Return To 1977 Chapter 571: After marriage

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If you don’t consider the accidental situation of being a match made in heaven. There are roughly two types of marriage in the world.

One is that the pre-marriage love is vigorous, the two people overcome all obstacles, and finally achieve a happy result and hold hands together.

This is a romantic plot that often appears in novels and is most admired by young men and women.

But the reality is often contrary to people's expectations. The possibility of this kind of love "living together happily forever" is actually not very high.

Precisely because it was so romantic before and both parties gave a lot to each other, while both parties feel cherished, they also often have particularly high expectations for this relationship.

But after getting married, life will take off its romantic cloak and gradually reveal its unadorned true nature, which is a little ugly and a little vulgar.

Not only will the existing problems between the two parties not disappear completely all of a sudden, but the daily problems of daily necessities, supporting the elderly and raising children will become extremely real.

So two people will find that marriage is actually like riding a bicycle or wearing shoes every day. No matter how beautiful the appearance is, it will gradually be ignored by people and covered up by wind, rain and mud. What is important is practicality.

Once this huge gap is not handled well, love will deteriorate, and in the end only complaints and dissatisfaction with the real marriage will remain.

There is another kind, that is, love before marriage is not vigorous, and even a bit compromised. Either the woman is compatible, or the man is compatible. Or maybe both people have given in.

In short, it is the result of people's compromise with objective reality. It is also the most common situation in our reality.

This choice seems to have hidden dangers and problems. But for two people to come together, they must have thought deeply and considered it, and they were more or less prepared for the difficulties they would face.

What's more important is that most people in this era still have a relatively traditional and serious concept of marriage. There is no thought of riding a donkey to find a horse, and there is no room for divorce at all.

Now that they are a couple, each other will try their best to fulfill their obligations as husband or wife to maintain the stability of the family.

In this way, expectations are lower and more inclusive. So often the worst result is that life remains peaceful after marriage.

And if the material conditions are superior, one party's emotions will deliberately accommodate the other party's emotions. There are also parents and relatives on both sides who play some positive roles in it.

Although such a married life cannot be said to be happy and complete, it can be said to be quite high-quality and ideal. The possibility of developing true love or deepening a relationship does exist.

People like Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna fall into the latter category.

Before and after marriage, Zhou Manna should be said to be the one who took the initiative. She pursued Yang Weifan, and after her marriage, she worked hard to change Yang Weifan's lukewarm attitude towards her. So she tried her best to control her eldest lady's temper and especially accommodated him.

Not only to learn how to take care of Yang Weifan's life. And because of the sense of security brought by the "legal license", it was no longer difficult for her to keep a close eye on him and doubt him as before. She is really becoming more and more like a good wife and mother.

This made Yang Weifan feel relaxed and a little moved. Similar to giving back, he will also try his best to satisfy Zhou Manna's life pleasures.

For example, put on sunglasses and accompany her to watch movies, go swimming, go to the park, or go to the store to buy clothes or something. He is also quite like a good husband who dotes on his wife.

As for Zhou Manna's parents, they valued their son-in-law Yang Weifan very much, and treated him like a distinguished guest every time. He also specially transferred his daughter's job to the "Military Newspaper" in order to allow her to have more leisure time and focus on her family.

As for Moody, it will also provide convenience for young couples. Not only are the members of the group closely watching the contact between the actress and Yang Weifan. Even when Yang Weifan went to perform performances with the group, he would arrange for Zhou Manna to go with him.

In this way, the two of them traveled around the mountains and rivers and attended banquets together. It was like a honeymoon trip, which was really enviable to others.

Even Yang Weifan's friends have a harmonious relationship with Zhou Manna.

Take Su Xiaoming as an example. After all, women still have many common topics. What's more, Su Xiaoming also has his own love life, and Zhou Manna will understand it after getting in touch with it more. She was still a little sorry for her previous attitude.

As for Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan, no matter who Yang Weifan marries, they both hope that he can live more comfortably. Not to mention the marriage help, I also contributed two thousand yuan.

This generous gift really surprised Zhou Manna. In order to repay this favor, she specially held a banquet at her house in "Haifang" and cooked for Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan in person. This not only improved Yang Weifan's face, but also greatly improved Hong Yanwu and Chen Liquan's perception of her.

