Beyond the Noisy World: The Long Lost Eight Sects: 193, Heart Demon

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Bao Qin (pseudonym) is 25 years old and graduated from a major university with a master's degree. He has just been able to work for less than half a year. He is a neurotic patient with a mental disorder.

The earliest Bao Qin went to was the Ankang Hospital in Jinghu City, a patient in charge of Director Xin Shuanghong. Xin Shuanghong's treatment has little effect. Based on professional experience, Xin Shuanghong feels that the patient's condition also contains the characteristics of post-traumatic stress disorder. Only the real cause can be effectively cured. So he suggested that the patient's parents bring the patient to Ding Qi.

When the psychological counselor encounters such help-seekers, they usually recommend referrals and send them to the psychiatric department of a special hospital for treatment. Now the situation is reversed. This is a special case. Xin Shuang specifically greeted Ding Qi and forwarded the detailed medical records to him. Ding Qi himself is not only a psychologist and psychotherapist, but also a psychiatrist.

Bao Qin’s symptoms are very peculiar, and they first started with an incident in the unit.

Bao Qin's parents are both civil servants and have some social relations. After his master's degree, he was assigned to work in a large state-owned enterprise. The benefits and benefits are very good. In short, it is enviable.

When Bao Qin started working for two months, one of his department’s imported inspection equipment worth hundreds of thousands of dollars was damaged. For this kind of unit, the equipment is damaged or repaired, but this equipment is almost brand new, and it is obviously deliberately damaged, to the extent that it can no longer be repaired.

This device is placed in a small room next to a large bay office. The large bay outside is the department where the occupancy is located. You need to swipe the access card to enter and exit the office area, and then bypass the office area and open the door of the cabin to access this one. equipment. Who would come here deliberately to damage a testing device? The possibility of outsiders doing it is very small.

The most suspicious person is the staff of this department. There are more than 30 staff in total. The purpose may be to vent, such as dissatisfaction with the unit or a certain leader. But who is it? There is no surveillance in the room where the equipment is stored. There is a photocopier in the corner. Everyone often comes in to copy materials, so everyone is suspected.

The leader was very angry, and of course he called the police. The police also believe that the suspect is mainly an employee of this department. They also deliberately find each employee to talk to and investigate and make transcripts, including the package duties, but they have not found out who they are. So far, the case has not been solved. When people admit it, it seems that they can only be left alone.

Bao Qin’s symptoms began to appear at that time. He felt uneasy inexplicably, and became sensitive and suspicious. This pain came from a very absurd self-doubt. He was always afraid of others thinking that he did it. When colleagues gathered together to talk, he couldn't help but wonder if he was accusing him of damaging the department's equipment?

Because of this mentality, he felt that the environment and atmosphere of the department had changed. Everyone stared at others like a thief, and he was stared at by every pair of eyes.

Actually, Bao Qin knew in his heart that these thoughts were unreasonable, and the facts were not true, but he just couldn't help feeling this way. He is a new employee, coupled with his reticence, the relationship with his colleagues was not familiar and close, but now he has become even more distant, even if there are obstacles to communication and contact in the normal work process.

Of course, the equipment was not damaged by Bao Qin. According to Bao Qin, there is no need for a guilty conscience, but he just feels guilty in conscience and uneasy all day long. Sitting in the office, he often sweats, is very nervous, and can't concentrate.

In this state, he continued to lose sleep after returning home, and he couldn't bear it, so he told his parents that he wanted to quit his job. The parents are also very surprised. They have finally arranged such a good job. How can they stop doing it if they don't want to do it? After further questioning, he knew the reason. Xiao Bao went to work every day like to endure a torture, which made him extremely painful.

Parents pondered, this is not a problem with work, but a person's illness! So they helped Xiao Bao take sick leave and took him to Ankang Hospital for treatment. They also asked someone to find Director Xin Shuanghong... Later, Xin Shuanghong not only transferred the medical records, but also told Ding Qi his diagnosis.

