong!
Tian Xianglong is not too tall, he will be around one meter seven by visual inspection. Although he is middle-aged, his physique is still healthy. It can also be seen that his body should be very good when he was young, and he has a very good foundation. Obviously there is a small belly, and the big back head combed back is a little messy, and it has been slightly flattened.
Tian Xianglong suddenly appeared here, and Ding Qi realized that the other party was not here for psychological counseling. However, as a consultant, his profession requires him to be part of a role in the consulting room. Ding Qi smiled politely and said, "Sit down, two! This is Ms. Hong Guirong, right? What is this gentleman for you? People? How can I help you?"
Hong Guirong: "This is my husband, can he sit here with me?"
Ding Qi: "If you actively ask for this and think it will help solve your psychological problem, of course you can. If there is any problem that needs him to avoid during the psychological consultation process, we can ask him to temporarily avoid it. ."
There is a coffee table and two sofas in the consultation room. The single sofa at one end of the coffee table is the seat of Ding Qi, and the couch on the side of the coffee table is the seat of the helper. The reason for this arrangement is that Ding Qi needs to keep abreast of the psychological distance between him and the seeker.
On the couch, some people will sit closer to him, and some people will stay away from him, which can also reflect the corresponding personality traits and attitude towards the counselor. Sometimes by observing the change in the position where the help seeker sits on the couch, Ding Qi can also judge the change in the psychological distance and trust relationship between the other party and him, or the change in topic sensitivity.
At other times, one more person can sit on the couch, as is the case today. Both of them wanted to sit at the end close to Ding Qi, Tian Xianglong hesitated for a moment, and Hong Guirong had already taken the place. She was a nominal helper, and it was right to sit here. Ding Qi didn't say anything, just took out two paper cups and poured water on them.
After sitting down, Tian Xianglong looked at the furnishings in the room. He didn't even miss the corner of the ceiling. He suddenly asked: "Doctor Ding, there is no recording and videography here, right?"
Ding Qi explained with a smile: "Although you call me Dr. Ding, I still want to emphasize that our relationship is not the relationship between the doctor and the patient, or the relationship between the consultant and the helper. The helper may be psychologically troubled. But it is usually not a patient. There is no audio and video equipment here, and we will keep the content of the meeting confidential, unless you agree, I will not make on-site recordings."
Hong Guirong gave her husband a white look and said: "I've asked about it a long time ago. Audio and video recordings are not allowed here, and it must be kept secret."
Ding Qi asked again: "I don't know where I can help you? Ms. Hong Guirong, looking at your appointment registration information, the problem that needs help is insomnia?"
After speaking, Ding Qi was waiting for Hong Guirong's answer. Hong Guirong leaned forward, seeming to have made some sudden decision, and blurted out: "Doctor Ding, I heard that you are going to give a mental appraisal to a patient named Tian Qi? Tian Qi is my son!"
Ding Qi was taken aback. It was too direct, too anxious, and too naked. It was Tian Xianglong who was more surprised than Ding Qi. He obviously didn't expect his wife to say this directly in the first sentence. His expression was very stunned. This was different from what he had discussed in advance. He grabbed Hong Guirong's arm and wanted to stop it, but it was too late. .
Ding Qi tried his best to stay calm and answered professionally: "Ms. Hong, I think you have a misunderstanding about psychological counseling. Our task is to help people who seek help solve their psychological problems, relieve their psychological pressure, and establish correct recognition. Knowledge and behavior patterns, rather than helping seekers to solve specific problems in real life."
Hong Guirong said eagerly: "I know all of this, Dr. Ding, we finally found out about you, you are going to give our home Tian Qi an appraisal next week? Many people in the society have opinions on my Lao Tian, but My family Tian Qi is indeed mentally ill, as long as it can be assessed fairly, no matter what you need..."
