There’s a Dragon Girl in the Desolate Sea: 214. The twentieth dragon scales (four)

The 20th Dragon Scale (4)

It's not just Qi Yu, the Ji family also knows that girls the size of their Suisui are already like little adults, but their Suisui doesn't grow much. As family members, they are naturally willing to spoil her, but they can't help thinking about her future. Now that she is protected by her father and brother, she will always marry in the future. If she doesn't learn anything, how can her husband's family depend on her?

Qi Yu said this also to make his wife agree with him. He also loves his daughter and loves her, but he loves her. The daughter's family is all about to get married, so she has to learn what she should learn.

How could the Ji family not know that what her husband said was right? Da Zhou's folk customs are conservative, and he is very restrictive to women. He will be pointed out on weekdays when he shows his face, not to mention his uncle and aunt do not follow the female precepts. Even Ji's, before marrying into Dingguo Gongfu, he studied for many years. I have learned the rules for many years. Especially in the period before marriage, almost every day I have to learn how to manage the mid-feeder and how to serve my in-laws. >

Her daughter is deeply loved, but every woman in the world wants to get married and have children. As a parent, she wants to be spoiled, but her daughter gets married and becomes someone else's family. If there is something wrong with it , the suffering is her own.

Not everyone has the good fortune of the Ji family to marry such a good man as Qi Yu. After being married for many years, Qi Yu has never taken a concubine, and has always loved her very much, but the folk porter wants to take another concubine when he has a few dollars, let alone a high-class family?

The spikes are still small, but they will eventually grow up.

Qi Jiayan and Qi Yixing became silent after hearing this. Linglong sat on her second brother's lap and listened to them reasoning. She didn't want to be a well-behaved and sensible child. Only a child who could cry would have candy. aggrieved. So she was just unreasonable, her eyes blinked, and tears fell down: "Sui Sui doesn't like to learn those things, Sui Sui only likes to eat, drink and have fun, Sui Sui has no dreams, Sui Sui wants to be a salted fish."

For a while, everyone was dumbfounded. Qi Jiayan knocked his brother out and said, "I told you not to bring home the nonsense that I learned in the military camp. It will ruin Suisui."

Qi Yixing was wronged to death. He was very careful at home. How could he say such a thing!

"Sui Sui doesn't want to learn, Sui Sui doesn't like to learn." Linglong rubbed her eyes and cried. She didn't cry like a loud cry, but a thin, small voice with a very pitiful milky voice. People felt that it would be extremely ruthless not to agree to any of her demands. "Sui Sui doesn't like to hold needles and thread, nor does she like to recite three obediences and four virtues. Suisui wants to live happily."

After she finished speaking, she choked up and raised her big red and swollen eyes, looked around from Qi Yu and his wife to the two brothers, and asked helplessly: "Is Suisui not likable? Why do you want to learn These are the only ways to have a good life?"

She's so cute, she learns to serve men and her in-laws? Learning to manage China's feedback and virtues?

I'm afraid I'm not doing a spring and autumn dream.

"Learn a fart!" Qi Yixing burst out first and hugged his sister tightly, "I don't care what my parents think, if Suisui doesn't like it, I don't want to learn it, why should my own pearl in my family want to learn it? Those things that serve people? Could it be that our family can’t afford to support them, and we can’t make money from sewing and sewing? Dad said that the girl’s family should be spoiled, and I’ve never seen it go anywhere, or is it just spoiling to make Suisui cry?”

Among the family members present, Qi Yixing is the youngest, the most irritable, and the least comprehensive, but he doesn't think there is anything wrong with himself. Earning a good future, he will teach anyone who dares to chew his sister's tongue.

Young people have different views from their elders. Qi Jiayan also said: "Women in the world need three obedience and four virtues, so what kind of women should be well-versed in order to get married, but the women I have seen, marry and have children. Raising a daughter, serving her in-laws, and pleasing her husband, her husband has to take in a few more concubines and a couple of concubines. Not to mention, the second uncle's house alone makes a mess. My sister, who I hold in the palm of my hand , why do you have to suffer like this?"

When Mrs. Ji remembered that when she was in her boudoir, her lips and tongues were bitter when she read women's lectures. A man's three wives and four concubines are a good talk, but only one wife is a joke. She just married Qi Yu a few years ago. It was rumored that she was a jealous shrew, but she knew in her heart that even if everyone in the world would call her jealous and not virtuous, she would not take a concubine for a virtuous man named her husband.

Thinking of this, she looked at Qi Yu, Qi Yu was speechless when his wife and children looked at him like this, and sighed for a while, "Sui Sui is really still young, so let's wait until she grows up. ."