In this way, the married life of Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna reached a beautiful balance. Work is good, family is good, family is good, socializing is good, anyway, I can't find anything bad about it.

To be honest, this kind of day is like being enveloped in a layer of soft and warm sunshine, which is closer to Zhou Manna's perfect imagination, which makes her feel very happy.

Although Yang Weifan still has the shadow of another person in his heart, he also understands that reality is reality. The person sleeping next to him now is Zhou Manna, and she will be the mother of his child in the future.

So I strictly set a cordon in my heart, reminding myself that I must not violate morality.

In addition, he had to admit that the days after marriage were actually much more interesting and rich than he had initially expected.

I saw everyone around me smiling with satisfaction, especially my parents. He even couldn't help but think that if it could stay like this, maybe it wouldn't be so bad...

I don’t know why, sometimes a person’s feelings about life can be completely opposite to the social environment.

As time goes by, just as Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna's married life becomes more and more peaceful and peaceful, the overall social environment becomes more and more lively, restless, and noisy.

Because since March, whether it is the mental outlook of ordinary people, entertainment life, or national policy level, one phenomenon that can arouse collective astonishment in society has occurred one after another. It was simply overwhelming, and I felt an unbearable shock.

March 18th, the second day of the second month of the lunar calendar, is also the second day of the wedding of Yang Weifan and Zhou Manna. As this year's policy announcement, in the conference room of the West Building of Zhongnanhai, a major discussion affecting hundreds of millions of families began.

The central topic of the meeting is: in the face of out-of-control population growth, is it feasible for a couple to have one child? What problems will they encounter and how to solve them?

From this day on, population symposiums were held five times in succession. After discussions with experts from various industries, they successively ruled out problems that would "cause a decline in the quality of the population," "would cause a shortage of labor force," and prevent the occurrence of "421 families." After several key questions, the fertility policy was finally established to encourage a couple to have one child.

Since then, whether in the countryside or in towns, the slogan "One is not enough, two is just right, three is too much" was quietly replaced, and the slogans painted on the walls became "It is better to have only one child!".

In this regard, there was considerable public backlash, although it was firmly suppressed by implementers from various places. But those who really want to have more children will not give up. For example, the "general" who was far away in Bincheng called Hong Yanwu to ask for advice.

The "General" really regrets it. Because when Hong Yanwu was drinking wine for his child's full moon the year before last, he told him in Bincheng that national policies would change, reminding him that he had to hurry up if he wanted to have another child. But who made him not take it seriously. So now when he talks about it, he feels very embarrassed.

"Xiao Wu, I regret not listening to you. A few years ago, I still promoted 'one is a lot, two is just right, three is too much'. Who knew it would become so fast. To tell you the truth, for this I begged a lot of people, but no matter how many gifts I gave, no one dared to say that the country was serious about it. Oh, thinking about this, I really feel sorry for my son's next generation. The children, aunts, uncles, uncles, are all gone. What do you think I should do? Is there really no way I can give birth..."

The "general" also felt guilty. He did not expect that Hong Yanwu would reveal this matter casually. It really relieved his worries.

"Brother, what are you worried about when others are worried? People like us are afraid of 'family planning'? This is a policy, not a law. Shouldn't we be sentenced? Shouldn't we be shot? Then you want a child if you want it? If it’s not over, who can stop you?”

"It's just you and Han Ying who can't make progress in the workplace. If you are a backward model, you won't be able to escape. You will also have to be fined. In the future, if the child is born, it will be a black hole, and we will have to pay for all the expenses ourselves."

"It really doesn't matter if you think about it. Don't worry about the household registration. Things in society are just like that. It will be easier to handle when the policies are relaxed in two years. In short, we are willing to There’s no point in spending money. He’s a good working man, so he can’t be stuffed back into his mother’s womb…”

Not to mention, this idea of ​​"general" is really true. I immediately felt confident. Laughing heartily, on the other end of the phone, he said that Hong Yanwu had hit the nail on the head and was a bit like Zhuge Kongming.

Hong Yanwu was also very modest, saying that Zhuge Liang would not give advice for women to have children. His level is relatively low-end, equivalent to a cobbler.

In addition, in March, the advertising industry in Beijing once again experienced significant development.

