Return To 1977 Chapter 521: Jiahe
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"The head of the house is a capable man. He can burn tiles and pots, he can say yes and he can laugh. There is something interesting about talking and laughing..."
This is what the daughter-in-law of Zhao, who runs a Pener kiln, said about her husband in the Peking Opera "Wuben Ji".
Don’t think this is the standard for choosing a spouse in ancient times, but it is actually quite reliable, because the two most important points to ensure a marriage, material and spiritual, are already included. It requires money and fun, but how can it still be "uninteresting"?
The same is true for Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er". They have less money than anyone else, and they are both eloquent and well-informed people.
What's more, nowadays, "Tang Xin'er" still feels two of the most rare things from Hong Yanwu, that is, unswerving infatuation and a serious and responsible attitude towards relationships.
This made their relationship sublime one step further after experiencing this disaster. The good ones are just like mixing oil with honey.
As for the Hong family's affairs, the Hong family's family dinner on Chinese Valentine's Day was indeed ruined.
Hong Yanzheng and Xu Manli got off work that day and rushed back to their old house with Xiao Hongyi in excitement. What they saw was that the scene was completely opposite to what they expected.
The whole family did not gather together happily. Instead, they all became taciturn, and no one stopped joking.
Shou Jingfang has left, and their parents are sitting together sighing and worrying. The juniors are also all listless.
Only Hong Jun saw his parents and younger brother and ran over quickly to inform them according to his understanding. He said that his third uncle and "Aunt Sugar" got angry and ran away for some reason. It made the whole family unhappy.
Only then did the Hong Yanzheng couple realize that the situation at home was caused by Hong Yanwu again. When I met my parents, I was dumbfounded when I found out the whole story. I didn't know what to do for a while.
But to be honest, there is no need to worry about this matter. Because as Hong Yanwu himself expected, things really turned around later.
The Hong family are all kind-hearted people. After everyone slowly digested the situation, the children of the Hong family began to speak for Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er".
Hong Yanzheng said that Hong Yanwu was irritating. I don't know what's good or bad, and I can't understand the painstaking efforts of my elders. He didn't do what he should do, and he did all the things he shouldn't do. But now that the matter has come to this, if he doesn't evade responsibility for this matter, and even doesn't pull up his pants and refuses to admit his fault, he can be considered responsible. He is indeed no longer a child.
As for what my cousin said about not being able to have a child, he was definitely right. Fortunately, the Hong family is not alone. At least I have two grandchildren now. So he felt that Hong Yanwu might be serious about being so determined. If he really had thought of it himself, he might not have forced them to disperse.
Xu Manli also echoed that since Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" have crossed the line, it is not easy to break up, otherwise it would be too sorry for the girl, and it would be like pushing "Tang Xin'er" into the fire pit. .
Hong Yanwen’s opinion is that times have changed. The Marriage Law prohibits arranged marriages and advocates free love. This means that parents only have the right to provide opinions and have no right to make the final decision for two young people. If the young couple wants to live together, you can't tear them apart. If they don't want to live together, you can't pinch them together.
In addition, their third child is a master who never listens to advice, and no one can stop him from doing anything he wants to do. So since you can't even object, why not happily marry this daughter-in-law?
As for Hong Yanru and Chen Liquan, one is young and the other is dull. They do not know how to keep up with adults' thoughts and communicate maturely.
But Hong Yanru really likes "Tang Xin'er", and Chen Liquan feels pity for "Tang Xin'er" who is an orphan like himself. Both of them are also happy that Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" can be together. They also said a lot Good words.
In this way, the children of the Hong family are doing their best to reconcile Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" and persuade their parents to change their minds.
Even Hong Jun followed the adults every day, talking about "Uncle Three" and "Aunt Sugar". He thought his grandparents had driven Uncle Three away, and always asked when Uncle Three could go home. Tell grandparents not to be angry.