It is true that the damage to the equipment was not done in a small package, which makes many people surprised. Xiao Bao obviously didn't do anything bad, why did he feel guilty? Ding Qi didn't find it too strange. It is not the criminals who have a guilty conscience in this world. Many ordinary people who have done nothing wrong are often inexplicably uneasy. If they are investigated carefully, there are actually subconscious reasons.

Ding Qi looked at the medical records and confirmed that Bao Qin was indeed neurotic. Neurotic patients often feel lasting pain and can experience inner conflicts, which have hindered work and life, but are not based on any organic disease.

But neurotic patients also have insight. The so-called insight is the ability to recognize the facts. For example, Xiao Bao, he knew exactly what was going on, and he believed that he shouldn't have a guilty conscience if he didn't damage the equipment. Whether to have insight is the main difference between neurotic patients and mental patients.

Mental disorder is a kind of mental disorder. The main difference between mental disorder and ordinary psychological problems is that the psychological conflicts of mental patients are deformed. The so-called deformation, simply understood, is that it does not match the normal logic.

Psychological conflicts are divided into regular conflicts and deformed conflicts.

Normal conflict is directly related to the actual situation and conforms to the normal logic of thinking. For example, if you attack Dean Yan’s family members of the deceased, you can say that they have psychological problems, but they need to vent their emotions because of the pain of losing their loved ones, or they want to blackmail the hospital to seek real benefits. These are all normal conflicts.

But Bao Qin’s psychological conflict is obviously a metamorphic conflict, and most people may not understand it. It is clear that he did not do the thing. Why does he have this reaction?

Based on years of clinical experience, Director Xin believed that there must be a hidden psychological cause, but he never found it, so he recommended that the patient come to Ding Qi.

The first time Bao Qin came to see Ding Qi was accompanied by his parents. Xiao Bao’s parents had also heard of Ding Qi’s name and knew that Ding Qi was a "hypnosis master", so they hoped that Ding Qi could hypnotize Xiao Bao, which might eliminate Xiao Bao’s heart disease. But Ding Qi knew that simple hypnosis could not cure this neurotic patient.

The essence of hypnosis is to modify certain subconscious minds without violating the wishes of the other party. And Bao Qin’s illness is psychogenic. If the cause is not found, even if he directly issues an implied instruction to tell him not to feel this way again, this instruction is invalid. Otherwise, wouldn't hypnosis become a panacea?

So Ding Qi did not hypnotize Bao Qin for the first time, but only conducted an ingestive interview, trying to observe and collect materials, and build a mind book. Bao Qin seemed to be depressed, very introverted, and rarely spoke, and almost never took the initiative to speak up. It was necessary for Ding Qi to remind him repeatedly before he could answer some questions in detail.

The first meeting lasted for two hours. At the end of the meeting, Ding Qi only gave simple emotional soothing hints, and did not "leave homework" for Xiao Bao. But after the meeting, Ding Qi deliberately contacted Xiao Bao’s parents again, saying that there were some situations that needed to be consulted separately.

It was fine to say on the phone, but Xiao Bao’s parents took it very seriously and were very anxious, so they came here on purpose. Ding Qi did this on the principle of due diligence, and there was no charge for this conversation.

Ding Qi asked: "Your child is not only very introverted, but also has obvious autistic characteristics. Have you noticed, when did he start to show this personality trait?"

Xiao Bao’s parents all replied: "He has this temper since he was a child. He doesn't like to talk to people, and he doesn't like to run out and play with people. He knows that he is boring to study and his grades are very good..."

Ding Qi: "It's unlikely that he was born like this! That's why I called you in private, please remember carefully, since when did his character appear such obvious characteristics? ?"

Xiao Bao’s father replied: “When he was very young, he was actually quite lively, and he became quiet when he grew up. If you think about it carefully, it should be the period from the upper grades of elementary school to the beginning of junior high school. "

Xiao Bao’s mother gave a more accurate answer: "If you say so, he should be ten years old. From the fourth grade to the fifth grade, he suddenly seemed to be sensible, no longer It's as naughty as before."

Ding Qi asked: "Then when he was ten years old, what major events happened that still make you remember clearly?"