Starting from March 10, China Television will broadcast a fifteen-second Japanese "Citizen" watch advertisement every day.

This is the first foreign product advertisement that has been broadcast on the National Television of the Republic for a long time. The Japanese businessman paid 800,000 yuan for this year-long advertising contract. But for a time, "Citizen technology is famous all over the world" has become a household advertising slogan.

As for outdoor advertising, it continues to develop in depth.

An advertisement for wool sweaters was erected on a high-rise building near Sanyuan Bridge. This may be the first billboard on the roof of a building in Beijing. Inspired by this, since then, building advertisements have appeared one after another in the capital.

The downtown commercial district has also changed drastically. In addition to the reappearance of plaque advertisements for time-honored brands on the streets, attractive products and pictures began to appear in the windows.

For example, the "National Photo Gallery" located at the south entrance of Wangfujing Street has not had window advertisements for many years. What was always displayed inside was the "Little Red Book", but now it was replaced by photos of glamorous models. The bulletin board in the "Dongan Market" has also been changed into an advertising window to display the special products in the mall.

But the biggest progress has to be said to be the emergence of lightbox advertising.

Although it is expensive to build and maintain, only a few large shopping malls and restaurants can afford it. But after all, it added a bit of bright color to the dark night in the capital, making the city no longer stiff and cold as soon as it entered the night, but with a bit of life and happiness.

The "Silian Barber Shop" at the northwest entrance of Jinyu Hutong was the first to use light box advertising.

While they took some pictures of modern hairstyles and hung them in the store, they also took out the rotating light box from the warehouse that had been abandoned for many years.

The black and white and blue rotation of this thing is very impactful, especially at night, like a spiraling magic bottle. It caused a big shock as soon as it was put out, attracting passers-by to stop and watch. A reporter from the "Beijing Evening News" even came here and made a special report on this.

This made "Silian" a fashion pioneer. Not only did he impress his peers, he also secured the top spot in the hairdressing industry. It also made their already popular business even more overcrowded.

In most cases, customers who want to come here to get a haircut have to wait several hours for their turn.

In April, when people in the capital completely took off their cotton-padded clothes and trousers, those college students and intellectuals wearing glasses and pens also began to sing Bei Dao's "Reply" and Shu Ting's "To the Oak" And intoxicated. This is a sign that Menglong poetry has begun to be widely recognized and recognized by all walks of life.

But at the same time, the people in the capital were even more surprised to find that the entire city was actually ruled by Liu Lanfang at noon. Starting from this month, for 117 consecutive days, many people in the capital spent their lunch time like this.

At twelve o'clock at noon, the radio was turned on on time. While eating, the family listened quietly to Liu Lanfang's story about Yue Fei's life and death. It was not until the voice of "Listen to the decomposition next time" sounded that the family started washing the dishes. , those who took a nap, those who went out to make soy sauce, scattered in all directions.

And during this period, there was no shortage of people stopping on the road to stop under the eaves of other people's houses or beside shops, and would never go on the road until they had finished listening to the storytelling.

It’s no joke to say that the crowds are always on time. Even public security officials admit that by this time, the crime rate has plummeted. Therefore, not only the police suggested that Liu Lanfang should be given a certificate of merit. Some people actually jokingly called the storytelling actor "Jingjie Tai Sui".

But in fact, it is the semiconductor radio manufacturers and department stores that should be most grateful to Liu Lanfang. Because this year, the backlog of semiconductor radios in many state-owned stores was also sold out. It can be regarded as the last glory of the radio industry before the television era completely ushered in.

For Hong Yanwu, of course, it was inevitable to listen to storytelling with Chen Liquan at "Tianxingju" with the old and young men. But he was far less excited and enthusiastic than everyone else.

The reason for this is that the plot of storytelling no longer has any special appeal to him who is well-informed. The surname of his mother's family is also one of the reasons. He can't join everyone in scolding "Wanyan", right? It feels a bit inappropriate.

On the contrary, two other pieces of news that had not attracted the attention of the general public attracted his attention.

One is that the National Bank announced that foreign exchange certificates would begin circulation on April 1, 1980.

Another one was the great man’s speech on April 2, which stated that individual urban residents can buy houses in installments.