"No."

It was Linglong who refused. She rubbed her eyes and wiped her tears: "Sui Sui doesn't like it, Sui Sui doesn't learn."

Little girl doll, but her speech is so firm.

"Sui Sui doesn't like it."

She once again emphasized that she didn't like it, "If Daddy forces Suisui to learn, Suisui will not be happy at all."

She spoke in a milky voice, but her tone and expression were extremely serious.

Yes, every girl has to learn, but she doesn't want to learn, she doesn't like it, if you have to force her, it will make her unhappy.

She just wanted to say that.

As the apple of my parents' palm, and two brothers who love me, why is the real Suisui not willing to be born in this world? She obviously has a very happy family, but because of her fearsome words, she must be an example of a woman. She must be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and she must be virtuous and gentle. She has to keep a distance from them, and she has to learn how to salute when she meets her. She has to recite and study the female precepts over and over again. When she is fifteen years old, she will get married.

Not married?

How about that!

Women in the world have to get married. If you don't marry, you are an alien.

Outliers are to be eliminated and excluded.

When you marry someone, you are no longer a girl, you become a man's subordinate. You have to endure the discomfort and tiredness to serve him, and be happy under him. If you have been married for a few months without news of your belly, even if you are of high birth, you can't just break the family's incense. You have to be generous, you have to be virtuous, you have to take the initiative to make concubines for your husband, you can't cry yet, you have to send him into another woman's room with a smile, who makes your stomach disappoint.

I was spoiled at home, but when I go to someone else's house, I will suffer any grievances. Wake up early to say goodbye to my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law is ill and has to take care of the illness. My mother-in-law is uneasy and she has to follow the instructions to copy the Buddhist scriptures. I can’t complain if my wrist is sore. My husband will only tell you that it is his mother. , don't meet her - but you are deeply loved when you are at home!

Why do you have to get married when you grow up, suffer grievances when you get married, and have to endure grievances by yourself?

In times like these, Suisui's ideas are unacceptable. She just likes to act like a spoiled child with her brothers, let her father hug her in circles, rub her face with her mother, and snuggle up beside her grandparents. She likes to read, wants to ride a horse, and even wants to go to distant places to see the beautiful mountains and rivers, the scenery of Saibei , Ice and Snow Plateau, she didn't want to live in such a high gate compound all her life, covering her face when she went out.

She doesn't like Nvhong, she doesn't want to recite any kind of female ring and female training, she doesn't want to get married, she feels pain, she hates her mother-in-law who is always yin and yang, and she doesn't like the one who always makes her take a lot of care husband.

But what can be done?

Everyone wants her to learn, she wants to marry, her heart is broken when she is a concubine to her husband, who will pity her? When she gave birth to the child, the pain was about to die, but her mother-in-law also blamed her stomach for giving birth to a daughter. Everyone says that when you get married, it is different from being at home. You have to learn to sacrifice and give, to raise children for your husband, to be filial to his parents for him, and to take care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation.

What about her?

Why should she live for these people?

The mother said, Suisui, you have to learn.

My father said that Suisui girls from other families are like this.

The brothers said that Suisui can no longer hold her brother when she grows up.

That's it.

So be it.

But she doesn't want to be born in such a world anymore. Even if she lives for one day, she feels tormented even to breathe.

She's finally pregnant with her second child, and she can't help it! When I gave birth to my daughter, my body was broken, and after a few years of recuperation, I still had to give birth. Otherwise, my mother was worried about her. If she didn't have a son, how could she have a foothold in her husband's family? Several concubines have popped up, and she still has only one daughter.

But she likes her daughter, so small, so delicate, so pitiful, but as long as she thinks that her daughter will repeat her life again, Suisui feels very boring.

She couldn't survive. She tried her best to give birth to a son but collapsed and died. She didn't know how long her husband would miss her before marrying again, and how long her family would be sad, so she continued to live her own life.

So Linglong helped her to say what she had never said.

I just don't like it.

Qi Yu was stunned, Ji Shi was also stunned, and even his two older brothers were stunned.

Brothers will stand on Linglong's side, and Linglong's subtle influence over the past few years is also indispensable. Otherwise, with Qi Jiayan's observant character, how could she still hold her high when she is seven years old. She's too cute, too likable, she acts like a spoiled child, she also cries, she's not the real Hoosi, and will follow her parents' words because of their worries.

She is Linglong.

No one can force, no one can change, and never wronged their exquisiteness.

She doesn't like it, she just doesn't like it, it's useless for anyone to force her.

As for the eyes of the world - if your family can stand by your side and support you firmly, why should you please the world?

This is what the real Sui Sui wants.