"Okay, don't say it!" It was Tian Xianglong who interrupted her. This boss Tian looked very embarrassed and a little angry, and then smiled to Ding Qi, "Doctor Ding, I'm really sorry, my wife's I feel a bit too anxious, and I don’t care about speaking, please don’t take it to your heart. We did come for psychological counseling, but she didn’t expect that she would say this when she opened her mouth.
I know the rules and can’t interfere with your work, so we definitely didn’t mean to interfere with you. But now that this situation has been mentioned, I would like to express my opinion to you, if you have any help in the future, you do not need to take the initiative to come to me. I will definitely arrange it to your satisfaction.
I'm talking about the future, not the present, and it has nothing to do with today's matter, and it has nothing to do with the appraisal you made for my family Tian Qi. Please don't get me wrong..."
As an excellent psychologist, Ding Qi dare not say that he can see through people's hearts at all times, but he can also keenly capture the other's psychological activities. Tian Xianglong didn't know how to find out that he was an appraiser for Tian Qi, and the purpose of coming here was to do his job.
From the perspective of a third party, Tian Xianglong’s action is obviously against the regulations, but if he must do this, he may be able to do something smarter. Since Ding Qi is a listed psychological counselor, Tian Xianglong will come to do psychological counseling, and he should pretend not to know this.
As long as Tian Xianglong doesn't say anything, Ding Qi can't say anything under the professional discipline requirements of appraisers.
Tian Xianglong introduced his own situation through conversations, mentioned what happened to his son, and emphasized the authenticity of Tian Qi's illness and the distress and trouble he suffered, which would be very sympathetic. On such occasions, Ding Qi, as a consultant, can't take the initiative to break through. In fact, everyone is tacitly tacitly aware.
Tian Xianglong can express his admiration for Ding Qi, implying that he can return to him in his own capacity, thereby exerting influence.
It is of course illegal to do so, but Ding Qi is a smarter strategy from the perspective of a third party. Ding Qi didn't know whether Tian Xianglong had such a plan before he came, but if Tian Xianglong really had such an idea, Hong Guirong would have destroyed this possibility just now.
Obviously, the husband and wife had discussed before they came, but what actually happened was different from what they had discussed in advance. Hong Guirong heard that the talks here were confidential, and confirmed that there was no audio-visual record, so he wanted to buy Ding Qi straightforwardly. This kind of person tends to think about the problem very simply, and do it in the most effective way that she thinks is the most effective way, and is unwilling to take into account the situation and feelings of others.
And Tian Xianglong was smarter or smarter than his wife, and immediately tried to reverse and make up for the situation. Even if you want to buy an appraiser, you can't be so direct, especially if you don't have a direct causal relationship with the appraisal work.
If Ding Qi has identified a satisfactory result, he can use other methods to fund, sponsor, or help the young scholar to express his gratitude and appreciation, which can all be done after the fact. For example, in terms of applying for research funding, producing academic results, and participating in seminars and exchanges, there are actually many articles that a young scholar can do, so that it appears more concealed and ingenious.
In Ding Qi's view, although Tian Xianglong is smarter than his wife, but also limitedly smart, he still extends his habit of dealing with murlocs in shopping malls and politics to other fields.
Tian Xianglong thinks he is smart. In some respects, he may indeed be shrewd and capable. Otherwise, how could he make a fortune? But in other respects, it may be just a self-righteous and even self-inflated half-tone, otherwise, how can you do something like Ding Qi directly?
Ding Qi had to shook his head helplessly: "Mr. Tian and Ms. Hong, if you attempt to offer bribes, or interfere with the appraisers in advance, or exert influence and pressure on the appraisal work, even if I don’t charge you a penny. I made an appraisal that is beneficial to Tian Qi, and the appraisal conclusion can also be questioned as invalid in court because the procedure is illegal.
You should not contact and interfere with the appraiser in private, and here, as a psychological counselor, I should not have an interest with you outside the consulting room. This violates two regulations at the same time. If Ms. Hong still has psychological problems and needs help, it is no longer appropriate to continue to consult with me. I can refer you to another counselor. "