Top Ten Good Mothers in Quick Transmigration Chapter 638: : Single mothers with negative education (10)

Yin Yin panicked and said distressedly: "What's wrong, why are you crying?"

Could it be that her tone just now was too strong?

She knew that Yin Yu and Yin Cheng had always been under the negative voice of the original owner. From the original owner's point of view, Yin Yu and Yin Cheng could not achieve the kind of excellence she wanted, so what was given to the two children has always been It's all negative, no matter how good they are, they can't change it.

The original owner's requirements for the two children are very good, and her own personality is that kind of complaining, so she does not allow the two children to make mistakes, even if it is a little mistake, she will scold for a long time.

This also caused the two children not to be close to her. In front of the mother who was supposed to be the closest, they were cautious about what they did and said, for fear that they would be afraid if they made a mistake accidentally. Resist and develop a cowardly character.

They were denied by the original owner and their self-confidence was constantly hit, so they felt that they were not good enough and had low self-esteem.

But, everyone has their first time, and they can do everything at the beginning. Children can't do it. Isn't what parents have to do to teach them patiently? If parents and children start on the same starting line, it is not certain who is more capable than the other.

Besides, even if you don't know how to do it, no one stipulates that people must be omnipotent. Everyone is good at something. Those who are not good at, as long as he can realize his value in a certain field, he is a good one.

In the learning stage of children, what parents should give most is patience and encouragement, rather than accusation and criticism. The latter is what Yin Yin dislikes the most.

Besides, who in this world doesn't make mistakes? Why does the original owner turn a blind eye when he makes a mistake, but is so harsh when the child makes a small mistake, or even just accidentally breaks a cup?

Small mistakes can be forgiven and corrected.

Great mistakes have a chance to be forgiven.

All mistakes are not a big deal in front of life and death.

The endings of the two children in their previous lives are also related to their personalities. If Yin Yu didn't keep loathing men for the original owner, Yin Yu wouldn't be afraid of marriage, and she might have a happy life with Ling Jin. If Yin Yu If you are not cowardly and have your own opinions, you will not be so humble in front of your scumbag husband and in-laws, and afraid of being abandoned.

If Yin Cheng hadn't been cowardly and inferior, he wouldn't have been easily deceived when that false virgin girl appeared, and he wouldn't have been unable to bear to die with her.

So, Yin Yin does not agree with the original owner's education method, but now Yin Yu and Yin Cheng's personalities have been affected by the original owner, what Yin Yin can do is to change the education method, to give the two children affirmation and encouragement.

At this time, Yin Yu raised his red eyes and confirmed to Yin Yin: "Mom, do you really not blame me?"

Yin Yin vaguely saw from memory that because she was used to being accused, every time her mother hadn't spoken, Yin Yu would habitually apologize.

But her eyes were still full of hope at first, and she hoped that her mother would tell her "it's no big deal", say "just be careful next time", and say "it's okay, everyone makes mistakes when".

But what Yin Yu got was one blow after another.

But this time, Yin Yin finally told her "it's okay", but she turned from eager to unsure, so she was sure again.

Yin Yu should be so afraid of being blamed, and so used to being blamed, that without the blame and disappointment, she didn't believe it immediately.

This is the sorrow of the original owner's negative education.