Wishing You Eternal Happiness Chapter 1041: : 3 plus etiquette
The Ministry of Rites sent hairpin gifts prepared by various families in Beijing to Yuyuan.
The endless flow of gifts opened the eyes of those who came to watch the ceremony today, and they also deeply realized how noble the status of Princess Shao Yichang was.
At auspicious times, the sound of silk and bamboo is heard.
Uncle Xie Xun stood up and gave a speech.
Yu Youyao, who was dressed in plain clothes, walked slowly into the flower stand where she was receiving hairpins. After bowing to the viewing platform, she knelt down in the banquet.
As a complimenter, Princess Lishan also dressed up to attend. She dipped her hands into the copper basin, performed a washing ceremony, and then helped Yu Youyao comb her hair.
The tooth comb was gently scraped from the top of her head, and combed all the way to the hairline, again and again, until her long black hair was draped behind her head like a waterfall, exuding a dense luster under the candlelight. So beautiful.
After the ceremony, Princess Lishan placed the boxwood comb to the south.
Looking at this boxwood comb that had been used for many years, Yu Youyao thought of Yin Huaixi, and felt a little empty in her heart, feeling a little aggrieved for no reason.
At this time, the old princess of Longjun, as the guest of honor, got up and went up the east steps to wash herself.
The second old lady and the clan leader’s wife quickly accompanied him.
After the ceremony, both parties greeted each other.
The secretary brought the ropa and hairpin. It was the phoenix-shaped hairpin with beads in it that was given to Yu Youyao on his fifteenth birthday by Yin Huaixi.
Yu Youyao stood up and faced east, saluted the guests, and sat on the hairpin mat. When her eyes touched the long hairpin, her heart trembled, and a sour and sweet taste spread.
She took a deep breath and gradually calmed down the sourness in her heart.
The old princess of Long County came forward and recited a congratulatory message: "On the auspicious day of the month, we will start to add Yuan clothes. Abandon your young aspirations, follow you and become virtuous. The longevity test is only for Qi, and you will be blessed."
Then, he knelt down and combed Yu Youyao's head into a bun. Her long, shiny black hair was gathered on top of her head and combed into a rounded shape. It looked like a peak when viewed horizontally, or a ridge when viewed horizontally, and the peaks and ridges were as beautiful as the overlapping peaks.
The heart bun is a high bun, which is also a solid bun. Most women often wear their hair after they have hair extensions.
Because there are so many styles of peach-heart buns, there are hundreds of ways to comb them, each with its own charm. Even if the same bun is combed and paired with different jewelry, the charm will be different. In the Zhou Dynasty Very fashionable.
After combing her hair into a bun, Princess Longjun picked up the long phoenix hairpin with pearls in it and solemnly added the hairpin to Yu Youyao: "One plus has just begun."
The phoenix holds a beaded hairpin like a phoenix resting in her hair. The tassel pendant reaches below her ears and trembles lightly on her temples and cheeks, revealing her chaste and quiet demeanor.
Princess Lishan stepped forward and symbolically held the hairpin for Yu Youyao.
Yu Youyao stood up slowly, and everyone watching the ceremony bowed and congratulated one after another. The scene was very lively.
After the ceremony, she returned to the east room. Yu Youyao put on a plain dress that matched her hairpins, tidied up her appearance, returned to the banquet, and showed off to the spectators!
"A bow, a blood relative and a blessing!"
Yu Youyao's mother died early, and her father was far away in Beijing, so naturally he could not come. The Yu family prepared a memorial tablet for Xie family, and his uncle Xie Xun inherited his father's rites.
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "mother's uncle is the eldest uncle". "Shuowen" has a detailed explanation of the word "uncle". In ancient diplomacy, big princes with different surnames could be called "uncle", and small princes could be called "uncle". It can be called "uncle". The word "uncle" can rise to the rank of prince of a country, second only to the king of a country.
In some places, there is a saying that "there is thunder in the sky and uncle in the ground". To a certain extent, "uncle" can take over the responsibilities of parents.
Among all kinship relationships, uncle has the greatest and closest status.
Yu Youyao understands this very well.
In a family, both uncles and uncles have direct interests involved. Interests take the dominant position, and family ties take second place.
But as an uncle, he doesn’t have many direct interests involved,
On the contrary, family affection takes the lead. Having a good uncle is a rare blessing. With the support of an uncle, life in the father's family is generally not too bad.
Yu Youyao's mother died young. If she had some good uncles or a grandmother who loved her, she might not know what her life would be like in the Yu Mansion.
So, in the absence of Yu Zongzheng, his uncle Xie Xun naturally accepted the ceremony in his place.
Yu Youyao thought that after her grandmother passed away, several uncles helped her escape from the Yu Mansion at all costs. After leaving Jingzhao, several uncles often gave guidance and support. Even her current status is thanks to her. The government spared no effort to help, regardless of gains or losses.
With mixed feelings for a moment, Yu Youyao knelt on the ground and sincerely bowed down to her uncle Xie Xun and her mother's memorial tablet. For some reason, her eyes suddenly turned red.
One plus gift.
The two-plus ceremony begins.
The administrator brought the ropa and hairpin.
The old princess of Long County came forward again and recited a congratulatory message: "The auspicious month is the day when Shen Erfu is in charge. Respect you for your majesty, Shu Shen's virtue. May your eyebrows live for thousands of years, and you will always be blessed by Hu Fu."
Then, he removed Yu Youyao's hair and knelt down to insert her hairpin.
It was one that her grandmother had prepared for her. It was made of gold silk and a golden phoenix inlaid with a large ruby hairpin. The silk craftsmanship was so ingenious that even the feathers of the phoenix were revealed. It was inlaid with more than a dozen pieces of pure natural material and was not carved. The rubies are like dove blood, as rich as fire, as red as blood.
The hairpin is a single strand and is mostly used to fix hair. ~IndoMTL.com~ Hairpins are divided into two or more strands and are often used to hold up hair or decorate buns. There are many ways to insert hairpins, such as oblique insertion, upside down insertion, twisted insertion, etc. The hairpin strands are mostly made of gold and silver and can be bent flexibly. Smaller than a hairpin.
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Sitting aside, Ms. Wang also had mixed feelings and patted her hand gently to express comfort.
Mrs. She also got a little choked up: "I suddenly felt a little grateful to her. She raised little Yao'er very well, very well..."
I think I should be happy to see her Izumi Youzhi~IndoMTL.com~.
Princess Lishan arranged the hairpin for Yu Youyao, and Yu Youyao went to the room and put on a dark dress with a deep skirt that matched the hairpin.
"Two obeisances, the elders love and care for you!"
Yu Youyao held back her tears and paid homage to her great-grandfather, maternal grandfather, maternal grandmother, second old lady, the patriarch’s wife, and several uncles and aunts one by one. Thinking of how much they had cared for her over the years, her nose felt sore. .
Until this moment, she could truly realize that the hairpin ceremony is not just a ceremony, and it is not just a matter of completing the etiquette. It is the greatest filial piety ceremony in the past and present. Be grateful to your parents and elders, and understand that from now on, you must assume the responsibilities, obligations, and responsibilities that an adult needs to bear.
So it is solemn and profound.
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The etiquette of ancient times and the Hairpin Ceremony are very complicated. Here is just an explanation. Please don’t take it too seriously~
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