Return To 1977 Chapter 591: Three times

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"Okay, brother. I'm probably the first one in the capital to be able to take advantage of your generous offer! I'm contented! You're the only one who beats me out and doesn't give me blind choices. That's interesting enough. ..."

"Da De He" laughed at first, made some half-joking remarks to himself, and then spoke to "You San".

"Okay, don't get bored here. You will never be on the same level as others! You won't be lucky enough to drink with others! Remember, this is called a master! Since people bother you, stay away from them in the future. Come on, don’t keep us guys drinking.”

This is called the donkey under the slope. With such rhetoric, the benefits are obtained and the face is acceptable. It's all good, but the only one who suffers from it is "You San".

At this time, it must be said that "You San" was very sensible. He had a sneer on his face and quickly withdrew without arguing. The atmosphere at the wine table gradually returned to normal.

However, even though "You San" did such a good job, his exaggerated nod and bow before leaving still made Hong Yanwu feel particularly awkward, making him feel as sick as if he had eaten a fly.

This is because Hong Yanwu suddenly realized that few people could always maintain such a smile in the face of insults.

Who is willing to be humble? Even if you dare not express your anger, you still have to show some dissatisfaction unintentionally. But "You San" looked like a spring-breathed eunuch, as if he was happy to be scolded, which was too unreasonable.

So this kid must be hiding something in his heart. There are eyes behind those eyes, definitely a standard wolfish ambition. The more this happens, the more it proves that human nature is insidious and dangerous.

It seems that this is a bug that can make waves without wind. We must not let such a person gain power! If you want to be remembered by this kid, he will make you feel uncomfortable one day.

To be honest, he is quite worried about "Dadehe" now. With such a master who can hide his heart by his side, if he turns around and plays with him one day, it will be enough for him to choke!

The two awkward things are over now, right? But as the saying goes, again, again, and again.

On September 10, 1980, the third thing that made Hong Yanwu uncomfortable happened again.

On this day, the third session of the Fifth National People's Congress passed the new "Marriage Law of the Republic", which immediately caused an uproar in society.

The new Marriage Law was formulated on the basis of the 1950 Marriage Law, based on practical experience and new situations and issues in the field of marriage and family at that time.

While reiterating the principles of the original Marriage Law, it also added many supplementary policies that are in line with the new social situation. Among them, "breakup of relationship", as the legal reason for divorce, has also been written into the new Marriage Law.

Article 25 of the new "Marriage Law" stipulates: "The People's Court shall conduct mediation when hearing divorce cases. If the relationship has truly broken down and mediation is invalid, divorce shall be granted."

What does this look like now? Of course you should get divorced if your relationship breaks down, but how difficult was it at that time? How earth-shattering?

This provision not only clarifies the statutory grounds for divorce, but also gives the judge discretion. It not only has practical significance in legislation, but also has advanced ideas.

But at the same time, this law also shakes the Chinese people's deep-rooted traditional concept that "marriage is for life" since ancient times.

So much so that many people think it is a law that makes good people suffer and bad people succeed. Even later, many people attributed the increase in divorce rates and third party interference in 1981 to the revision of the Marriage Law.

But these people never thought that a large number of unreasonable marriages at that time were caused by historical issues. It was precisely with this regulation that people had the opportunity to correct their mistakes.

In fact, even if one party is indeed at fault and deliberately creates a situation of "emotional breakdown". But being able to separate from such people as soon as possible is ultimately a good thing for them.

More importantly, the most critical significance is precisely that prohibiting divorce must not be used as a means of punishment.

But having said that, in reality, this legal adjustment based on humanistic considerations does have adverse side effects. That is, for many families, it will also aggravate mental worries and even cause conflicts between husband and wife.

Yang Weifan is the most typical example, someone who is deeply "poisoned".

After the promulgation of the "Marriage Law", when society started to debate what scope could be considered as "emotional breakdown", his life began to be difficult.

Due to the emotional disparity between him and Zhou Manna before their marriage, Zhou Manna became nervous and unconfidently began to guard against him.

Not only did she follow Ah behind him like a shadow every day, but when she was doing laundry, she began to carefully check every part of his coat, hoping to find any clues.

The most common thing she usually said became, "Are you also thinking about 'breaking up' with me? Tell me, which girl in your group do you like? Tell me, and I will make room for you... …”

That kind of joke, which is definitely not a joke, is really disgusting.

In this case, it is impossible for two people not to quarrel.

Once, because of an unintentional joke between Yang Weifan and a female colleague, Zhou Manna lost her temper all night in their "little home" and broke a lot of things in the house.

But it turned out that Yang Weifan couldn't bear it anymore and got angry and said, "If you don't want to leave, just leave." She was scared again, crying and hugging her, apologizing and admitting her mistake.

When things got really bad, Minister Zhou and his wife came to visit. After figuring out what was going on, the old couple gave the young couple 50 bucks each. On the one hand, she criticized Zhou Manna for being nonsense, but on the other hand, she criticized Yang Weifan for not speaking indiscriminately, so the matter passed in a blur.

It is useless to calm down temporarily, but this kind of similar form of quarrel may become the norm between husband and wife in the future, which is painful for both couples.

No way, this is the bitter wine they brewed by themselves, they have to drink it themselves no matter what.

Of course, unlike Yang Weifan, Hong Yanwu's life was not affected by the adjustment of divorce laws. What really caused him mental pain was another change in the Marriage Law - the age of marriage stipulated in our country was adjusted from 20 years old for men and 18 years old for women to 22 years old for men and 20 years old for women.

Needless to say the reason. If nothing unexpected happened at the end of last year, Hong Yanwu and "Tang Xin'er" would be married now. How appropriate that they will get married before the new Marriage Law is introduced.

But now, there is no news from Yi Ren, that is, "Tang Xin'er" is coming back soon, and she has to wait for another two years.

This is called failing to catch up with one step or failing to catch up step by step.

How could Hong Yanwu not think that all this was due to fate not wanting to see him too happy and deliberately playing tricks on him?

How could this not make him think of "Tang Xin'er" again and not feel sad for the happiness that the two of them should have had?

This is just like what was sung in a song. Hong Yanwu really wanted to ask God, "I have been waiting for a thousand years, why doesn't my beloved come back?"

At the same time, he really "touched the sad soul."