Xiao Bao’s mother recalled: “It’s been fifteen years, and there are many things that I can’t remember clearly, and there seems to be no major events. I only remember that at the end of the fourth grade, he won a certificate of merit from Jinghu City’s Three Good Students...”

In fact, Director Xin has done similar investigations, and Ding Qi did not ask any more clues from Xiao Bao's parents. Then Ding Qi had a second psychological meeting with Xiao Bao. This time he deeply hypnotized Xiao Bao and used the time regression technique. The meeting lasted for more than three hours. Ding Qi's physical and energy consumption was very heavy, and finally he found the cause.

When Xiao Bao was ten years old, it was summer vacation and his parents had to go to work, so they told him not to run around naughty. He ran to the side of the street to climb a tree to catch it, but he stumbled and fell from the tree and was injured. A passing boy found him and sent him to the hospital in time. Xiao Bao’s parents also rushed to hear the news...

When the mother came to the hospital first, of course, she had to figure out how the child was injured. She specifically asked: "Did you get hit by a bicycle?" This sentence came out casually, because her work colleague’s child I have encountered such a thing.

As a result, Xiao Bao nodded and replied: "Well, yes!"

This is the answer, which turned a good thing that was justified into an incident that caused an accident and wounded others. The young man who saved the lives of course would not admit it. He claimed that he didn't even ride a bicycle. At that time, the Sky Eye system of the public security department was not installed at all, and the location of the incident was not monitored, so it seems that it is not clear.

Xiao Bao’s mother called the police, and the mediation they did after the police came was mainly to confide in the mud. Because Xiao Bao’s mother was very tough and emotional, the young man who saved the life finally admitted that he was unlucky and paid for the medical expenses. Fortunately, Xiao Bao was not seriously injured...

President Yan was completely attracted by the story told by Ding Qi. He temporarily forgot about his own affairs and has been listening attentively. At this moment, he couldn’t help but say: “This incident is the cause of that Xiaobao, yes. Right?"

Ding Qi nodded and said: "Yes! Ten-year-old children are already very rich in inner activities. What they are best at distinguishing is the attitude of their parents to him in various incidents. Xiao Bao was already keenly aware of his mother's Attitude, that’s why I followed my mother’s words to answer. In this way, the main responsibility of the accident is not on me, and I can escape the punishment of my parents.

In fact, it is not only children. We have seen in many news reports that some elderly people will do similar things. Why do they lie? Because they are more worried about the blame for their children’s younger generations, and the troubles and burdens they will bring to these children’s younger generations, compared to the harm caused to strangers.

To tell the truth, it means that the fault lies with them. They are afraid to admit their faults and find it difficult to bear the responsibility for their faults. Xiao Bao told a lie. This lie was selfish and just wanted to avoid being punished by his parents.

Based on his mind at the time, he may not be able to fully understand the nature of this lie. This is a gratitude and revenge, but it is actually hurting himself. When he grows up, he will understand more and more clearly and know what he has done, but he is also less and less dared to tell the truth...His personality change also began at this time.

So after this incident happened to the unit, even though he was not at fault, he would doubt himself. When the police made the transcript of the questioning, it touched his original state of mind. The last time he was questioned by the police was actually when he was ten years old.

The event of the unit is just an inducement, leading to the explosion of accumulated psychological conflicts, and contradictions between actual events and inner feelings. Therefore, Director Xin said that his symptoms may also include post-traumatic stress disorder, and the cause is latent for a long time. It can be said that the judgment is very reasonable. He was hurt by another self who wanted to forget but was impossible to forget. "

Dean Yan sighed and said: "That's how it is."

Ding Qi: "What happened back then, the oneself back then, has been lurking in his heart... Recently, I was dealing with a group of spiritual practitioners, and I also read some related novels and classics. It can be called a heart demon. The heart demon is planted by yourself, and you can't get rid of it if you want to get rid of it."

Dean Yan thoughtfully said: "The demon of the heart? This title is interesting! Then, Teacher Ding, how did you resolve this demon of Xiaobao? Since you told me this story, the patient must be cured by you. Right?" Unconsciously, his name for Ding Qi has changed from Xiaoding to Teacher Ding.

