House Dad’s Literary Life Chapter 681: How to guide Xi Xi ’s curiosity (4/4, add more to Ning Xiaojia ’s reward)
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This question is really embarrassing to talk about, especially in front of my little sister ...
Yang Yi looked at Xi Xi ’s big curious eyes and said helplessly: "Of course, Dad is like a boy ... because Dad is also a boy!"
"But, but ..." Xi Xi wanted to say something.
"Okay!" Yang Yi rubbed the little girl's head and said with a cry, "What's the problem, let's go home when we are free, let's talk about it now, it's forbidden to talk about it now."
"Okay ..." Xi Xi said regretfully, she still has some intentions, it seems that this topic may still be discussed.
Somehow, Xi Xi was comforted, but this faint embarrassment lingered in the hotel box until Mo Xiaojuan finished eating lunch, excuse something, and left early.
Anyway, Yang Yi is back, and she is not required to accompany Murphy.
At noon, after Xi Xi went to sleep, Yang Yi came to the bedroom next door. Murphy was lying on the side of the bed, humming the song gently, and coaxing a little noisy and wanting to play.
The little guy is still a little cute when he is asleep, with one small hand on his stomach and one on his side, and then his small face is facing the direction of his mother, and the small mouth is slightly raised, I do n’t know if it is It ’s not that listening to songs makes me happy to fall asleep.
Murphy saw Xiaoluo falling asleep, she sighed with relief and hugged the little guy to the crib, so she could lie beside Yang Yi at ease.
"I don't know, Xi Xi saw the *** that was so curious." Murphy pulled over Yang Yi's hand so that he could snuggle in his arms, and then looked at Yang Yi's side Face asked, "You said, do I need to find an opportunity to talk to her about this matter?"
Mo Xiaojuan came to accompany her today. The two sisters watched TV and chatted together. Of course, they also had to take care of their children. Fortunately, Xixi, playing her own games with her puppet dolls on her side, you do n’t need to worry about Murphy, and Xiaoluo is almost the same. He has n’t reached the time when he can crawl and explore the world, Murphy Hold him, or put it in a small shaker, and the little one can stare at the little star hanging above the small shaker for a long time.
Since Murphy got married, the two sisters have no time to sit down and chat. This time, Murphy didn't ask Mo Xiaojuan's marriage question either. This forced her to be useless. She could only follow her destiny. The two of them watched the comments on the TV as they did before.
Either discuss the dress of some actresses, or study which male stars are more handsome. The topics of these girls are often talked about when they are young, and now they are jokingly chatting, which is also a recollection of the memories of those girls.
Mo Xiaojuan ’s vision is slightly different from that of Murphy. She prefers a good-looking man. This looks good, obviously adding some feminine elements to the handsome.
"But not only is it good-looking, but also mature and tender. Those little boys can't do it. I can't stand them being silly." Mo Xiaojuan said.
She also commented on Murphy's vision: "Sister, your vision is not good. I'm not saying that my brother-in-law is not good, others are very good, and mature, gentle enough for you, but not good-looking! Not even handsome enough. ... Of course, it does n’t make sense now, you are already his person! "
Although Mo Xiaojuan is joking, Murphy is very dissatisfied with Mo Xiaojuan. In her view, Yang Yi is very handsome, really handsome!
I did n’t think that before, but since Yang Yi ’s personality changed, he did n’t trim as much as before. His hair was shaved, his beard was generally shaved and hung cleanly. After the taste of dressing up, Murphy gradually The land also thinks Yang Yi is very handsome!
This is not beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but Murphy really thinks that Yang Yi is in line with his own aesthetics, and the more he looks, the more durable he is. Now he looks at Yang Yi ’s tough profile and the deep starry eyes. , Murphy felt a little rippling in his heart.
How can such a man be handsome?
Yang Yi certainly does not know the whispers between Murphy and Mo Xiaojuan ’s sisters, he is thinking about what Murphy said.
"I don't think it's necessary to spend a lot of time talking about these problems with Xi Xi." Yang Yi told Murphy.
