From Being Grandpa: 84. Don’t value self-esteem too much

"From being grandpa()"

Now that Zhang Ran provides him with such an opportunity, in fact, for many people, it is undesirable.

It is not an exaggeration to say that it is a step up to the sky. If Liu Ming is capable, he can also become Zhang Ran's spokesperson for the South African Development Bank.

But these still need to ask Liu Ming's own opinions.

But Zhang Ran believes that Liu Ming will not refuse. Now Liu Ming has never pursued Zhang Siyan again.

The first is that Zhang Siyan is not considering these for the time being, and the second is that she has some inferiority complex in her heart, and feels that she is not worthy of Zhang Siyan.

Men are always more sensitive in this regard, especially in front of the women they like. They don’t want to rely on women, but hope that through their hands and abilities, they can give the person they like a stable and reliable Home.

Zhang Ran now gave him such an opportunity, although even if Liu Ming succeeded in doing it in the future, he would only be a representative of the Zhang family.

But it also proved his ability!

And this can be regarded as helping Zhang Siyan.

Zhang Ran talked about his thoughts here, and then asked Zhang Sicheng: "What do you think of this?"

"Dad, did you agree?" Zhang Sicheng did not answer, but asked instead.

Zhang Ran said: "It is impossible for Si Yan to never marry forever. Of course, I respect her. No matter what choice Si Yan makes, I will support it unconditionally.

It’s just that, as your father, I also need to make some preparations for you. If Si Yan changes his mind any time, then Liu Ming is indeed a good choice.

Of course, when you go to see Liu Ming, you should also make it clear to him. Don’t let people think that our Zhang family is completely using him. To put it bluntly, he is not worthy of our use. "

When facing Zhang Sicheng, Zhang Ran made his words very clear, because he also told Zhang Sicheng that as an older brother, he also needs to protect his sister at all times. This is also his responsibility.

Even in front of his brother and his sister, he still needs to give his sister a guarantee.

Zhang Sicheng understood what his father meant, but he certainly wouldn't say that when he went to see Liu Ming.

"There is one more thing you have to make clear to him. Our Zhang family doesn’t care about money or power, so in the future, if he and Si Yan become successful, don’t engage in machismo, don’t think of your own success. It's totally dependent on women.

Although this is indeed the case, I don’t want him to think so, and I don’t like him because of this psychological burden.

That kind of marriage is unhappy. If he has such an idea, then let him explain it in advance.

Should he think so when the time comes, and because of this, I will disappoint Si Yan again, as a father, I will never spare him.

Think about Sun Gaixin. If he really did this, and even finally did something to apologize to Si Yan, his results would definitely be more miserable than Sun Gaixin, that’s what I said. "

Zhang Ran told his son all of his thoughts, and he told Liu Ming through his mouth.

Men need to have their own careers and don't want to rely on women. This is understandable, but in fact they are more in favor.

But when the reality is like this, and when it's about his daughter, then Zhang Ran won't think so.

Everything is based on the happiness of my daughter.

"Well, I understand, but I don't know what Si Yan thinks over there." Zhang Sicheng sighed.

"No matter what she thinks, you, as an older brother, should take these into account." Zhang Ran said politely.

Zhang Sicheng felt helpless, "I knew I should have come out later."

"Hehe, even if you are a younger brother, you still need to consider your sister." Zhang Ran laughed.

Zhang Sicheng felt that he couldn't talk to his father, so he sighed again and hung up the phone.

I thought about it for almost an afternoon at home, and when it was evening, Zhang Sicheng called Liu Ming to eat at home.

At the same time, he told Liu Lu some things, and asked her to say a little bit on the side, lest he couldn't say something here.

Liu Lu has no objection to this. As Zhang's daughter-in-law, she naturally considers everything for her family.

This is a life-long matter for my sister-in-law, and of course she cares.

In the evening, Liu Ming came to the banquet and knew that Zhang Ran was not at home, so he also seemed very relaxed. He smiled as soon as he walked in the door, "What's the situation today, Mr. Zhang actually invited me to dinner?"

"Hehe, I have invited you too many times, and I don't know who would dare to come to my house." Zhang Sicheng said unceremoniously.

Liu Ming spread his hands and said: "Uncle's aura is too strong, I always feel a little pressure in front of him."

"That was someone's guilty conscience. When I saw my dad, my courage was naturally weakened." Zhang Sicheng said mockingly.

Liu Ming felt helpless. After sitting down, he greeted Liu Lu who was still in the kitchen, "Sister, don’t care about your family~IndoMTL.com~ Is it so bad to talk now?"

Liu Lu's voice came from the kitchen, "I can't control it. People are now the big boss, I dare not speak loudly in front of him."

Hearing what Liu Lu said, Zhang Sicheng couldn't sit still, "I said my wife, don't discredit me, I dare not speak loudly to you."

"Hahaha." Seeing these two people laughing, Liu Ming couldn't help but laugh, and then Zhang Sicheng glared at him. It wasn't you who led him out.

Liu Ming has always envied the marriage of Zhang Sicheng and Liu Lu. Such a marriage is really the perfect marriage in his heart.

Even now that Zhang Sicheng has posted, their marriage is still so happy, and Liu Lu has never changed his mentality.

And all this can actually be attributed to Zhang Ran.

If it weren't for the many things Zhang Ran had done before, he had never regarded Liu Lu as an outsider, and had always stood firmly behind Liu Lu.

Then Liu Lu does not necessarily have the current mentality.

After Liu Lu made the dishes, the three of them sat down, and the two children were still in hobby classes. Liu Lu reported this to them.

Two of them quietly reported to the newspaper while Zhang Ran was away.

Of course, Zhang Ran must know now, after all, the two little guys have to show Zhang Ran a video every day. ,

It's just that Zhang Ran doesn't have much to say. He just told Liu Lu not to report too much.

"Let's talk, brother, what is the matter with you coming to me this time?" Liu Ming asked with a smile after drinking for three rounds.

Of course he knows that Zhang Sicheng called himself over this time.

He was also a little curious, what did Zhang Sicheng ask for to come over? It seems to be quite important?