Origin Chapter 920: Smoke
It is a common problem in the world to like to watch the fun. Honest people beat their wives and attracted a large number of villagers to watch. When Wu Zhongyuan left, there were many people who came to watch the fun after hearing the news.
Wu Zhongyuan wanders the streets of the village, looking for his next observation target. He likes to watch blind dates. The essence of blind dates is that strangers and men and women come into contact with each other. After reaching a consensus, they form partners and reproduce. All common behaviors have certain observational value.
However, the blind date doesn't seem to be held at night. After walking around for a while, I can't see the goal, so I start visiting the house. At this time, it is not over for dinner. Many people gather together to drink, and some eat early, in groups of three or five Get together and play cards.
When wandering to the east of the village, Wu Zhongyuan heard the cry of the child, and it was quite painful, so he followed the sound to find the child. It was a father who was beating the child. The child was eleven or twelve years old. The boy, seemingly in trouble, is being beaten with a stick by the father.
The father's face was angry and he beat him very hard. Wu Zhongyuan listened to it for a while, and it turned out that it was not a big deal, but that the child went out to play overtime today and did not complete the homework assigned by the teacher.
The Chinese people believe in filial sons under the stick. In fact, this kind of thinking is very wrong. You can't over-indulge children, but there is no need to be too strict. Children are children after all, and adults may not have enough self-control. Let alone a child.
After beating the child, the father threw down his stick and went out to drink, leaving a mother to coax the child, only that your father beat you for your own good, I hope you can be successful when you grow up, don't be like My parents can only farm in the village.
The child nodded with tears in his eyes and looked sensible. As for whether he really agrees with the mother's statement, no one knows, because even gods don't know what other people are thinking.
Wu Zhongyuan does not approve of this method of education. The reason is very simple. Fathers and mothers are not qualified to demand children so harshly, because they themselves are not personal, but they demand children too strictly. , its essence is two unpromising old birds, imposing their will on the little bird, they can't fly two miles, but they insist on forcing the bird to fly a hundred miles.
In fact, I don't want children to farm in the countryside. The easiest way is for the parents to go out of the countryside by themselves. When the big bird goes out, the little bird naturally goes out. As a parent, you can't ask your children what you can't do yourself. , The best way to educate is to lead by example. If I fly 10,000 miles, you can fly me 8,000 miles. This is what a competent parent should do.
In all fairness, most parents are incompetent. They can't lose the most basic objectivity and fairness in order to sing the praises of their father's love and praise their mother's love. Why do many children appear rebellious in their adolescence? It is not because the child has become bad, but because the child has grown up, has his own consciousness, and no longer succumbs to the parents' incorrect education methods. avoidable.
Some things are chaos, and there is absolutely no need to delve into them, but some things are worth pondering. Take a father who beats a child as an example. A father is the leader of a family and the captain of the family's boat. When something goes wrong, he has to bear the main responsibility. The leader with greater power has greater responsibility. Where the flock eventually goes does not depend on the majority of followers, but on the will of the leader. To put it bluntly It is the will of a few people at the top of the power that determines the fate of thousands of people. Taking himself as an example, he was the king of the human race in ancient times, and his words directly determined the fate of the entire human race.
Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan had a vague feeling, and hurriedly teleported back to the brigade where he had settled before, sat down beside the stove, closed his eyes to capture the ethereal thoughts that flashed in his mind just now, fortunately, he I got back the feeling I had just now. I just thought that the core characters determine the fate of thousands of people. To change thousands of people, it is not necessary to change each of them one by one, but only to change their core characters. .
The same is true for the change of Reiki. Previously, his method was only for specific Reiki, directly controlling and controlling a large number of Reikis in units of individuals. Specifically, he controlled one thousand or 10,000 Reikis at a time, although the power is also It's very big, but it still has a certain limit. If you want to further improve your ability to control the spiritual energy, you should not drive the sheep, but grab the leader.
What is the head sheep, the five elements are the five head sheep, and these five head sheep are derived from the two giants of yin and yang. If you can find one of the five head sheep of gold, wood, water, fire and earth, you can control one-fifth of the world. If you can find the two big sheep of Yin and Yang, you can control the whole real world that is condensed by breath.
But the five headed sheep and the two giants are not specific five independent individuals and two larger individuals composed of these five independent individuals, but the five sums of the huge group derived from the five elements and yin and yang. two larger commonalities.
Let's just talk about the five elements, regardless of yin and yang. These five commonalities can also be understood as five trends. If you want to control the trend, the most effective way is not to exert external force and try to change the trend, but to be in it and use your own To lead the trend, to put it bluntly, is to become one of the five sheep.
