Rebirth in a Perfect Era Chapter 1343: Parents ’regrets and pursuits

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In terms of Haizhou customs, it is a very formal and grand event.

Only when there are very close friends, or when you meet a junior who you like very much, will you recognize the next friend, and after this recognition, you will basically stay for a lifetime.

After growing up in the 1980s and 1990s, this kind of relationship has been handled more casually. Sometimes the child has already found a bunch of Godfather godmothers before he was born, but in the last century In Haizhou, it is rare for a child to have several Godfather godmothers, or an adult to have several sons or daughters. Generally speaking, a child has only one Godfather and godmother, and an elder has only one at most. Drying sons or daughters, the older generation pays great attention to this relationship, to a certain extent, it is much more important than the godfather in the West.

The Haizhou people re-commitment, not only is it very formal and important to engage in marriage, even if it is a brother between friends, it is not just a casual worship, not only must the emotions be in place, but also to re-commitment and rules, the brother ’s If parents and grandparents die, according to the rules, all brothers should be filial piety, but Dai Chongxiao, unlike a dozen years later, ten-3-4-year-old children have dozens of hundreds of brothers, but they are free to worship and get along very well If you want to keep in touch ten years later, it would be nice to have one or two.

When Li Mu and Li Ziwei went home together, they called Mother. Mother and his father didn't expect Li Mu came home early, so they quickly started Zhang Luo dinner, after receiving the Li Mu's phone call, Mother Li suddenly became nervous, and asked Father Li: "If you say Ziwei What if I'm not happy? "

Father Li said: "It should not be."

Mother Li said: "I do n’t know, even if my heart is a bit bottomless, we have never recognized a girl as a girl before, nor do we know the rules of Ziwei ’s hometown."

Father Li smiled and said: "As long as the girl agrees, let's follow the rules of the other person's house. Besides, other girls may not dare to agree directly. Bacheng needs to discuss with their parents."

Mother Li nodded and said: "Ziwei parents are still very good people, a couple of them are standard intellectuals, it seems that they are all teachers?"

"Ziwei Mother is a teacher and has retired. Dad is an official of their local education bureau, but in the early years it was a people ’s teacher. Later, he was transferred to the Education Committee. Last time I heard her father talk about Ziwei, he seemed to Going back. "

In the New Year, Li Ziwei, as Li Mu's personal assistant, has been following Li Mu. In order to reunite her with her family, Li Mu specially invited her parents to Haizhou for the Chinese New Year. Father Li Mother Li and Li Ziwei ’s parents had a few days of contact. The impression of the two is very good, and the impression of Li Ziwei is even better.

Li Ziwei was born in an intellectual family, and their parents were the last university students who were admitted to university before the Cultural Revolution in the early years. After graduation, both of them were devoted to the education industry and have been busy in the education field for half their lives. Both are very good in character, character, knowledge, and conversation.

Mother Li smiled and said: "If the parents of Ziwei also agreed, our two of us will find a time to have a meal together, and we will also have girls in the future."

"The surname is exactly Li, just like the pro-girlfriend ..."

Mother Li nodded: "Yes, all of you from the Old Li family."

Father Li nodded and said, "Before you do n’t have a son, you want a girl in your dreams. If you are really a girl, I ’m afraid it ’s hard to have the achievement of our son today!"

Mother Li shook his head and said, "If Little Mu is really a girl, I ca n’t bear her to work so hard. university will go home and take a civil servant test after graduation. If you have a stable job, do n’t marry someone, so you can stay with me Us. "

After talking, Mother Li said again: "Look now, your son university has not graduated, and runs all day long until the world is full. After waiting a few more years, I am afraid that I won't be able to meet him several times a year. Isn't it difficult for our family of three to reunite? The achievements are all for the outsiders, and the days of being together are the happiest of the family. "

"You are right." Father Li nodded and sighed: "In the future, you have to persuade your son to have more children!"

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Li Mu did not tell Li Ziwei about Mother ’s desire to recognize her as a daughter, but she thought about it all the way.

previous life, Li Mu often listen to Mother sigh, envy others who have daughters, especially envy their daughters by their side, even if they are married, they can meet every day, after having children, parents can help bring the children every day, The life of the old couple is also fulfilling.

Unlike her, her son is away all the year round, and he can go back three or two times a year, and each time is only a few days. He comes in a hurry and walks in a hurry. When the mother is not scarce, the son is again. gone.

The life of previous life is not in this order. Mother Li is really hard for most of her life. When she gets old, her son ca n’t stay by her side, which is really sad for her.

Li Mu always feels particularly owed to parents, but suffers from life and reality, and he has not been able to fulfill the obligations of a good son. At that time, Li Mu felt very disappointed when he heard that Mother had a cold, but he did n’t. Being able to accompany, having a headache and having a fever, can't go home to take care of it. At that time, Li Mu often imagined that if you have an older sister, or a younger sister, who can guard your parents at home, that would be great.

