Origin Chapter 967: No more doubts
Wu Zhongyuan said this to the girl. Although it was just a casual remark, it was the only correct way to do it. Any other way could not prove his innocence, including 'being together for so long, I don't even have this trust, 'including 'we should respect each other, you can't invade my privacy', and all kinds of irritated Sapo noises, all of which can only show that they are guilty and that there is something they are hiding from the other party. If you have a clear conscience, you can openly let the other party check it out. Even if you are very disgusted by the other party's behavior of distrusting yourself, you must first prove your innocence before arguing or even breaking up with the other party. You can't do this. , there is no qualification to deny or refute all the doubts and criticisms of the other party.
The girl can't move or even speak now. She is in doubt and shock that she can't move suddenly, but Wu Zhongyuan didn't want her to say anything, and turned to the boy who was also stunned and said, "You have to understand Check the nature of the other party's mobile phone. This is a great distrust of the other party, which will seriously hurt the other party's feelings. Once you make such a request, the other party has only two choices: agree or disagree, which is equivalent to forcing the other party If she really has no problem, you have to think about how to compensate her, and if she has a problem, you have to be prepared to lose her."
Wu Zhongyuan disappeared after speaking. He didn't leave, but just disappeared. He wasn't sure if there was anything wrong with the girl. He wanted to see the boy's reaction and the final result.
After he disappeared, the two regained their freedom. After they both looked around, their eyes focused on the mobile phone. This is the girl's mobile phone, but now it is in the boy's hands. Due to the short time, the mobile phone screen has not been Darkened and locked.
Wu Zhongyuan very much hopes that the boy will take the initiative to return the mobile phone to the girl, and he also hopes that the girl will hand the mobile phone to the boy again. If this is true, it means that one of the two parties has tolerance and the other is fine. This is the best result.
Unfortunately, after the boy came back to his senses, he immediately turned around and walked westward with his mobile phone. The girl responded quickly and followed, and stretched out her hands one after another to **** the mobile phone.
The boy pushed and refused while checking. Wu Zhongyuan was next to him. He wanted to see what the boy was watching. The boy directly clicked on WeChat and scrolled down the contacts. Doubtful.
Just when Wu Zhongyuan wondered why the girl was behaving so abnormally since there was no problem, the boy clicked on the WeChat address book again, and then clicked on the new friend at the top of the address book. At this time, the problem appeared. Last night, the girl After passing the application of two people to add friends, the boy clicked on the chat page of the two people, but there was not a word. There is no chat record. There is a problem, because when adding friends, there will be a greeting message, and there is no greeting message. It means that the chat information has been deleted, and the absence of the avatars of the two people on the main page also indirectly shows this.
The boy then clicked on the two friends' circle of friends, and found that it was full of fun, including famous cars and villas, skiing and golfing, exquisite food from various luxury western restaurants, and various luxury goods. Photo.
In the circle of friends of two different people, the boy found the exact same photos of the Maldives vacation, even the shooting angles were exactly the same, he immediately understood that these two people were liars who stole pictures, but it was a pity, The girl no longer listened to him, and ignored his reprimands and questions, grabbed the phone, turned into anger, and left in a huff.
The truth is very clear. Actually, there is no need to ask any further, but the boy chased after her and asked her why she lied. The girl drooped her face and said nothing.
Seeing this situation, Wu Zhongyuan sighed. Obviously, although the boy asked the truth, he did not make enough psychological preparation. The so-called psychological preparation is divided into two parts, one is the psychological preparation to accept the truth, the other is Losing the other person's psychological preparation, when a person's disguise is exposed, he will definitely become angry and end the relationship immediately. This is actually a hypocritical and cowardly escape.
The ancients said that people are not sages, no one has faults, especially young people, who make mistakes in a moment of confusion, as long as they can recognize their mistakes and are willing to correct and actively compensate the injured party, they should still give a Opportunity, after all, for those who have made mistakes, it takes courage to stay cheeky. Compared with those who cut off the relationship with shame and anger after being dismantled, such people can still be saved.
However, the premise of giving a chance is that the person who has made mistakes puts himself in the right position. In the future, he no longer expects to be on an equal footing with the party who has been hurt by himself, because the person who has made mistakes is the person who made mistakes after all. Those who have made mistakes do not pay the price and cost of making mistakes. It is unfair to those good people who have always been careful and love alone and are cautious.
The boy kept chasing the girl for an explanation, asking the girl what she did wrong, but the girl made up her mind, walked quickly with no expression on her face, and stopped talking to him.
Seeing she did something wrong and pretending to be cold, Wu Zhongyuan couldn't stand it. He wanted to possess the boy and give her a slap, but after thinking about it, he gave up. This kind of person is not one, but a kind of person , he couldn't call, and he couldn't wake up.
