House Dad’s Literary Life Chapter 913: Poor parents ’hearts (4/4, add more to TwilightGods)

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There is a poem Zeng said: "October leaves fall autumn cold, pedestrians on the road are desolate. The bridge is far away, the broken heart is Xiao Lan ..."

It's such an autumn and refreshing afternoon, there is a fat little girl running wildly on the path without pedestrians. This was the most serious run since she was born, but she was extremely determined and never looked back. Although she was breathless, she never thought of stopping to rest!

At this moment, she is a fat version of Bolt, a cute baby version of Forrest, a gray wolf that never gives up ...

"Hoooo, woooo!" Lan Xin finally ran to Xixi's house and couldn't wait to return to the middle of her friends. Of course, she was still running very tired. When she came back, she was exhausted and paralyzed on the grass panting.

Xi Xi did not continue to play in the house, because people started to grow up, and it was more open to play in the yard! Moreover, it is more than three o'clock in the afternoon and the sun is shining, which is a good time for outdoor activities!

When Lan Xin came back, Xi Xi and they were playing the game of eagles catching chicks and they were having a good time. No one noticed the mixed Lan Xin.

In this round, it is Chen Shiyun who is responsible for catching, and Nan Zhaoyu who is a weak hen is responsible for being a hen. Chen Shiyun was fierce and Nan Zhaoyu was a little scared. He was still a little bit of courage and protective desire for boys. He tried hard to stop Chen Shiyun with open arms.

Of course, the girls behind him are much more powerful than him, giggling one by one, hugging the waist of the companion in front, and hiding fast. Chen Shiyun couldn't find any breakthrough flaws for a while!

Suddenly, she found a "chick" "falling down" on the ground, thumped up excitedly, and pressed Lan Xin. But soon she found that she was too happy!

"Hey, Xin'er is back!" Chen Shiyun shouted yelled.

The friends saw Lan Xin who hadn't even breathed out.

"Yeah, Xin'er, how did you come back?" Lu Xiaoyu scratched his head and leaned out from behind Xi Xi, asking curiously, "Isn't the head teacher going to your house?"

"Yeah, yeah! Did the teacher go back?" Xixi was anxious.

The teacher has not come to my house yet!

Lan Xin also wanted to answer the question, but she was too tired to speak. After a while, she gasped for breath and said simply: "No, it's still there, but the teacher agreed that I came to play!" "

Xi Xi breathed a sigh of relief when she heard Lan Xin said the teacher was still there, and she also recovered her smile.

Actually, Lan Xin is still happy to talk about her feelings, but at this time she is still panting and she does n’t want to talk more.

In a while, when Lan Xin rests enough, she ca n’t wait to join the friends ’games, where can she chat?

"Okay!" Lu Xiaoyu glanced pitifully at Lan Xin, but she knew the power of the teacher's home visit, but she didn't say anything, but greeted everyone enthusiastically, "Let's continue to play! Chen Shiyun you I did n’t catch anyone just now. It ’s not counted to catch Xin'er! "

Chen Shiyun did n’t sneer, she rolled her sleeves and shouted with vitality: "I will catch you! Come on!"

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The words are divided into two ends. On the side of Lan Xin's house, Li Ruolan is discussing Lan Xin's learning problems with Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing.

As Wu Jingjing said to Yu Ying before, Lan Xin ’s performance has indeed deteriorated. In recent quizzes, Lan Xin ’s performance has dropped from more than 80 points to more than 70 points, and Li Ruolan is also correct. It is for this reason that I came to visit.

Of course, Li Ruolan did not come to shirk responsibility to the parents. She described some of Lan Xin ’s problems in more detail.

For example, to be distracted in class, for example, to do homework and cut corners, for example, to fail to complete the task of memorizing the text required by the teacher ...

In addition, Li Ruolan also conveyed the feedback from the teacher Lu Dashan from the physical education class: "Lan Xin does not like to participate in sports, you should also know that this child, Lan Xin, is a little bit fat. If you do not exercise much and reduce weight loss, this will be a great burden on her body in the future and will also have an impact on her future study and life. "

Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing kept nodding. Lanzhou Kai frowned and said, "Yes, Mr. Li is right, but Xin'er is really a little difficult to discipline. We scolded her a bit harder, she is good. For a few days, it will be emotional, if it hits, her mother will stop me ... "

"Can't beat and scold the child." Li Ruolan quickly waved his hand and said, "Beating and scolding the child is not a good educational method, but it is also easy for the child to have a rebellious mentality."

"Actually, I think Lan Xin is still very good. Whether in terms of IQ or personality, he is a very good child!" Li Ruolan said calmly with Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jing, "It's just possible In your spare time, you need your parents to cooperate with our teachers, give your children some patience, and use some clever methods to cultivate her concentration. "

"My work is relatively busy, usually her mother is taking care of the children at home, Teacher Li, you have any suggestions, although tell her." Lanzhou Kai patted Wu Jingjing's knee and said.

"Yes, I must cooperate, just Teacher Li, to tell you the truth, Xiner, this child, the procrastination phenomenon is very serious. When Xixi came home, she finished her homework. She dragged on, and said later After eating, I said that I wanted to watch TV and did not finish my homework until late at night. "Wu Jingjing poured out bitter water with the teacher.

"In fact, most children do not like to do homework and like to procrastinate. However, in the face of these situations, our parents should be more skillful in handling them." Li Ruolan smiled and said, "I give an example, our class has A boy named Wang Leilei, the situation is similar to that of Lan Xin, his father told him that you ca n’t watch TV without finishing your homework! So in order to watch TV, he still finishes his homework every day first! ”

"But each child's situation is different. Lan Xin is a girl. Maybe you need to be gentler to avoid her resistance." Li Ruolan said, "You can do this. After the child comes back, follow her first Make a tidy. "

Li Ruolan took out his notebook and gestured and said, "Ask her, what homework are there in Chinese today? What homework are there in mathematics, and what homework are in English ... Write them down one by one on white paper, compare each The amount of work in one subject! "

"At this time, we need to do a sorting. Our parents should take the initiative to help her organize her ideas, starting with the simplest, least amount of work, and the easiest to complete! Because part of the completion, the child herself has A sense of accomplishment, so she will be more motivated to do the next part of her assignment! "

"But at this time, or before the third grade, I suggest you take the time to do homework with your children." Li Ruolan said, "You don't need to stare at her to write every word, but you need to be in her Companionship. When you are with you, you can knit sweaters or do some quiet work, but you ca n’t play mobile phones. Our parents should lead by example. ”

In addition to these, Li Ruolan also said a lot of inspirational tips. These are the experiences she learned from books, from other teachers, or she also learned from some successful parents.

As Li Ruolan said, she came to visit her home to help her children grow up, not to call on parents and teachers to stage doubles for the children. More than an hour of detailed discussions, Li Ruolan patiently analyzed and suggested Both Lanzhou Kai and Wu Jingjing shouted to benefit greatly.

Do n’t look at Lanzhou Kai as a billionaire with a superb status, but at the moment, he is just a common father!

How can parents who do not care about their children?

Lanzhou Kai was also very worried about Lan Xin ’s studies, so he heard the teacher ’s home visit and he hurried back without hesitation.

It ’s gratifying that he did n’t come back in vain, and the teacher ’s home visit did inspire him a lot.

When Li Ruolan was about to leave, and Lanzhou Kai invited her to stay for dinner, Yang Yi, who cut off Hu, came.