Beyond the Noisy World: The Long Lost Eight Sects: 318, Teacher Ding is in class again

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Cui Shanhai murmured: "This kind of person is too terrible!"

Zhu Shanxian: "Yes, not only vicious but also stupid. I have lived here for more than 40 years. I have lived here for more than 40 years. I have lived here for more than 40 years, including acquaintances, colleagues, neighbors, folks, good people and bad people. , Can feel good intentions and evil thoughts, but such extreme situations are the only case. There are very few such people, but as long as they encounter them, they are also very scary.

There is another kind of people who are more vicious, but not too stupid. They are smarter and more energetic. They will do the same thing, but they are more concealed and unprepared, like The opponent we met in Shennongjia this time. Junior Brother Cui was more difficult and more valuable than I killed someone for the first time. "

Ding Qi said at the right time: "After all, this kind of people are rare in this world, and more of them are cute people, such as our Secretary Zhu. If there were no Secretary Zhu, those two innocent people would have already died. , I'm afraid they still don't know it yet, right?"

Zhu Shanxian: "Of course I can't tell them, except for my master and Lao Tan, I haven't told anyone before."

Ding Qi said again: "Brother Cui, today you are Senior Brother Zhu back then. You did the same thing as Brother Zhu. How we think of Brother Zhu, you should think of yourself."

Cui Shanhai let out a sigh of relief: "Oh, I understand, you are doing psychological counseling for me after a long time."

Tan Hanchuan smiled and said: "Yes, Lao Zhu has even dedicated the secrets he has buried for many years."

At this time, Bi Xuecheng said weakly: "Uncle Zhu, I just asked what happened afterwards, not what happened to the person afterwards, but whether you have told your master and what his elders said?"

Zhu Shanxian: "I didn't tell Master that I killed someone at first, but told him that I drank too much at the banquet and saw the strange thing, and then it happened and I stopped it again. As a result, I Master’s first sentence is—I heard that the man died. Did you kill it?

I talked to Master about this matter. It has been several days. It seems that Master has been paying attention to me secretly. He also heard that Uncle Su Liu is dead. When I heard it, I knew that I had killed him. Then I confessed it happily and told all the story.

I remember the master was looking at my eyes all the time, as if he had seen me through, and then told me-you gave him a chance, claiming that it was a chance not to kill him. The fact is on the contrary. Your heart is very clear. By doing that, you gave yourself a chance to kill him. It depends on how he chooses. "

Ding Qi nodded slightly and said: "His old man really sees it through."

Zhu Shanxian also nodded and said with emotion: "Yes, knowing the son is better than the father, and the master and apprentice are like the father and son. His old man really sees me through, more clearly than I see myself."

Shang Ni murmured: "In fact, I don't need him to be an old man. I can see it at a glance if I change to a person like Teacher Ding. Do you think about what Teacher Ding did before?"

Zhuang Mengzhou stared: "Little Nizi, don't talk if you can't speak!"

Why do you say that? It was because Zhu Shanxian wanted to kill Su Liushu at that time, but from his standpoint it was not easy to do it directly. Strictly speaking, Uncle Su Liu was an attempted crime. Before he could break the brake tube, Zhu Shanxian stopped drinking.

For things like this, even if the police were to deal with them, it would be a headache. They belonged to the folks in the village. The things weren't really done. It is estimated that they would be criticized and educated with a muddy mud. But on the other hand, the existence of this kind of person and the appearance of this kind of behavior are really terrible.

Su Liushu begged him not to tell the matter, but Zhu Shanxian did not agree, claiming to make it public at the banquet. Zhu Shanxian sees the truth very clearly, he is not qualified to forgive Su Liushu, let alone take a stand to shield him. To say forgiveness is also a matter for his sister and brother-in-law.

People like Uncle Su Liu haven't changed because of Zhu Shanxian's few lessons. If he does not get punished for doing this kind of thing, he will only get worse. He can be murderous because he is worried that his sister and brother-in-law will let him pay back the money, and he can also be murderous because he is worried that Zhu Shanxian will shake off his scandal.

Publishing it, letting the innocent know the truth and beware of it, is what Zhu Shanxian should do. But Zhu Shanxian also knew that Uncle Su Liu would not choose that. Master was right, Zhu Shanxian said that and then turned around, just trying to kill this person! Use behaviors that conform to your beliefs.

But for another person, I’m afraid it’s hard to handle it so cleanly.

Ye Yanxing also whispered: "Uncle Zhu, in fact, I want to ask another question. You didn't get started or just got started when you first practiced Jueman Qi Art. Isn't that amazing already? That person? You can see what you want to do in advance, and you can even see the actions and scenes?"

Zhu Shanxian smiled: "This question is a good question. I also asked Master, what was going on at that time? Master told me that I have gotten started with Jueman Qi Art."

Ye Yanxing asked, "Is the Juemen Wang Qi technique so exaggerated just after getting started?"

