Wishing You Eternal Happiness Chapter 727: :estrangement
Yu Youyao took the small bowl and paused when he picked up the spoon: "Did cousin send it over there?"
Before Nanny Xu could answer, she saw Yin Huaixi opening the curtain and coming in.
Yin Huaixi glanced at Nanny Xu.
Nanny Xu narrowed her eyes, lowered her head and left the house, and ordered Chunxiao to stay outside and not allow outsiders to disturb her.
Yu Youyao quickly put down the small bowl and asked, "Why are you here? Have you eaten your dinner?"
"I heard from Chunxiao that you didn't have much dinner, so I came over to see you." Yin Huaixi picked up the small bowl in front of her and stuffed it into her hand: "Eat more, I've already had dinner. ."
Yu Youyao eats porridge obediently.
Yin Huaixi propped up his forehead and watched her eating slowly and in small bites. Her manners were elegant, which was pleasing to the eye no matter how she looked at her.
Such good manners are the result of more than three years of careful training by Aunt Xu.
His eyes were deep, and Yu Youyao couldn't eat because of his gaze. She barely finished the porridge, and then asked: "Why do you keep looking at me?"
"I see you have lost a lot of weight." Yin Huaixi came closer to her, lifted her chin with one finger, and looked at her carefully: "You are not eating less medicinal food to nourish your mind, but you are getting thinner?"
The old lady has passed the first seven days, and no matter how much sadness she has, she has dissipated a lot, not to mention Yu Youyao is not a person who indulges in sadness,
The medicinal meals delivered every hour were eaten by watching her.
Yu Youyao was not used to being looked at by him like this, so she tilted her head and avoided his fingers: "Mama Xu said that I had a twitch, so I looked thinner."
When I came back this time, I saw that I had indeed grown taller.
Did he have a cigarette or have he really lost weight? How could he not have this kind of eyesight?
Thinking of the many things that happened in the Yu Mansion during this period, Yin Huaixi felt heartbroken and said, "You didn't discuss the haircut with me."
Yu Youyao nodded: "I just want it to be smoother, and the clan is not willing to bear the burden. The bad reputation of forcing the eldest daughter of the direct branch to become a sister-in-law will be restrained later."
Later, the clan leader did not want to get involved. A large part of the reason was that she threatened to cut her hair and become a sister-in-law, which made the clan worried that she would cause a scandal.
In addition to being the daughter of the Yu family, she also received a clan title.
Yin Huaixi was silent for a long time before speaking: "Both men and women only trim their hair, not cut it. The only time they cut their hair is on their wedding day. During the wedding ceremony, men and women must each cut their hair. Knot them together and put them in a sachet full of red beans, which means that they are a couple and their love is unquestionable. After the husband has untied the cloud ring, he will separate his hair. Looking for someone, tie them into a heart-shaped knot. After the husband dies , the sachet was buried together."
Long hair cannot be cut, only hair can be trimmed.
The wedding ceremony of the Zhou Dynasty involves the wedding ceremony.
Although the hair-tying ceremony was not popular in the Zhou Dynasty, there were still many loving couples who performed the hair-tying ceremony on their wedding day.
So this strand of hair, cut on her head, hurt his heart.
The only time he had his hair cut was not at a wedding, but under the glaring eyes of his tribe and forced him to do so. Does this also reflect his incompetence? !
Yu Youyao was stunned for a moment, feeling an indescribable feeling in her heart.
Seemingly feeling that this was a bit inappropriate, Yin Huaixi quickly changed the topic: "We have all prepared for leaving Beijing. Once the old lady is buried, I will send you to Quanzhou." He held Yu Youyao Rouruo's hand. Boneless Hand: "Don't be afraid. Quanzhou is a port city with easy access to trade. It receives visitors from all directions and collects wealth from all over the world. The atmosphere is more open than in Beijing. There are also women doing business. When you get there, You should feel more comfortable."
It was her dream to leave the Yu Mansion and Jingzhao.
On this day, she discovered that the farthest place she had been to was Tongzhou Clan, but Tongzhou was less than a day's journey from Beijing.
Now she is going to Quanzhou, which is thousands of miles away.
It's a completely strange place.
After arriving in Quanzhou, everything has to start over, including family relationships, communication, property, etc.
Yin Huaixi seemed to know what she was thinking.
Yu Youyao nodded: "Most women spend their whole lives trapped in the back house without seeing the vastness of the world. I am lucky to have the opportunity to leave the Yu Mansion, go out of Jingzhao, and see the colorful outside of the deep house compound."
For some reason, Yin Huaixi felt that his words were a bit untrue: "Quanzhou has always worshiped business, and the Xie Mansion has a very important position in Quanzhou. You are an official daughter, and you have also been granted the title of the head of Shaoyi County. With the protection of the Xie Mansion, you can almost Walk sideways, and Quanzhou is very rich in aquatic products, offering delicacies from all over the world, and many fresh seafood, which are not available in the capital. You should like it very much."
Yu Youyao was silent for a moment and then said: "I will observe filial piety for my grandmother for three years. Within three years, I will not eat meat, visit neighbors, or participate in banquets, and live in seclusion."
Logically speaking, grandchildren only need to observe filial piety for one year, but Yu Youyao was raised by Mrs. Yu since she was a child. It is natural for her to want to observe filial piety for two more years and devote herself to her grandmother.
The atmosphere suddenly became quiet.
A thing called estrangement spreads between them.
Yin Huaixi pursed his lips and suddenly realized that although Yu Youyao was looking forward to returning to her mother's clan, she was not that enthusiastic or happy.
She seemed to have many worries hidden in her heart.
This time when he left Beijing, he missed too much of Yu Youyao's joys and sorrows. After all, they were different.
He was happy that he got Mrs. Yu's token. Yu Youyao also left the Yu Mansion and was approaching him little by little.
But she was sad that her grandmother had passed away, her eyes were closed, and her face was no longer happy.
Yu Youyao suddenly realized that her attitude was wrong and said quickly: "I just suddenly thought that it would be very unfilial for me to stay away from Jingzhao for three years after the death of a relative. Once my grandmother's funeral is over, I will stay away from Jingzhao."
Yin Huaixi said: "Your grandmother left a last word, and the clan agreed, so no one will think you are unfilial. If you feel uncomfortable, you can copy a few more scriptures for your grandmother."
Yu Youyao nodded. ~IndoMTL.com~ Yin Huaixi sighed softly and changed the topic: "After I send you to Quanzhou, I will stay in Quanzhou for a while."
It’s just that we are not in the Xie Mansion, so we probably won’t be able to see each other all the time.
Yu Youyao suddenly raised her head, her tense heartstrings suddenly relaxed, but she was still asking: "What should we do over there in the north? There is more than just Harmon in Beidi. Wouldn't the other leaders just want to rob? Are supplies invading the northern border?"
Yin Huaixi obviously felt it, and her attitude changed: "Hamon is the strongest tribe in Beidi. The other tribes are not enough to be feared. Yin Yi can handle it." At this point, he looked at the little girl and became smaller. His face was filled with distress: "I'm even more worried that you have just arrived in Quanzhou, and I don't trust you to be left there alone."
She suddenly lost her loved ones and had to stay away from the place she had known since childhood.
I can’t let go of the North, let alone her.
Yu Youyao was happy in her heart and said softly: "I'm fine, Xie Mansion is my maternal family."