Ding Qi smiled and said: "Since I have found the cause, I ended the hypnosis state and asked him to tell the story of the past in a sober state. He told the truth that he had concealed for fifteen years. His parents were also shocked. Now that he has said it, the next thing is easy to handle. Cognitive therapy combined with behavioral therapy can be used..."

Dean Yan: "Just be specific!"

Ding Qi: "My treatment plan is very simple, but it is a bit troublesome to implement. They need to be willing to cooperate. I asked Xiao Bao to take his parents to find the guy who rescued him, tell the truth and apologize.

If possible, try to find the parties who witnessed all of this, such as the doctor in the hospital 15 years ago, the police in the police station, whether they remember it or not, but also tell the truth, not just for the guy Yes, it was also said for himself. "

Dean Yan asked with interest: "Fifteen years have passed, and his parents can't remember. Can you still find the young man who saved the life? Is it through the police's interrogation record?"

Ding Qi shook his head and said: "At that time, the police only came to conduct on-site mediation, and there was no case on file and no records were found. However, Xiao Bao remembered the young man’s name and mobile phone number, because when the police asked , The boy said it himself.

Are you surprised? Fifteen years later, after I found out the cause of his illness, when he was willing to face his memories, he could still remember so clearly that he could even memorize his mobile phone number! "

Dean Yan nodded slightly and said: "I don't feel surprised after listening to your description. This is his demon, lingering... What year is this?"

Ding Qi: "In the first half of last year, it was not long after I arrived at Boci Medical to work, and I pushed forward for 15 years, which was 2003. At that time, there were no smart phones. For so many years, mobile phones I haven’t changed my account, so I can still get in touch."

Dean Yan: "I am very interested in what that young man is doing now, who is he?"

Ding Qi: "His surname is Chen, and his name is Chen Zhijun. He was in his twenties and now in his early forties. He is an executive of a biomedical company. He works in Shanghai. Not only did he get in touch with him, he was also a mediator. The police, the doctor in the hospital, and Xiao Bao's family all found ways to find..."

Dean Yan: "How is that little bag now?"

Ding Qi smiled and said: "Very good, he will be fine after all this is done. Now he is still working in his original unit, and his personality has become very outgoing and even outgoing. I heard that he participated in various organizations organized by the unit not long ago. I won a prize in the departmental speech contest. It’s said that I like to talk and talk, and I can’t stop talking about drinking a little. I’m still wondering, was it overkill at the time, and the strength was a little overwhelming?"

Dean Yan also smiled and said: "It's better to be stronger, so that's right!"

Ding Qi brought the topic back: "In fact, similar things are not uncommon in life. They just happen in different forms, which are often not so extreme. They may only manifest themselves as psychological problems rather than mental disorders. For example, this time Find your troubled family of the deceased.

Since you reviewed the case and emergency records and determined that Doctor Ding was not responsible, can you tell me the cause of the patient's death? Since it is an emergency department for trauma, is there any place where the family members are not sent to the doctor in time or the treatment is wrong? "

Dean Yan: "I really made you right! The immediate cause of the patient's death is excessive blood loss. If it can be sent early, or the correct way of bandaging to stop bleeding is used in time before being sent to the doctor, it is still possible to rescue Come here."

Ding Qi: "Does the family of the deceased understand this?"

Dean Yan: "They really delayed a little time. After arriving at the hospital, they learned that the hemostasis method was incorrect, but they were not professionals..."

Ding Qi: "This is more in line with the psychological logic! This result is actually the most difficult to accept, because the fault is not in others, but it is likely to be in themselves. In the pain, there is no way to admit it. For such a fact, in their subconscious mind, they need to find another self-righteous fact to make them more acceptable."

The Dean Yan sighed again: "Teacher Ding can see through!" Then he suddenly recovered, patted his thigh and said, "Huh? No, I'm the one who asks for help! I'm here! Not to analyze their psychological problems, but to find Teacher Ding to analyze how my problems should be solved?"

Ding Qi smiled: "Just now I just craved rabbits. By the way, I'm sorry, professional habits! Of course the point is still your problem. In fact, the story just now focuses on the two words "heart demon". Everyone has Different demons."

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