Zhu Shanxian shook his head again: "No, no, of course it's not that exaggerated. Master said that it was just a momentary intimacy. Some people were in a trance state when they first started practicing the secret arts, as if they had encountered it. In the future realm, this is an indescribable feeling, just like a blessing to the soul, and it also shows that I have the roots of wisdom in the practice of Wang Qi.

It was just the feeling of being drunk for a moment, but I already knew that cultivating Wang Qi technique can reach that state. It’s just ashamed that I have not been able to do that step until now. Although I can observe people’s sentiments, I can also judge many things. Of course, my experience in the arena is much more sophisticated than before. "

Meng Huiyu couldn't help but speak: "What about later?"

Zhu Shanxian: "It was from this day that Master told me what Juemen Qishu is, and said that he is the heir of the Juemen of Jianghu, and officially accepted me as a disciple. I asked Master about this Whether things are done right or not, the master said that I did it right, and solemnly told me that no matter where you are, first be a good person, then be a smart person, and finally be a righteous person."

Meng Hui said: "Uncle Uncle, can you elaborate on it?"

Zhu Shanxian pointed at Ding Qi and said: "You should ask your master, he is our teacher Ding."

Seeing the gazes of several disciples, Ding Qi smiled, it is not easy to explain these three questions clearly. But recently, he didn't have much time to give special instructions to his disciples. It was a rare opportunity for everyone from Fangwaimen to come together today.

Ding Qi couldn't help but remember that last year, he had an exchange with Li Qinghua and talked about similar issues, but he hasn't specifically talked about these with a few disciples. Now it seems that it is necessary to make up lessons.

At that time, he was standing as a psychology researcher and told the story of the famous "Heinz stealing drugs", and the American psychologist Kohlberg divided the moral level into three levels With six stages, each level contains two stages. (Note: Please refer to Chapter 115 of this book for details)

The first level is the pre-convention level, where people choose behavior through consequences, not ethical standards and legal norms. Take that Uncle Su Liu, for example, the consequence of killing he wanted was that he didn't have to pay back the money, so he chose to kill.

In his cognition, other consequences of killing can also be expected, so he tried his best to avoid possible punishment and chose to quietly destroy the brake pipe. After the behavior was exposed, he acted on Zhu Shanxian based on the same motivation.

But what needs to be pointed out is that when people choose behaviors based only on the consequences they want, the consequences they actually get are often not what they want, or even from a broad perspective, in most cases.

The second level is the level of custom. People choose behaviors based on rational standards and legal norms. The two stages involved are from passive compliance to active maintenance.

The third level is the post-custom level. Individuals’ ethics surpass social ethical standards and legal norms, and they can recognize the value orientation, social public interests and rights represented by these ethical standards and social norms. , Even know the logical source of it, know whether it is reasonable under what circumstances.

This kind of person is very clear about what they are doing, and they also clearly understand what the value conflicts contained in society are, and then make choices. This is also the only way to self-realization.

These divisions are just points raised from the perspective of developmental psychology. Ding Qi just gave a brief introduction. He also needs to explain the three words of Zhu Shanxian’s master from another angle: First, Only by being a good person and then being a smart person can you be an upright person.

How to define a good person is difficult and simple, but it is not complicated in Zhu Shanxian's story. Zhu Shanxian is a good person, a smart person and an upright person.

When people learn to think, they must first have the simplest knowledge of kindness, have a normal mind and thus have empathy. Many perverted criminals often lack this aspect in their understanding.

For example, if people can kill at will, everyone is likely to be killed. Do people themselves want to be killed? of course not! Therefore, it is not allowed to kill at will, and in turn, the act of killing at will should be prevented and punished. This is the simplest kind of empathy, the inevitable result of wisdom reflection, the original source of moral standards and legal norms, and the core of value contained in all moral principles.

It is also the simplest definition of a good person, an abstract standard. People make mistakes, but they can be used to define the self in a certain period of time and a certain behavior.

So the so-called smart people are able to see the essence, not only the essence of moral standards and legal norms, but also the essence of the value conflicts contained in various behaviors, knowing what others are doing, what they should do and being able to do what. Smart people are also an abstract standard, because people inevitably get confused.

Zhu Shanxian is a good person. The reason why he kills Uncle Su Liu is based on the simplest kindness in his heart, so he made a choice in the conflict of values.

If Zhu Shanxian discovers this kind of thing, and neither prevents him nor tries to make Su Liu uncle punished, it means that he either lacks conscience or lacks courage. The reason why Zhu Shanxian stopped on the spot and was not afraid to put himself in a dangerous situation was based on his confidence in his skills and a clear judgment of Su Liushu's motives, behavior, and his own situation.

But in another situation, if Zhu Shanxian is an ordinary person who doesn't know how to martial arts, I am afraid he is not an opponent of a mob with pliers, what should he do? In fact, Zhu Shanxian can take another approach. Instead of drinking on the spot, he returns to the banquet to remind Uncle Su's sister and brother-in-law to tell everyone about this.

The value choices of these two approaches are the same, but the methods adopted are different. If you can adopt a more appropriate method according to the actual situation, you are a smart person.

