House Dad’s Literary Life Chapter 1066: Encouragement and perfection (3/3)

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Dad ’s question is so easy to answer. I ’m not happy playing the game of stacking cups, of course I am happy! Xixi smiled gleefully and nodded with her father.

"Then dad describes an environment with you, that is, if you are given a room, such as our current bedroom, you are playing with a stack of cups in the room by yourself, do you feel happy, or do we have fun tonight?" Yang Yi's problem is described very clearly.

However, Xi Xi still has a big brain hole. She tilted her small head and asked curiously, "Did Xiner play with me?"

"No Xiner, only you." Yang Yi shook her head.

Xi Xi blinked her eyes, then quickly shook her head and said with a small mouth: "I don't want to play alone!"

Xi Xi was really lonely when she was young, but since she was four years old, she was accompanied by her father at home, and her father and mother would also take her out to play on business trips. Many good friends have made her a little unaccustomed to being alone!

Yang Yi mentioned this, just made a small comparison, and did not intend to frighten Xi Xi, so I saw him with a slight smile, and then said: "Then do you think that when playing tonight, you stack the cups The stacking is very strong, and then when your parents, your brother, and your brother applaud you, do you feel particularly fulfilled? "

Xi Xi immediately thought of the feeling she had just made, and suddenly she regained her enthusiasm: "Well, yes, super happy!"

"So, this is what we strive to do, in fact not just for ourselves, but also want to be recognized by more people. Compliments or encouragement from others is one for each of us. Very strong motivation! Are you happier after you get everyone's praise and hope you can do better? "Yang Yi shook his fist and said to Xi Xi.

Xi Xi nodded cleverly.

"Do you think that when Dad told you to applaud my mother or brother, were they not happy?" Yang Yi then raised another question.

Xi Xi ’s eyes lit up. She had something to say about this topic. She saw her father ’s hand happily and said, “Baba, I ’ll tell you, I ’m with you and my brother. Give Ma After Ma applauded, Ma Ma was willing to play stacking cups, and then she didn't know that she was super powerful too! "

Looking at the girl's delighted appearance, it seems that Murphy has the same credit for playing the Super Stack Cup.

Yang Yi was amused by the innocent appearance of the little girl. He smiled, stretched out his right hand and rubbed Xi Xi and some slightly damp hair, and said, "Yes, your encouragement is very important!"

"There is also a younger brother, he also likes to play, and he was so happy when I gave him the thumbs up!" Xi Xi and his dad gestured their little thumbs and smiled gleefully .

"Well, that ’s right, this is the first topic that Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We ca n’t bear to say something encouraging to others!" Yang Yi said softly, "You also saw how powerful the encouragement is. Powerful? No matter if someone encourages you, or if you encourage others, just such a short sentence, just such a simple gesture ... "

Yang Yi gave her thumbs up and pointed her to Xixi: "What is easy to do, but can give others, or others can give us more joy and better motivation. "

Although Dad was laughing, his attitude was upright, Xi Xi also felt it, and he looked at Dad intently and listened carefully.

"Do n’t underestimate this little encouragement. Although such encouragement is not the key to a person ’s success, this encouragement can help each other and do something better!" Yang Yi said gently. , "You think, tonight you are in such a good mood, stacking cups fast and accurately, if you don't have the encouragement of your father, mother, and brother, the mood is more general, is it possible that it is not so powerful?"

Xi Xi nodded vigorously, and Dad ’s metaphors were relatively straightforward. Until now, Xi Xi listened, there was not too much burden, because she was still in a state of ignorance and did not know where these principles should be used.

"Why does Dad talk to you about this topic?" Yang Yi smiled slightly and said, "Because when Dad picks you up and Xin'er home this evening, you and Xin'er are in the car, it doesn't mean you don't Do you like the monitor to take care of Xiaoya? "

Xi Xi saw her father suddenly said this and realized that she might have done something wrong. She twisted on the chair nervously, and nodded reluctantly.

"Daddy thinks that your mentality may not be very good. Before doing something, we first deny the ability of others, which will bring negative energy to each other and to us." Yang Yi Laughing, "Daddy said this, you might have a hard time understanding, that is, we think about it in another way. If we didn't look at this problem with this unhappy mindset at the beginning, we told him before. In that way, go tell Cao Ruolin, squad leader, I believe you will take good care of Xiaoya, and you are also a very caring person! Then, she is in a good mood, will she also work hard to take care of Xiaoya? "

Xi Xi grinned at her little mouth and said, "But, I hope Xiaoya can come to our house to play!"

"This is the second topic that Dad wants to talk to you tonight. We must have a heart for perfection, but what we have to do is not perfect, but perfect! Because in this world, not all Things can satisfy our own wishes. "Yang Yi also used tonight's events as an example." For example, tonight, when you play stacking cups, you feel that you stack faster, compared with mom and dad, who Fold faster? "

Since the reality has been debunked, Xi Xi feels very unhappy. She reluctantly whispered: "Baba and Ma are faster."

"Yes, you have n’t been able to do your best, but that ’s okay! Dad still thinks you are doing well tonight, and you are also very happy, we are all very happy, because although you have not been able to do the best Okay, but Dad thinks that you have done a great job, you can do it so well on the first day, and there will definitely be better progress in the future! Think of it, your performance is worthy of praise and joy , Did you say that? "Yang Yi said softly.

Xi Xi listened to her father, and thought about it carefully. She did perform very well. No wonder that her father and mother were so happy, and she was in a better mood again. She smiled and said, "Yes!" /

"So ah, we want to be the best, but sometimes, we ca n’t be the best, it does n’t matter, as long as we put in the effort, we get progress, or we should have this stage The results are already very good! "Yang Yi gave a thumbs up to Xixi.

"The truth of asking Xiaoya to be a guest in our house is actually the same. You are very kind. I hope Xiaoya can come home and get good care. This idea is very good, but other students also have this idea. The individual can be satisfied. So the teacher also considered this problem. Maybe this weekend, Xiaoya went to the home of Cao Ruolin, the class leader. Next week, maybe Xiaoya will come to our house, even if you do n’t come next week, it will be next week. Probably will come. "

"The teacher believes you very much, you are all very caring children, no matter who's home Xiaoya goes to, she will be able to have a good time." Yang Yi said softly, "If it is coming next week, little Come to our house, will you entertain it with enthusiasm? "

"Of course!" Xi Xi nodded vigorously and increased the volume, "I'm going to live in my room for Xiaoya, so Xiaoya they won't scare Xiaoya!"

"You see, although Xiaoya didn't come to our house this weekend, this is not the most perfect, but if it comes in the future, you will still be very happy, will you?" Yang Yi said softly.

"Well!" Xi Xi nodded faster this time, but this time she didn't smile, just pursed her lips and tried to accept it.

"Then, if we don't want to be so low, we are very happy to congratulate Cao Ruolin and encourage her, hoping that she will take care of Xiaoya. The next time when Xiaoya comes to our house, we will come to take care of the baby better. Ya, can you be happy too? "Yang Yi said with a smile.

"Actually, the monitor is actually very good. On Thursday, she was not afraid when she wiped Xiaoya off, and she also bought a lot of rags!" Xi Xi finally said a fair word, Originally, these findings were hidden in her heart.