Origin Chapter 982: Golden Immortal Extreme

Determining what you want will be a waste of time, no, it's not accurate, the exact word is cost, not waste, because thinking about what you want is very right and necessary.

The real waste of time is "doing what you want and doing to others", getting angry with people who think differently from you, getting angry about others not listening to your own advice, and getting angry about other people's behaviors that are different from your own. Being angry, blaming others for lack of quality, not being able to do things, not knowing what to do, repaying grievances with virtue, all kinds of dislikes, all kinds of indignation, all kinds of contradictions, all kinds of conflicts.

Choice is always more important than change. When you encounter people who disagree with you or have a big difference in your outlook on life and values, don't try to change them. The correct way is to change people immediately and choose those who are similar to your own ideas. This is how people communicate, fall in love, and work together. If you find that there are essential differences in the early stages of getting along, you must act decisively. If you can’t do this, you will wait for the consequences to turn against each other and become enemies. How many couples make do with After a lifetime, how many have quarreled with each other for a lifetime, and they were completely defeated. In the end, they deceived themselves and told their children, 'I have quarreled with your father for a lifetime, don't we have a lifetime? ’

Is it right to quarrel for a lifetime? Yes, I have been arguing all my life, I have been eating sweet potato buns all my life, and I have never eaten a big white steamed bun with a harmonious husband and wife in my life, and then I turned around and told my children that marriage is eating sweet potatoes. Wotou, it is no exaggeration to say that most unfortunate children are destroyed by their parents.

Choose to get along with like-minded people and stay away from people who make you feel unhappy. This is actually human instinct. Everyone likes to be with those who can make you feel happy. Heshen makes Qianlong feel comfortable, so Qianlong liked him. The ugly man can satisfy the vanity of the beautiful woman to be spoiled, so the beautiful woman finally married the ugly man. Not-so-beautiful women can rely on handsome guys everywhere, so the handsome guy eventually married her. Subordinates who can do things can make leaders feel comfortable, so they are promoted by leaders.

It's easy to take shortcuts, just make the people around you feel comfortable, but only if you don't have too much self-esteem.

If you want to live with dignity, there is only one way to go, that is, you are strong enough, as long as you are strong enough, there is no need to please anyone, other people will take the initiative to please you.

During this period of time, Wu Zhongyuan took a nap for almost seven days. He seemed to close his eyes at night, but he did not stop practicing Qi. When he was promoted to Shangyuan, he already had a rough idea of ​​how much breath he needed to be promoted, and he wanted to be promoted again. Yu Yuan has at least a month left.

At the same time of practicing Qi, he is also enriching the characters of the two Nascent Souls. One of the two Nascent Souls is like a sea of ​​divine grace, and the other is like a prison. It is punishment, reward and punishment are not absolute justice, and absolute justice can only be achieved if they are compatible with each other.

The world advocates the way of moderation and seeks stability and peace, but Wu Zhongyuan doesn't think so. He prefers the combination of movement and stillness in Taoism, quiet like a virgin moisturizing things without sound, moving like a rabbit and thunder, enduring calm for a while, and taking a step back to open up the sea and the sky. It's right, but it's only half right, and the other half is unbearable, no need to endure it any more. If a tiger never shows its power, others will always treat it as a sick cat.

In the first half of the month, Wu Zhongyuan has been verifying a problem through observation, that is, what kind of life do people want to live. The result of observation is that most people don't know what they want, and they just live out of inertia. , the vast majority of people do not have a clear and long-term goal, what kind of life they want to live.

In the second half of the month, Wu Zhongyuan began to verify another question through observation, that is, what is the meaning of life. In fact, this is no longer a question, but a philosophical proposition that has risen to the limit. He actually already has the answer to this proposition. If you do, then the three are not wrong, one is not wrong to heaven and earth, the other is not wrong to others, and the third is not wrong to yourself.

Humans live between heaven and earth, and should respect heaven and ancestors, be kind to heaven and earth, and be kind to heaven and earth is a broad term. To put it bluntly, it means not to damage the environment. Not everyone can cause serious damage to the environment, and not everyone is Large polluters should try their best not to damage the environment within their ability, and do not abuse various drugs and additives to destroy the ecological balance in order to make money.

It's easy to understand if you don't offend others. Don't disappoint anyone who has good intentions for yourself. Just this sentence. It happens in all the life trajectories that we have passed. Most of the time we can't do the present, we can only remember it in our hearts, but as time goes by, we will gradually forget the kindness that others have shown us, and also Or because something has turned against the other party, it is easy to let others down. When we want to do something to a person, we must recall all the things that person has done to ourselves, and every kind of gratitude is worth every penny. Divide the grievances, and then decide how to treat each other after the grievances are balanced.

Similarly, after tea and dinner, before going to sleep, you can take time to recall the person you know and recall many details of the relationship with each other, so as to determine whether you should do something for the other party.

In the end, don't betray yourself. On the premise that you don't hurt the world and others, you must not betray yourself. People don't live their whole lives to endure humiliation, to endure hardships, and to suffer sins. You can get a little bit of alcohol, **** and wealth, and parents, wives, and children can eat at home. When it comes to meat, I can go out and have a drink with my friends. When my family has no worries about food and clothing, I can smoke a good cigarette and buy a good car. There is no need to follow. Like a sadist, he can clearly live a calm life, but he lives in austere ways all day long. As long as you lose your job, your wife and children won't go hungry, but your standard of living will drop a little, there's no need to pretend to be a grandson in a low-key manner in your work unit. Many times people say that life is tiring and that life is not as good as that of a dog. In fact, it is an exaggeration. It really overturns the table of the unreasonable boss, or gives a big mouth to the leader who touches his butt, and most people will not starve to death. It is nothing more than choosing to endure humiliation in order to live a better life, buy more expensive bags, live in a bigger house, and drive a better car, which is not worthy of sympathy.

In a word, one should not treat oneself too badly as a human being, otherwise, there will be a lack of motivation to struggle, grievances for the rest of your life, and you will not be able to close your eyes when you die.

If you have words, it will be long, if you have no words, it will be short. One and a half months are fleeting, spring and summer alternate, and mosquitoes have begun to appear in the service area. Wu Zhongyuan was successfully promoted to Yuyuan.

After being promoted to Yuyuan, Wu Zhongyuan left the service area, but he was not in a hurry to transform into a Yuanying The comprehension of the Dao and Jin Jian Xuanwen corroborate each other, and they can also sprint to a higher rank...