"But, the little cards you made before, let me talk to Xi Xi about **** education. Isn't the effect very good?" Murphy said puzzled. "Why don't you continue to tell Xi Xi? She is so curious , Should satisfy her curiosity and prevent her from groping for herself. "
Yang Yi shook her head gently and said, "These two are different in nature. Xixi is at an age when her gender awareness is germinating, so I am curious about these, but as parents, we are like this for children. Situation, what should be done is proper education and guidance. That is to say, Xi Xi needs to know the difference between men and women, but does not need to know too much, so as not to cause her greater curiosity. "
"For example, we can tell her that boys are different from girls, boys are going to boys’ toilets, girls are going to girls ’toilets, they ca n’t be seen by others when they use the toilet, but there is no need to tell her that they are It ’s not good to see what ’s going on, what the bad guys will do. Or for example, we can tell her that boys and girls ca n’t kiss, but there ’s no need to tell her, you ’re so small, do n’t understand, kiss boys Will be taken advantage of. "
"I understand that these adult minds do not need to be prematurely instilled in children." Murphy suddenly realized.
"Yes, including the difference between men and women, what is the specific use of that difference, we don't need to tell her now." Yang Yi laughed.
"So what should I do? How do you reasonably guide Xi Xi's curiosity as you said?" Murphy asked puzzlingly.
"I will talk to her later!" Yang Yizhuo said with a grin.
In the afternoon, Yang Yi found a time, took a few printed pictures, and sat in front of Xi Xi.
"Today my mother said to your dad, you are curious, why is your brother not so different from you, right?" Yang Yirou said softly to Xi Xi who was playing with her toy.
"Uh huh!" The little girl suddenly came to her spirit, her movements stopped, her eyes were full of concentration, and she said to her father, "Mama said it was different when going to the toilet."
"Well, my mother was right, not completely right." Yang Yi laughed, "Dad told you a mythical story, of course, it may be true, or it may be fake. A long time ago, there was a The fairy called Nuwa ... "
Yang Yi tells the story of Nu Wa making people, but this story was modified by Yang Yi. Men and women are different when they squeeze the soil.
"You have also played with plasticine, and the things you pinch out are a little difficult to control. Even if you want to pinch out two identical pigs, they still look different, right?"
Xi Xi nodded ignorantly.
"Yes, so when Nu Wa pinches people with magical mud, the shape of the people is also different, so there is a difference between boys and girls, which is normal." Yang Yi said .
"Look, what are these two pictures?" Yang Yi took out the two pictures and smiled and asked Xi Xi.
"Lion! Hee hee, Baba, I know the lion!" When the little girl answered the questions she would know, she smiled and gradually forgot her curiosity that was very persistent at first.
"Yes, what's the difference between these two lions?" Yang Yi said.
"The lion with big hair is a boy lion, the one without hair is a girl lion!" Xi Xi put all her toys down, leaned to her father's side, looked at her father's hand, and said cheerfully.
These Yang Yi said before when they were looking at the picture album with her. The little girl had a good memory.
"What about this?" Yang Yi took out pictures of two kangaroos again. "What is the difference between these two?"
"The baby is sitting in the stomach of a kangaroo, this is a kangaroo!" Xixi can tell clearly, before Lu Weisha sent a photo, Yang Yi told her that the mother with a baby bag is a kangaroo Nothing is a male kangaroo.
"Right? So, lions and kangaroos have their own differences, and so are people, but we are wise. In addition to these physical differences, we can also distinguish them from their clothes and hair. Boys or girls ... at least most of them can be clearly separated. "Yang Yi concluded with Xixi.
Guide the difference in organs to the big difference. It ’s macro but it seems reasonable. Xi Xi understands it and laughs with a smile: “Boys have short hair, girls have long hair. ! "
"This is not necessary, but basically the same, it doesn't matter. In the future, if you look at other people's faces, you can see some differences." Yang Yi rubbed the little girl's head with a smile and said, "After If you still do n’t understand, let ’s ask Dad again, okay? ”
"Uh huh!" The little girl finally nodded contentedly.