Forgiveness and kindness are also virtues, but people often misunderstand these virtues. The key lies in our behavior to maintain what kind of values. Uncle Su Liu tried to be forgiven by Zhu Shanxian, but Zhu Shanxian was not qualified to forgive him.

Only the victims are qualified to forgive the perpetrators, and they are also qualified to choose not to forgive. Regardless of whether they are forgiven or not, people have to bear the consequences of their words and deeds.

In fact, Zhu Shanxian has given the greatest degree of benevolence. He prevented Su Liu's behavior, not only saving Su Liu's sister and brother-in-law, but actually saving Su Liu's own person. Unfortunately, Uncle Su Liu didn't realize this at all, and continued to make vicious choices.

If Zhu Shanxian lets Uncle Su's actions get no punishment, it is not kindness, because he has made another choice in the conflict of values.

Many people think they have a conscience in their hearts, but the actual behavior has made another choice. Not only did they fail to maintain the conscience, but they also justified themselves with kindness or forgiveness. This is exactly contrary to true conscience. The choice made in the conflict of values ​​reflects what kind of person he or she is.

So what is an upright person? Many people also have a misunderstanding about integrity. Being straight-forward is not integrity, nor is it straightforward in character. The so-called knife mouth and tofu heart are not integrity. There is a sentence in "Book of Changes" that is very thorough: "Respect for straightforwardness, and righteousness for outside."

Integrity is not superficial honesty. First of all, it is righteousness. Being able to make a choice that does not violate conscience in a conflict of values ​​is straightforwardness. An upright person needs to think more. For things like Zhu Shanxian's stopping Su Liushu, he may think about what to do, but he doesn't think about whether he should do it or not.

There is a saying that is unpredictable. In fact, from a psychological point of view, both cognitive and behavioral patterns can be analyzed. On this basis, it can be measured and predicted, at least from a statistical point of view. Measured. So when she encountered an ambush in Shennongjia, Ding Qi was angry but not surprised. If he hadn't measured it, how could he be prepared?

Ding Qi didn't use spiritual thoughts. He was just talking about it. It felt as if he had returned to the class of the year. Then he asked a very interesting and ancient question that is always inevitable-who am I?

After someone makes a certain kind of words and deeds, they will often say: "I’m such a person!" In fact, this question does not matter what kind of person you are. What really makes sense is why I am I?

We say that Zhang San and Li Si are different. The real meaning is that under certain circumstances, Zhang San and Li Si will make different choices, and they will inevitably make different choices. This represents who you are and why I am me, which is the source of the meaning of "I" and the concept of existence.

If everyone in the world has the same face, or the same furnace, then what is the real difference? Why do I think I am? Ding Qi's secret formula cultivation base has reached the peak of the furnace ding state. If you want to go further, this is what you need to repair, because the internal thinking system of the secret formula lies in directing the mind.

Ding Qi also mentioned the ten door rules of Fangwaimen (Live: see Chapter 127 of this book for details). The door rules were formulated by Ding Qi, and the elders who founded Fangwaimen unanimously agreed that it represents Ding Qi's values ​​and conforms to the choices made by everyone. Seeing it, you know what kind of person Ding Qi is, and what kind of group of people form the outer door of the cube.

The disciples who join Fang Waimen now not only obey and maintain it, but also understand why there are such rules. But for Ding Qi, he doesn't need to deliberately think about the content of the door rules, it is already inevitable for his words and deeds.

Ding Qi talked about forty-five minutes, which happened to be the time of one class, and finally said: "Brother Cui has just heard the sigh of the ancients, humans are beasts, beasts are humans? Small, you understand. Right?"

With so many people sitting around, the last thing he asked was a sparrow. Xiao Qiao nodded seriously, standing on Xian Hao's shoulder, and everyone laughed.

Seeing several junior disciples nodding their heads and showing a thoughtful look, Zhuang Mengzhou said with a smile: "If you understand it, you may not really understand it. In that case, let me ask a little question. , You kids come and answer."

Bi Xuecheng preemptively said: "Mr. Zhuang, you ask!"

Zhuang Mengzhou: "If you are a girl and live in a girls' dormitory, you also have a female classmate in your dormitory. She is beautiful and gentle, she is very capable and kind-hearted..."

Bi Xuecheng: "What do you mean, you want to compare me?"

Shang Ni: "Little Bi, don't interrupt, listen to Mr. Zhuang."

Zhuang Mengzhou said unhurriedly: "If there is a boy in your school who likes this girl and is pursuing this girl, but this girl doesn't like him, and has seriously rejected this boy.

One day, when you were all in the dormitory, this guy came again with a bunch of roses, stood downstairs and confessed to the girl loudly, and took out a knife at himself, claiming that if the girl doesn’t accept , He died there on the spot..."

Bi Xuecheng: "But I am not a girl, and I have never encountered such a thing."

Ding Qi: "Just assume you are, and assume you met!"

Zhuang Mengzhou: "The problem is very simple. You are standing next to that girl. The girl is very flustered. How would you persuade her, or what would you do? Teacher Ding said so much just now, if you really listen Understand, then give an answer."