Because I have always known this regret in Mother ’s heart, Li Mu did not object to her wanting to recognize Li Ziwei as a daughter. On the contrary, deep in his heart, he still has special support for this matter, the only hope, It is his parents who treat Li Ziwei with sincerity, and can also receive Li Ziwei's sincere feedback. In that case, it can also make up for the regret in Mother.

The two returned to Ziyun Mountain Villa, Father Li Mother Li was still busy in the kitchen, and Li Ziwei hurried to the kitchen to help as soon as he got home. He took the job of Father Li and said nothing to let him work anymore. In her words: "In the kitchen, I will work with my aunt that's alright, uncle, go talk with Chief Li."

Mother Li laughed and said: "Your uncle probably wants to go out smoking a long time ago, he is addicted to smoking."

Li Ziwei said: "although is very difficult to quit smoking. My uncle still has to smoke a little as much as possible. I will go back to my friend and bring you some nicotine chewing gum. When you want to smoke, chew two. It can reduce the amount of smoke oil. Ingest. "

Father Li asked curiously: "Is there such a thing?"

Li Ziwei nodded and said, "It has been sold in the US market for a long time. It is FDA certified and very safe. Its principle is actually the same as people's dependence on tobacco. You are addicted to smoking, but it is actually just nicotine. I am addicted, but I do n’t have smoke tar. If I am addicted to cigarettes, my body needs to ingest nicotine. Nicotine chewing gum contains naturally extracted nicotine, but there is no smoke tar, so it is much healthier. Various elements and heavy metals inside. "

Speaking, Li Ziwei said again: "And that thing can reduce your dependence on cigarettes. While using it, you can reduce the amount of smoking. Maybe you can quit smoking completely after a while."

After listening to Mother Li, hastily said: "It sounds very reliable to listen! Old Li, look back and let Ziwei buy you something to try."

Father Li did not refuse, and smiled: "If I can quit smoking without pain, I definitely have no opinion. In fact, I also want to quit, that is, after so many years of smoking, I ca n’t quit at all."

Mother Li nodded and said with a smile: "Okay, know what you are doing, go to the yard if you want to smoke."

Father Li laughed and said: "Oh, so you guys are busy, I'll be lazy."

When Father Li came out of the kitchen, Li Mu was checking the mail on the laptop in the living room. Father Li took out the cigarette from his pocket and said to Li Mu: "Son, go, go out and smoke a cigarette."

Because I know that Li Mu occasionally smokes, Father Li sometimes sprays Li Mu with father and son and smokes, but Li Mu's has almost no addiction, so he smokes much less than him.

Li Mu put down the computer and came to the yard with his dad. The Yanjing weather in April has begun to warm up. father and son sat down on the wooden bench by the villa yard. Father Li smoked two cigarettes and handed one to Li Mu, Li Mu I took cigarette lighter from my dad's hands, first helped my dad to light the cigarette, and then ignited the one he was holding.

After smoking two cigarettes, Father Li pointed to a small vegetable field that had been opened in the yard, and proudly said, "Look, you haven't planted land for thirty years. The first one looks quite like that. "

A few ridges in the looks at yard of Li Mu helpless, laughed: "At your age, is it particularly rewarding to grow vegetables?"

Father Li said with a smile: "Not only a sense of accomplishment, but also nostalgia, but also ease."

Talking, Father Li sighed again: "When I was a kid, I didn't feel the same way of farming. When I was a kid, I was lazy. Your grandma used a stick to force me to work on the farm. It is a kind of enjoyment. Every day I think about it, I must find a way to get rid of the yellow soil, so I will take your grandfather's class and go to mine immediately after graduating from high school. Like, he can't read but can't read, so he can only farm in his hometown, sometimes think about it, I always feel sorry for him. "

Li Mu nodded and said, "But you have been trying to help my uncle for so many years. Now his life is very good, and it will be better in the future."

Father Li smiled slightly: "Yeah, I'm much better now."

Speaking of this, Father Li said again: "Your uncle just got rid of the yellow soil. I was away from the yellow soil for thirty years. Now you let your uncle plant the land. He is afraid of 10,000 unhappy, but I, just In particular, I want to make a crop of one-third of an acre, and when those peppers, eggplants, and tomatoes grow out, and the green and green water is full, looks at will be happy. After waiting another ten or eight years, I will go find a season with your mother. In the spring, get a private house, rent some fields, and usually grow some fruits and vegetables in addition to vegetables. Look at your future sons and daughters, what they like to eat, what I and your mom will grow ... "

Li Mu suddenly came up with a thought and said, "Dad, why do n’t I buy you a piece of land in the northern suburb of Yanjing, find a good place near the mountains and water, buy a piece of land to build a villa, and open a few acres Come out, get an orchard, get a greenhouse, get a flower house, and you can take your grandparents in the future too! "