If you want to join this team and become the leader of this team, you must first understand the team, but the environment he is in is not suitable for him to carry out deeper deductions, so he can only temporarily store this idea in his mind And strengthen it, and leave it to be extended in the future.
He is a Taiyuan cultivator and has a strong memory, so he can store his thoughts, but it is difficult for ordinary people to do this. The saying is to review the old and learn the new. In fact, this is the truth. For a better idea, or a better plan, or what purpose you want to achieve, you need to constantly strengthen it, and always remind yourself not to forget it. Only in this way can we unswervingly move towards the established goal.
One of the most common mistakes people make is that their goals are not firm enough. They often randomly adjust the established goals according to the objective situation. At the beginning, they swear and chop off their fingers not to marry the non-Changbai Mountain ginseng girls. After setting out, they encounter various problems, often Adjusted the route, and finally went to Hainan Island to marry Miss Fisherman. What is this? This is to deviate from the original intention, to go with the flow, to compromise with destiny, and to live with life.
Enlightenment is an extremely complex thinking activity, which needs to be constrained by rational logic and diffused by perceptual thinking. Thinking that the world's human nature is not stable enough, and often adjust the way forward, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of another problem, that is, he is in The mental state when you change your form is a very stable state, and you know very clearly what you want to become. If the image in your mind is blurred when you change, you may not know what the ghost will look like.
This shows that the stronger and more stable a person's willpower is, the more things can be mastered and controlled. A person can only have what he understands and can control. A person who can only drive a tractor, even if he is given one Ferrari, he had to go into the ditch too, because he couldn't handle it.
Pushing others with oneself, the reason why I haven't given birth to the Nascent Soul yet, and I haven't had the ability to rebuild the universe from the past to the present, is mainly because my will is not firm enough, my spiritual sense is not strong enough, and my knowledge and experience are not rich enough. There is still a lack of understanding of the world.
Thinking of this, Wu Zhongyuan did not continue to expand, but retracted his thoughts, picked up a shovel and added a few pieces of coal to the stove, then ignited it with fire spiritual energy, and then filled the kettle with water and placed it on the stove. On top of that, he will come back to rest later.
The night in the early spring is still very cold. At seven or eight o'clock, there are no people on the street. Wu Zhongyuan came to another house. The men in the family watched TV in the East Room, while a group of women gathered in the West Room. Mostly middle-aged women, including a young girl.
This group of middle-aged women seems to be the girl's relatives, including her mother, who is enlightening the girl, using the tone of someone who has come over and using their own experience to persuade the girl which boy should she choose.
The girl originally wanted to choose Zhang San, who dared to fight and dare, because she liked this kind of men. Later, under the earnest and good-hearted persuasion of these relatives, she gradually changed her mind and began to prefer Li Si, who is self-abiding .
In the end, the seven aunts and eight aunts went away with a look of relief, and Wu Zhongyuan also quietly retreated, with disappointment and regret.
Being a person must have a backbone, believe in your own feelings, what people like at the beginning, and what they will like in the end. People who like horses at the beginning cannot choose cattle just because they are kicked by horses. They can change completely. Horses that don't kick people, give up food because of choking, it's a taboo to go left or right, and there will be endless troubles.
The biggest mistakes in the world are often made by people who think they are right. It is impossible to deny the kindness of these seven aunts and eight aunts, but they are just a group of uninformed women, and their lives are not successful. , their experience and opinions are actually of no reference value. They don't even understand the simple truth of deciding that the person who should bear the consequences should do it with good intentions.
The most hateful thing is this girl's mother, who even forced her daughter to follow her own advice with words like 'You have to be mad at me,' 'If you want to marry him, don't enter the house in the future'. An incompetent parent who insists on letting their children pay for their own ideas is selfish.
The girl herself is also clueless, ignorant, loyal and filial. She would rather grieve herself but also make her parents feel comfortable. This kind of person is very scary. The most terrible thing is that she uses the opinions of others as a reference, and listens to others' advice. It depends on what kind of persuasion it is to have a full meal. Only successful people are qualified to persuade others, and the advice of losers is worthless.
After ten o'clock in the evening, Wu Zhongyuan returned to his place of residence. In fact, he was not sleepy, but at this time, everyone had already begun to rest, and it was often unsuitable for children to see through the wall.
The clearer the mind, the more smoky and devastated he sees. Wu Zhongyuan lay on the bench and let out a sigh of relief. Tomorrow, he will try to change the angle of observation and look for simplicity, truth, kindness and beauty...