Beyond the Noisy World: The Long Lost Eight Sects: 194, Yan Xile

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Yan Xile asked solemnly: "Teacher Ding, then what is my demon? I know I do have a problem, but I don't think too much about what it is."

Ding Qi asked back: "I didn't think too much, then it means you must have been thinking about it for a long time. What did you think?"

Yan Xile: "I know that this is some people in the world, some things have gone wrong, it is not my fault. To be honest, although the doctor is not responsible this time, I dare not say that I am There are good doctors in the hospital, and there are many people who can’t even understand me, even though they are also my students.

What's wrong with them and who I met this time? Teacher Ding has already analyzed thoroughly just now. But I came to you because my own state is not right, but I can't get rid of it. "

Ding Qi: "Your status is much better."

Yan Xile smiled: "Yes, after talking with Teacher Ding for a long time, my emotions got better before I knew it, and I didn't feel chest tightness anymore. Just forgot to tell you that I have been feeling chest tightness for the past few days. ."

Ding Qi: "Your cause has actually been found. It is incompatible with another hypothetical self, and conflicts with each other. You are constantly self-doubt and denial."

Yan Xile: "I am a little dizzy by you, can you make it clear?"

Ding Qi took out the paper and pen and said: "We can use mental chart analysis. I list options on this paper, and you will answer. First of all, have you ever thought about it—if this didn’t happen, how much Okay?"

This psychological meeting finally seems to have entered a "normal" rhythm, Yan Xile nodded and said: "Of course!"

Ding Qi: "If all this did not happen, it can be divided into two situations. The first situation is that there was no accident in the hospital. The trauma emergency patient did not show up that morning, or you did not encounter such a group Family members of the deceased."

Yan Xile: "Of course this is the best!"

Ding Qi shook his head and said: "But this assumption is meaningless to you, because it does not work from a psychological and logical perspective. It's not something you can choose." He crossed this out with a pen.

Yan Xile echoed: "Yes, this is not my choice."

Ding Qi went on to write and said: "Then there is only another possibility left. The situation you can choose is that you didn't rescue the truck driver on the road. Have you thought about it?"

Yan Xile looked a little sad and said: "I admit, I really thought about it this way. It's just such a flash of thought. If I didn't encounter this kind of thing on the road, and no one was hurt in front of my eyes, I might not This will happen."

Ding Qi also wrote down what Yan Xile said, and then crossed out: "You have provided one more situation, but this assumption is also meaningless, because it is not something you can decide. In fact, In psychological logic, there is only one thing you can choose and decide for yourself, that is, if you can save the truck driver."

Yan Xile sighed and said: "I have thought about this question repeatedly, but I can't save him, and I am fully capable of saving his life, it is just a simple effort. If I didn't do that at the time, I'm afraid I will spend my life. Will feel uneasy."

In this incident, Yan Xile was not an ordinary passerby, he was a highly respected surgical expert. If a truck driver is injured, a simple minor operation can save a life, but he chooses to stand on the sidelines, this is not in line with his own personality. If this incident spreads out, it will subvert and mock his life even more.

Ding Qi nodded and said: "Your demons are born from this. As long as you think about this choice, you are assuming another self. We often make another assumption about the facts that have already happened. Sexual selection is like opening up another parallel world. There is another self in that world. This other self is unacceptable to you, so there is inner conflict."

Yan Xi Le moved and said: "I used to think more than once, what would happen if I didn’t save people at that time? There was another self in my mind. I was very afraid of being that kind of person, and I don’t want to meet that kind of person. People."

Ding Qi: "This kind of deep-seated fear and fear caused your symptoms. Now we can change a chart, which lists you in various situations and what you will do Choice." He took out another piece of paper, and said as he wrote, "An imaginary self appeared just now, and we made a code name, Yan Jiale, which is Yan Jiale who can't save him."

Yan Xile added: "I'm actually still afraid of another thing. If I encounter something like this in the future, will I really become the Yan Jiale you said?"

Ding Qi: "We cannot decide what we will encounter, but we can decide who we become. Are you Yan Jiale?"

Yan Xile: "I am not."

After finishing writing, Ding Qi crossed out the name again and said: "This Yan Jiale no longer exists because you don't want to be him. In fact, you did not become him. Then there is another one. There is a problem.

You are a surgical expert with outstanding professional achievements and hope to gain a good social reputation. If you choose to save people, there is no contradiction in your heart. This not only proves your professional level, but also will be respected and praised by the public opinion.

This is who you want to be. You have become such a person. That's what you did, so there is no need to use any code for this name. He is called Yan Xile. Dean Yan Xile is highly respected and professional, how could he not save the truck driver? "

Yan Xile nodded repeatedly and said: "Yes, this really touches my heart, but..."

Ding Qi stopped the conversation and said: "But the reality does not seem to be the case. A highly respected expert was accused by thousands of people for leaving his job without permission and resulting in the death of the patient. Such a self is unacceptable to you. , Let’s use a code name, let’s call him Yan Yile."

Yan Xile sighed helplessly: "Yes, I cannot accept the existence of such a Yan Yile."

Ding Qi: "This is your demon. It is precisely because of Yan Yile's existence that Yan Jiale appeared! Many things are not for you to choose. If you don't want Yan Yile to exist, it seems you can make choices. You can only save the truck driver. But in that case, you will become Yan Jiale. This is your inner conflict, which has always existed in your subconscious."

Yan Xile opened her mouth for a long time, and finally only said one sentence: "Psychological chart analysis? Teacher Ding deserves to be Teacher Ding! You have straightened out my inner activities and found the problem accurately. This is really my demon, so how can I..."

Ding Qi said in a very gentle but very sure tone: "The real Yan Xile has always existed and has never disappeared. And Yan Jiale does not exist, he has been erased by you. As for Yan Yile, in fact, it never existed." After speaking, he also wiped out the name Yan Yile on the paper.