Comprehension is a very elusive thing. It is not like doing something. It is planned before, and when it is implemented, it will overcome obstacles and obstacles, and then achieve the goal. On the contrary, he could not ask for it. After restraining the idea of slapping the girl with the possessed boy, Wu Zhongyuan suddenly thought of a problem, which was also a problem he had never understood before. I will lose the joys, sorrows and joys of being a human being because I can see the essence. Now I want to worry about it is unnecessary. Even if I see the essence of yin and yang, I will not lose my joys, sorrows and joys, but I am more open-minded, just like everyone. Knowing that they will eventually die, but this does not affect their efforts to live, and understanding the nature of yin and yang will not cause the four elements to be empty.
What is the biggest trouble and obstacle for a person to improve the pattern? The answer is fixed thinking. Before that, he subconsciously thought that being an immortal should not have emotions, anger, sadness, and joy. Just like ordinary people, this immortal is not a real immortal, so he is not worthy of respect and worship, and even has the suspicion of swaying and cheating.
There is a saying that foreign monks will recite sutras. This sentence means that people always look down on those who they don't know, but tend to look down on those they know well. The reason why this happens It's because they know and are familiar with the people around them, but they are unfamiliar and ignorant of others, and people's subconscious will have a sense of awe for those they don't know. There is a reason to be afraid of the dark. In a dark environment, people can't see the surrounding situation clearly. Because of the unknown, they are afraid. Because I don't know others, I take a high look at others, but I don't know that many times the really powerful people are by my side, but I just ignore them.
He grew up in modern times, and his consciousness was also established in modern times. His consciousness has obvious modern characteristics, and this characteristic of consciousness has not only helped him a lot, but also troubled him a lot. , he always understands immortals according to the cognition of modern people, and this is his problem. It is like looking at people with colored glasses, and it is difficult to be fair and objective.
What exactly is a fairy? The answer is "certainly not what the world thinks it is." Why? Because the world has never seen a real immortal, the immortals in their eyes are shaped according to their own cognitive level, personal preferences and personal needs. To put it bluntly, the immortals in the eyes of the public are actually what they want.
In fact, immortals must have emotions, anger, sadness, and joy, not a templated character. Although they have mastered a huge ability and can distinguish between Yin and Yang, they have not lost their humanity.
In addition to being limited by his own inherent consciousness, the reason why he entered the misunderstanding earlier was that he cared too much about the views and attitudes of the world, worried that the results of enlightenment would not be understood and accepted by the world, and cared too much about the opinions of others. Opinion is also a common problem in the world. Everyone wants to be recognized by others. If you want to be recognized, you can only do what others want you to do.
Everyone wants to be respected by others. If you want to be respected, you can't do things beyond the world's cognitive level. You must strive for success within the scope of the world's definition of success.
Many people end up living the way others want them to live, or the way society collectively wants them to live, not the way they really want to live.
This flash of inspiration took away Wu Zhongyuan's last bit of confusion. The direct consequence was to possess the boy, but he didn't hit the girl, because the girl was still young and what she did was only bad omen, rather than actually touching the red line.
Although he controlled the boy's body, he did not suppress the boy's consciousness. The boy also knew what he said later. He took a few steps and grabbed the girl.
"We're young and we can't do everything right, but you shouldn't lie to me," the boy exclaimed.
"You let me go, since you don't believe me, what are you doing with me, so be it, break up!" The girl struggled to twist her arms, but she still couldn't get rid of the boy.
"Break up when you break up," the boy said loudly, "but you have to make it clear, you lied to me before, what right do you have to be angry with me? Just because I exposed your lies, you became angry and furious? I tell you, no matter how angry you are, things are still there. Do you think that if you get angry and confuse yourself, my mind will be confused with you? I tell you, my mind is calm and my thinking is very clear, a little It's not messy, you want good results on the one hand, and you want to find stimulation on the other hand, I tell you, there is no such beautiful thing in the world, and seeking stimulation will have to pay a price."
Because the boy's voice was loud, people nearby stopped to watch and whispered.
"You..."
"What are you? Have I wronged you? You know in your own heart. Go away, I don't want you anymore." The boy snorted and turned around and walked away.
The real heart-to-heart match will not cause fierce conflict. When one of the parties' feelings fades, it is better to leave in a dashing manner rather than reluctant to give up the entanglement.
Withdrawing the primordial spirit and attaching it back to the main body, I found that the communication device on my wrist was vibrating for a long time.
"Huh?" Wu Zhongyuan pressed the call button.
"Boss, why did you go to the university again? Have you eaten yet?" It was Fang Yi's voice.
"I just finished eating, I'm arguing with college students." Wu Zhongyuan said casually.
"God, do your job properly, that's not what you should do," Fang Yi was helpless, "Come back quickly, everyone is here, just wait for you to come back and choose..."