As a result, the Hong family couple, who had always been hard-pressed to be cruel, no longer had any intention of "beating up the couple". Had to compromise.
In fact, this is also an inevitable result.
Because first of all, if it is not against the fundamental principles, there has never been a competition between parents and children that they can win.
After all, they are flesh and blood. How can any parent be so cruel to their children? They are always afraid of this and that, and have too many worries. Children, on the other hand, usually have no scruples and are often more concerned about their own feelings.
In essence, this kind of struggle is not reciprocal at all. The balance of victory is naturally different.
Secondly, apart from the fact that the Hong family is a kind family, there is no way they can do anything treacherous or add insult to injury. It's also because to the old couple, the girl "Tang Xin'er" is too pitiful and adorable.
For such a smart, beautiful, talented and beautiful girl, without her parents and relatives, she would not have the chance to be a mother. To say that I am lonely is an understatement. For such a child, the old couple can't even think about it without feeling sorry for them.
And "Tang Xin'er" has an even more lovable personality, is well-informed and quite sensible. Judging from this matter, there is no intention to threaten the "raw rice before cooking".
For the sake of the Hong family, she endured the humiliation and left alone and sadly. It can be seen that she is a girl who is willing to wrong herself for others. If she gets married in the future, she will definitely keep the peace and tranquility of the family home. This is a rare good character and good humanity.
In this way, while having breakfast on September 1st, the Hong family couple, after careful consideration, expressed in public that the return of their son would be a good fit for their family. The fair lady is played with bells and drums. At this point, if Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" are consensual and want to get married, then let them do as they wish.
They also assigned Xu Manli and Chen Liquan a task, asking them to go to "Tang Xin'er"'s residence together, and invite "Tang Xin'er" to come to their home for dinner on the weekend on behalf of the whole family, so as to clear the matter up. Resolve this current impasse between each other.
Once this decision was announced, the dullness of the Hong family in recent days was wiped away, and the entire Hong family burst into joy.
The children of the Hong family all sang praises, saying that their parents were wise and mighty, and could see thousands of miles away and see a hundred generations into the future. Under their leadership, the Hong family will surely prosper and become the "Five Good Family" that everyone admires.
It should be said that the arrangement made by the Hong family is very appropriate.
Xu Manli has a steady and gentle temperament, and she is also the daughter-in-law of the Hong family. By letting her come forward, she can show the sincerity of the Hong family without being disrespectful. Also, because they are all women, "Tang Xin'er" will not be too embarrassed or embarrassed. She is the most suitable person to do this.
Wherever "Tang Xin'er" lives, only Chen Liquan in the family has been there. He can easily lead the way, and he can also protect Xu Manli in the dark. In addition, he is also the most familiar with Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er". It seems more convenient for him to supplement many things.
As expected, when the two of them left, Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" were both a little surprised and extremely happy.
Although "Tang Xin'er" was inevitably a little embarrassed, when Xu Manli took her hand and walked into the room alone, he passed on his warmth to her while talking about the meaning of home in detail. She listened slowly, and the embarrassment disappeared.
Until Xu Manli finally followed Wang Yunlin's instructions and said, "Everything has passed, and the family will not interfere with you anymore. But whether you can live a good life in the future depends on you. In fact, your parents have never cared about you. Not satisfied, but I feel sorry for you. They want me to tell you that in the future, we will become a family and we must not be separated from each other anymore. No matter how difficult it is, it is better for us to face it together than for you to bear it alone... …”
These heart-warming words made "Tang Xin'er" burst into tears without even realizing it.
Seeing her like this, Xu Manli hugged her.
"If you want to cry, just cry hard and pour out all the tears that are drowning in your heart. We are all women and we are all juniors. I'm afraid no one knows your grievances better than me."
As a result, "Tang Xin'er" threw herself into her arms and cried heartily.
At this moment, Xu Manli took over the role of "Auntie Bao".
Her future sister-in-law is really qualified. What is a relative? This is a relative.