Yan Xile was a little absent-minded: "Why doesn't it exist?"

Ding Qi: "Because this Yan Yile is just an image fabricated by the family of the deceased, not a choice you made yourself. When we look at the true heart, in fact, he has never existed.

So what you face from start to finish is just the families of the deceased who vent their emotions. This is just the experience in social life. People who really know you in work and life know that Yan Yile does not exist, and you know it very well.

What you fear from beginning to end is that you will become Yan Jiale. Your question is different from Xiao Bao. Xiao Bao’s inner conflict is that there is really such a self. He once chose to be that kind of person, so he needs to make a new choice, but you don’t need it. "

Ding Qi held up the second piece of paper to Yan Xile’s eyes. On the paper, only three names were written side by side. Yan Xile was in the middle, and both "Yan Jiale" and "Yan Yile" were on the right. It has been erased, and his tone rhythm is a bit strange, not only does it not slow down: "I will count from one to five now, and you will be fully awake when you wake up..."

After Yan Xile "woke up", her expression was a little dazed, but her emotions and body were very relaxed, and she felt lazily leaning on the sofa not wanting to move. It took a while before he reacted and sat up straight again and asked: "Mr. Ding, did you hypnotize me just now?"

Ding Qi smiled and nodded: "Yes, when I told that story, I already hypnotized you."

Yan Xi Yue hesitated to say something but stopped saying: "But hypnosis shouldn't be..."

Ding Qi smiled again and said: "I am confused, relaxed or stiff, do what I tell you to do? Those are just stage performances, which are very different from psychotherapy. There are many forms of hypnosis. It can also be done in a awake state, but some subconsciousness is adjusted appropriately. Let me tell you, some people can hypnotize themselves by listening to music..."

The following is a very relaxing conversation. Yan Xile remembers everything that happened just now. The two chatted for a while about the principle of hypnosis. Ding Qi didn't even ask Yan Xile if his feelings recovered. It's normal. But Yan Xile took the initiative to say: "Teacher Ding, thank you very much, I am fine, I just feel a little hungry."

Ding Qi: "Because you didn't have a meal at noon before you came? I will invite you to dinner later, and it will be almost there soon."

Yan Xile: "No, no, of course I should invite you." He looked at his watch again, "Oh, it's been more than three hours, I only made an appointment for two hours."

Ding Qi: "We talk for a long time. If we have more time, even if I have a treat."

Yan Xile: "Can you still get a discount on this kind of thing? Besides, I don't pay you directly. It's your Boci Medical who charges for it, so don't be polite to me!"

Ding Qi: "Then let me invite you to dinner, it's almost time to get off work."

Yan Xile: "It's three and a half hours now, so we can make it up. Let's talk for another half an hour. I still have something to ask you."

Ding Qi: "If you want to ask, just ask, just as a normal chat."

Yan Xile: "The diagnosis you and Director Xin made to Xiao Bao are both neurosis, and his psychological conflict is a metamorphic conflict. I am also a doctor, and I can understand these professional terms. Then you can give me more To make a medical diagnosis, is my psychological conflict deformed conflict, and is the symptom also neurosis?"

Ding Qi said in an irrefutable tone: "You have no symptoms."

Yan Xile: "I mean before you come, you will diagnose me. This is also a professional curiosity, please be satisfied."

Ding Qi smiled: "You have no neurosis, and it is not serious enough. You are just a psychological conflict but no mental disorder. The type of psychological conflict is also a normal conflict."

Yan Xile seemed to be reluctant to ask: "Why is my problem a regular conflict? I think it is also very serious!"

Ding Qi: "This is completely in line with the logic of reality. No matter who encounters something like you, it’s strange if you are not depressed! If you are not only not depressed, but ecstatic and elated, it’s more than just a neurosis. There is definitely a problem with insight, I will diagnose you as mentally ill!"

These words made Yan Xile amused, and the atmosphere turned out to be very cheerful for a while. Yan Xile smiled and said, "So I am really not sick."

Ding Qi: "You have never been sick, and someone else is sick."

While talking and laughing, Yan Xile suddenly sighed again, and waved his hand helplessly: "Teacher Ding, I am indeed all right. But after thinking about it, it doesn’t seem to solve the problem. Get out of this room. The psychology clinic, the world is still like that."

Ding Qi explained: "The psychologist only solves the psychological problems, not the other problems of the seeker in reality. For example, we can’t help the broken-hearted person introduce someone. But you are also a part of this world, your psychology When the problem is solved, it means that part of the world has changed."

The things that Dean Yan encounters are very complicated, full of various unexpected situations, and it is difficult to sort out the complexities. Ding Qi helped him find the source of his inner conflict. In fact, it was a very simple question-whether he could save the truck driver. The answer must be clear, because the other encounters are not something that Dean Yan can foresee and choose. Deep down, there is only one choice he can make.

This kind of conflict exists in the subconscious, and Dean Yan himself is not clearly aware of it. If it is not resolved, his symptoms will be difficult to alleviate, and with more serious consequences, he may become a disappointed person who thinks he has seen it through.

Yan Xile finally said: "While you are still here, you are a psychiatrist, I will say a few words in my heart. Do you know how I feel now? I want to scold my mother, and I want to beat people, this guy **** ..." He actually cursed a series of vulgar words. It is hard to imagine that these words will come from the respected and gentle Dean Yan.

When he was overwhelmed with scolding, Ding Qi said, “The psychologist can’t solve the problems in reality. It was he who called and called a group of people, carrying a wrench and large pliers to beat all those who were besieging you."

Yan Xile patted the coffee table and said: "That's what I said! Go, eat, and drink a few drinks!"